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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-10-09 08:40 PM
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Moving on . . .
husb was (finally) properly served with complaint for separation agreement couple weeks ago (saga recited here) and he's replied. He replied himself (pro se), he's a lawyer and may think he can handle this himself.

So I have the opportunity to let my lawyer know what I think about his reply. Fortunately or not, his reply is full of lies and misinterpretations of facts, so now I have to go thru his reply and respond. Not happy right now, but I'll make the most of this opportunity. Scheduling hearing in court 8/27.
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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 08:41 AM
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1. Stay strong
It is so hard to realize the person you love is lying to you and about you. If you need a shoulder, I'm a PM away.

:hug:
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 08:51 AM
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2. Thanks so much, Awake.
My 'problem,' for all those years, was to have been SUCH A SUCKER!!! I believed almost everything he told me.

Now, as I review his Answer to my Complaint, I'm UTTERLY ASTONISHED at the brazeness of the lies! I hope like heck the court kicks him in the ***, that is, awards me huge alimony, and all kinds of things. UNBELIEVABLE!

More astonishing almost is how I could ever have 'loved' him. MANY new thoughts on that word now.

Thanks for your thoughts.

:hug:
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:53 PM
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3. Awake, I just finished review of his document,
and sent it to my lawyer. Was longer than I expected; 5 Word pages. I do think his b.s. should be answered, tho its not necessary in many such cases. Will be interested to hear what my lawyer has to say.

I'm glad that's over. NOW I go to bed! Haven't rested since I received his document!

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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 08:29 PM
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4. You deserve the rest.
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