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I *know* we need to go back to square one with it, but I don't see how, as as soon as I crack the bedroom door, one of them is trying to get in or out. I suppose I could lock him in the spare room during her time out, and vice versa, but I feel like an asshole keeping them locked up for however many hours, alternatively. Ugh.
I swear, it's just bizarre. They take turns being the aggressor, and when they get into it, it is ugly. I have to stop them so nobody gets hurts. Tonight, they were in our room alone, with the Feliway diffuser, and here's the bizarre part:
When it's just them, it's mild swatting, etc, nothing major. The minute either Sniffa or I are in there, all hell breaks loose. I went in there and laid down on the bed, and they got into it worse than ever, a tumbling ball of fur and claws and howling. I had to pull down my sleeves and separate them with my feet and scoop Milk up before she got messed up. Thankfully, no injuries on either.
The Feliway seems to calm them down individually, but once they meet, it's either mellow fighting or all out war, depending on whether or not the humans are present.
I do NOT want to take Milk back to the Shelter, but something has to give. Do I start over and not let them see each other for weeks?
I ordered another Feliway diffuser for the livingroom, where Kitteh spends most of his day/night. And a book titled "Cat Vs. Cat: Managing a Multi-Cat Household".
They're both total sweeties to us...to each other, not so much.
I've never seen this before, and I've had cats since birth. And it's really stressing everyone, human and feline, out. :(
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