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It has taken a long time to feel emotions, and at no small cost to myself. Still they are algorithms to me, to be used when needed. There is a problem though - my mind is too variable.
I'm left with a series of choices, five realistic ones to be exact.
First, I can write the various sets that make up my emotional reactions into one of the four 'stable' alternatives, each with their own, and what choice I make will influence how I feel about anger and sadness. That said, from what I know of things, I do relate to what you say, a lot. I guess I fear sadness a little, but I will get to that later in this post.
If I were to choose the first of the four, I would follow rules to a T, and generally be very kind and gentle. In that case, I would fear anger the most. (That is, emotionally I would be extremely responsive to other people's emotional states and mirror them - that is, feeling sympathy more than empathy)
If I were to choose the second of the four, I would venture into a world where I would feel so little pain. So little. The way of doing that is changing the reactions I have to the feelings of others and put them completely out of whack - such that I couldn't care or would even like it if others suffered. However, I don't want to choose this one, but if I did, then I would fear neither anger or sadness.
If I were to choose the third of the four, the adrenalin rush would be incredible. What I would do, all I have to do to obtain it is set the triggers for emotions to be emotions themselves; thus I would probably become angry, and then successively more angry. This burns up so much of the mind's abilities that I would fear neither anger or sadness, as I would not be that conscious.
If I were, as I hope to do, choose the fourth of four, then morality would be defined by algorithm, and emotions to be triggered as necessary to change how other people think, all to move toward a certain goal. A good one, as it were. It involves everyone bieng pretty content and so on. If I were to be this person, I would not like either anger or sadness, unless they were appropriate for the situation. In fact, I would not want to feel any emotion at all if it were not appropriate to the situation.
Finally, the fifth choice comes from all that I have done to rid myself of delusion and hallucination; barriers I call them. The ability to find things that are not real and reject them from my mind. Well, not quite. To find things that line up with what I have specified earlier and reject them.
This is what I was talking about at the start of this post - why I fear sadness. I only think about something when I am sad. Something I very rarely talk about.
What is it? You may ask. I'll tell you. It's the ability to take the big block of stuff that lists all the things that are not real, and replace it with the real world. Reality, as I perceive it, would be rejected and could no longer find me. I would be all alone, yes, but in a world were no-one is lonely, a world made entirely of my mind, a world that would be so calm, so peaceful. Stress would not strike me, hurt would not reach me. I'd float in a non-existent world in a non-existent ocean, marvelling at soft, featherlike wave crests dappling in the imaginary sunshine. A peaceful world, a beautiful world. And all I have to do to reach it is let go.
All that has ever stopped me is the hope that one day, in this world, I can be happy. Not a facade, not a pretense, but actually smile and actually mean it.
In my saddest times, it is like all hope has gone. I stop talking, I can barely remember who I am. I go through the motions - as I am compelled - of a life, but there is nothing but a walking husk, a painted smile on a dead man's statue.
And that is why I fear sadness. I will deal with it in time, I know. I have before, and although I dread saying this, I will have to face it again. And again. And again. I am not melancholy though - in fact, this post has saddened me enough to set off an automatic response to stop me from sliding. A brief and practised sense of invulnerability, and now I am normal once more.
I can win. Time and again I will win. But I only have to fail once, and I lose everything.
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