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onecent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-30-06 06:44 PM
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I could sure use some "warm fuzzies" or light or healing or prayers,
if you could spare a few.

My 39 yr old son is having some difficulty. He does have many problems holding jobs...and has been a deadbeat dad for some time. He managed, thru the kindness of someone who loves him, to pay over $7000 and it brought him almost up-to-date.

However he has been picked up in CA, and they are talking about transferring him to the orig. state...but he now owes less than $300.

I cannot contact him...because he hasn't signed for me to be privy to anything. We haven't talked much in the last 5 years, but I would like to make sure he is safe, and assist him in a small financial way if it will help.

I have used SO MUCH TOUGH LOVE with this boy - it's amazing I have any left. Please send me good thoughts, I will use them all.

I so wish I could make things ok for him. It hurts so much to have a child (no matter what age) incarcerated. It chills me.

Some times I just want to block this out so I don't have to deal with it.

Why do our own problems seem like the worse problems in the world?
I pray his life will turn around...but it hasn't in 39 years....he seems to have 2 personalities. One I love, the other I would gladly drown in the nearest river.

Thanks all.



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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-30-06 06:46 PM
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1. ....
I have no words of wisdom,but lots of hugs. It feels good for me to be able to send some to you when I myself am so upset. Thank you for allowing me to give! :hug: :hug:
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-30-06 07:10 PM
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2. Much love and light to you, onecent.
I don't know how you feel about channelled messages, but there is something in one of the Kryon messages that might help you:

(I included more than 4 paragraphs because the article contained the following notice: "The information below is free and available for you to print out, copy and distribute as you wish. Its Copyright, however, prohibits its sale in any form except by the publisher.")

Question #7 I'm worried about my young adult children.

"Dear Spirit: I have children who are almost grown. At least they think they are. I'm losing contact with them. They don't pay attention to me anymore. I fear for them. I don't know what to do. I've been a good parent and a lightworker. I've tried to show them love, but they don't listen. I'm afraid for them as they walk into a new Earth. I don't know what they're into or what they might do. I don't know - I just don't. What can I do?"

Well, dear one, let's take first things first. Why don't you sit down and let us hug you for a while? There's nothing for you to do at this moment except to understand some spiritual dynamics. We say this, mother and father: When they were small children, you opened your jar of love and you poured it into that child. For all of these years, your jar poured and poured. Here is new information, yet intuitive. It's also ancient information and lasts forever.

Every single Human Being, as a child, has a jar that's empty, ready to be filled. Whatever the energy is of the parent around them, that jar is permanently open during childhood and will be filled with whatever energy and whatever light or dark goes on within the parent. Now, if you've filled that child's jar with white light, and if you've given them love - a responsible spiritual home - if they've been able to see how love works, then you stand clean in this. Oh, you may worry about them, and that's a typical Human fact. That's where we come in as family to help you . . . to sit next to you and hold your hand and say, "It's done. Your work is finished."

Whatever happens now is their choice, and it's the way of it. You know that. It was the same with you. But here is what you may not have known: Even after you may be gone, that child still has the free choice to reach down and open that jar and discover you! Do you understand what I'm saying? There comes a time in that child's life when they may wish to open the jar. And if they do, they'll discover the love you gave them! They'll start experiencing the memories and the responsibility issues - the things that you told them were the truth. They'll experience the now of you, the truth of what you taught, even if you're not here . . . even if you're a long way away. That is an axiom . . .a rule. It is forever.

The jar is full, and that's the way you send them out . . . prepared and ready, if they don't see it. You haven't failed. It's free choice for the child, but if they wish to open the jar, they're going to find the love that you gave them. And the beauty of this is that from your wisdom, they'll take the jar and they'll pour its contents into their children. Therefore, this is your lineage . . . that what you give a child today may be good for many generations down the line. Sometimes you only see the immediate problems and challenges, never understanding how profound you affect the energy of those who follow you. We speak in love . . . just wanting you to know and understand this . . . to capture for a moment the compassion of what may happen in a special moment with that precious soul who entrusted their childhood to you . . . when they someday open the jar.

http://www.kryon.com/k_chanelreno.html


I will keep you in my thoughts. :hug:

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onecent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-30-06 08:28 PM
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3. thanks so much to both of you. Kryon's messages seem to hit
it head on. Thanks for the well wishes...it's such a strange time. And now tonight my husband (not the father) and I are having some disagreements (which is kind of rare).

Everything makes me so sad right now.
Thanks.
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-30-06 08:44 PM
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4. Mercury is retrograde right now, so maybe the disagreements with...
your husband are being influenced by that. (I personally have decided to blame everything that goes wrong in my life over the next 3 weeks on Mercury. ;o) )

I wish that I could do something to make you feel better...

:hug:
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rumpel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-31-06 02:05 AM
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5. that is so beautiful and loving
may the loving light shine on your entire family

:grouphug:
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-31-06 04:50 AM
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6. Lots of positive energy coming your way...
:-)
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