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I am on disability. Because of my current physical problems, most people assume physical problems are my main disability. Not so. Well, maybe physical problems are the cause. There are definitely physical components to Depression, OCD and PTSD, the diagnoses that led to my getting Social Security Disability Insurance. Tack on diabetes and degenerative disc disease with mucho pain and I am really, really disabled. :) I'm hoping my recent operation will fix the physical pain, but I'm worried about the outcome...I've had some weird symptoms lately.
SSI Disability doesn't pay very much. In fact, I learned that with my hefty credit card bills, I can't afford to live on what I get each month. :( I still need outside help, which is frustrating as hell.
My counselor helped me through the process and told me, "They ALWAYS reject you the first time around." But that wasn't the case for me. I had a background that verily screamed I was telling the truth about my afflictions. I was approved on the first go-around.
The lesson in that is this: If you are not approved the first time, apply, apply again. Good luck! Oh, also: see if you can find an advocate that will help you through the process. Red tape is a maze. Things change so quickly that what was true last month may not be this month. Slowly but surely I've learned what works. While trying to get IHSS for help after surgery, I went into the office in person and asked them for a physical copy of my rejection so my lawyer could file an appeal. I don't have a lawyer, but I got an in-home appointment and was later approved. It's a damn good thing, too, because I had no one to help me at the time.
Unfortunately, IHSS wasn't enough and I had to allow toxic family back into my life. :( That hurts, but I always have the option of trying to limit contact at some point, or throwing them out of my life completely. That hurts, too. Toxic family is a conundrum. You love 'em; you hate 'em. It hurts like hell.
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