and now it works - chat - tech support said the firewall rules might have gotten corrupted
Not sure it will help anyone else but this is part of the information and the link is at the bottom
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To restore the default General and Trojan horse firewall rules
1. Do one of the following:
* For Norton Internet Security or Norton Personal Firewall 2006, download the file ISRIRstr.exe.
* For Norton Internet Security or Norton Personal Firewall 2005, download the file ISRlRstr.exe.
* For Norton Internet Security, Norton Personal Firewall, or Norton Internet Security Professional 2004, download the file ISRlRstr.exe.
2. In the File Download dialog box, click Save.
3. In the Save As dialog box, go to the folder in which you installed your Norton program.
See the following list of the default installation directories:
Norton Internet Security
C:\Program Files\Norton Internet Security
Norton Personal Firewall
C:\Program Files\Norton Personal Firewall
Norton Internet Security Professional C:\Program Files\Norton Internet Security Professional
4. Click Save.
ISRlRstr.exe should appear in the folder.
5. Double-click ISRlRstr.exe.
Your firewall rules are reset to the defaults. No message or confirmation appears.
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