And I'm quite sure we all enjoy a mutual respect with you Cindy. :hi:
Short version of my story, since I've done this before (see my journal): Jewish is not just religion, it's culture. With respect to the post above, I guess I can only speak about European Jewish culture. Things like language, (Yiddishisms and other patterns) food, humor and other literature, music, (Jewish harmonies have a relation to jazz and blues) and education, philosophy, and ethics kind of stick. I'll also echo a post above by saying, "When they come for the Jews, they won't ask about your beliefs." We all have a sense of the holocaust. Most of us have a strong commitment to civil rights.
In our recent Darwin Day celebration we had a speaker who is an atheist rabbi.(!) He's also a lawyer who takes First Amendment cases. In nearby
Delray Beach there is a secular synagogue (different rabbi.) It's just full of atheist Jews.
From Wikipedia:
Secularism and Nontheism became widespread among Jews only in the 19th century, during the Haskalah, many of whose leaders rejected all traditional religious practice and belief in favor of reason and the scientific method. Among the activist and intellectual leaders at the end of the 19th and beginning of the 20th centuries who contributed most to the development of Humanistic Judaism were Ahad Ha’am, Simon Dubnow, and Chaim Zhitlovsky. In its current form, Humanistic Judaism was founded in 1963 by Rabbi Sherwin Wine. As a rabbi trained in Reform Judaism, with a small secular, non-theistic congregation in Michigan, Wine developed a Jewish liturgy that reflected his, and his congregation’s, philosophical viewpoint by emphasizing Jewish culture, history, and identity along with Humanistic ethics while excluding all prayers and references to God. This congregation developed into the Birmingham Temple, now in Farmington Hills, Michigan. It was soon joined by a previously Reform congregation in Illinois led by Rabbi Daniel Friedman, as well as a group in Westport, Connecticut.
In 1969, these congregations and others were united organizationally under the umbrella of the Society for Humanistic Judaism (SHJ). The International Federation of Secular Humanistic Jews, comprised of organizations in thirteen countries, was founded in 1986. There are an estimated 50,000 members worldwide.
Jewishness is a tribal identity, and Jews can be as atheist as can be, say Italians or Irish. In fact, though he wouldn't say it in so many words, the rabbi who
bar mitzvahed me was an atheist.
--IMM