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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-21-08 09:36 PM
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I beg your pardon!
Edited on Sun Dec-21-08 09:37 PM by davsand
Back in the days when I was a member of a regular circle, one thing we did this time of year was to offer up an apology to any and all that we may have offended in the prior year.

While I realize that not everyone here shares my tradition, I do want to offer up my sincere apology if I have offended you in this prior year. It has been painful year for many of us, and I am very sorry if I have not provided you enough support or have left you feeling that I do not care. Please forgive me if I have been unkind or if I have made you feel diminished in any way.

It is my dearest with that we may all experience joy, peace, and love for each other in the time to come.



Laura
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-21-08 09:52 PM
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1. I like this tradition. I'll add my sincere apology to yours.
If I have hurt anyone, please know that it wasn't intentional.

Thank you for this thread, Laura.

:grouphug:

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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:41 AM
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6. Thank you for stepping up.
It opens some mental doors, doesn't it?

May you find in this year all you need, my friend!

:hug:


Laura
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Why Syzygy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-21-08 10:39 PM
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2. Thank you, Laura.
You have NEVER offended me in any way, just to let you know.

This is a lovely tradition.
I'm going to give it some thought for certain people in my life.
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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:36 AM
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5. I've found it helps me ID a lot of things I do and never realize at the time.
Probably not everybody's idea of a "fun" time but one that I wanted to share with you all.

Peace to you today, and the rest of the year.


Laura
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Celebration Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:15 AM
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3. Oh, oh, now I am feeling guilty........
This needs to be on my "to do" list.

I am sure you are home free in this group, Laura.

Peace, Love, and Joy are great things to experience, both over the holiday and throughout the year. Let's do it!
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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:33 AM
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4. I don't think this is about "guilt" so much as forgiveness.
Guilt is what we torture ourselves with. Forgiving is how we free our spirit. Sometimes it is about forgiving ourselves, sometimes it is about taking time to care for our own being along with everyone else.

Peace and healing to you, dear one. You are without blame as far as I am concerned.


:hug:


Laura
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Celebration Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 11:23 AM
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8. Already let it go--
Also, something of a joke to begin with. I don't do guilt all that well. Although, I did have a twinge of the SHOULDS. :)

Good for you for starting this thread.
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 08:15 AM
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7. I apologize for any offense or hurt I caused
:hug:
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crikkett Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:25 PM
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9. as do I
and I apologize for recent snarkiness as well.

I appreciate this forum and I am grateful for it; thank you all.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 04:03 PM
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10. I apologize for being a drama queen!!
and if I have not been as supportive as some would have needed me to be.

Love to you all!
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Callie McAllie Donating Member (873 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 04:40 PM
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11. This is a great thing to do. I apologize to anyone I've offended
in particular to NJCher, for at least one snarky post, but also to anyone else who may have been hurt or upset by my words.

Here's to starting the New Year with a clean conscience.

:toast:
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