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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 12:22 AM
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Why Is Nancy Pelosi Always Smiling? (NY Mag)
Like Obama, she is more pragmatist than liberal ideologue. Unlike Obama, she doesn’t care what you think of her. In fact, she may not even know.
* By Vanessa Grigoriadis
* Published Nov 1, 2009

... The way that Pelosi always thinks she knows the right thing to do can be very annoying to a lot of people. To conservatives, she’s the devil: “Mussolini in a skirt,” “Nancy Botox,” a “domestic enemy of the Constitution.” In August, when she and Majority Leader Steny Hoyer wrote a USA Today editorial calling town-hall shouters “un-American” for stifling national debate, a radio host said he’d like to punch her in the face; Joe the Plumber wanted to “beat the living tar” out of her; and Glenn Beck brought out a cardboard cutout of her likeness, then pretended to drink wine alongside it: “I wanted to thank you for having me over here in wine country,” he cackled. “By the way, I put poison in your—no, I look forward to all the policy discussions we’re supposed to have. You know, on health care, energy reform, and the economy. Hey, is that Sean Penn over there?” She’s a high-handed lady who needs to be “put … in her place,” as the National Republican Congressional Committee said when she questioned General McChrystal’s advice on Afghanistan. “It’s really sad. They really don’t understand how inappropriate that is,” Pelosi shot back, smirking a little and trailing a hand in the air. “That language is something I haven’t even heard in decades" ...

The face the public saw was that cartoon liberal—but in the bubble, the story is a little different. Privately, she was getting frustrated with the progressives and their whining and carping. “There they are, posing for holy pictures,” she likes to say. “Oh, they want to be sainted.” Noble aims are one thing, but this goop is quite another. To her, you can stand in the gallery and have a media moment. Or you can come into her office and pass this legislation ...

Chocolate ice cream is the staple of Pelosi’s diet: She doesn’t cook herself, so except for a salad for lunch and whatever an aide hands her for dinner, that’s what she eats. “I think that’s the first time she’s ever turned it down,” whispers her personal assistant, later. “The other day, she came in at 8:45 a.m. carrying a pint of Häagen-Dazs with an inch left in it—she’d eaten the whole thing on the way in. She handed it off to Michael, and then two hours later, she said, ‘Where’s that ice cream? Can I eat the rest of that?’ ” (At one point, when she mentions to me that she likes artisanal ice cream, I joke, “Oh, elitist ice cream,” and she shoots back: “It’s not elite. It’s not elite. It’s just a small operation.”)

Apparently, this is a serious energy booster, because Pelosi maintains a breakneck schedule, turning in at midnight and rising six hours later. She’s been doing that since she became minority whip in 2001, and even earlier, in the seventies, when she had to get up before her kids to read the New York Times. She takes the stairs in the Capitol, never the elevator, with her security huffing and puffing behind. She doesn’t curse, drink, or smoke. She does the Times crossword puzzle for a couple of hours to get a buzz. When she’s starting to get tired, she calls her grandkids, spending twenty minutes on the phone with a 3-year-old, cooing away in a preverbal trance. “That’s her power nap,” says her assistant ...

http://nymag.com/news/politics/61736/index2.html

http://nymag.com/news/politics/61736/
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 12:25 AM
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1. People want to see women smile. If you're walking down the street and NOT smiling, men will
tell you to smile. It's happened to me. I'll bet they don't do that with other men.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 12:39 AM
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2. Seven page profile (sometimes superficial, sometimes not) of Speaker Pelosi, who's climbed
higher up the political ladder than any other woman in American history, being third in line for the Presidency -- not really an article about why she smiles

But, to respond to your remark: what you're describing is a universal game played by people against those whom they consider inferior. You can hear about it plenty from wait-staff: My father had just died but I still had to go to work at the restaurant that afternoon. And at several tables I was told, "I'm not leaving you a tip because you didn't smile enough." The same game lies behind the "our happy darkies" mythologies from a century again. Even guys will get it from asshole bosses who call you in, chew you out, and then complain you don't smile more. But, being a guy, I'll just have to take your word for it about the sidewalk: I can't remember a stranger ever chewing me out for not smiling as I was walking by -- and I'd consider it wildly inappropriate
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Merlot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 01:29 AM
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8. Yes, strangers on sidewalks, in elevators, in stores, wherever and whenever
they feel like it will tell women to "smile." Especially young women. It's said not as a complaint, but in a very almost "fatherly" way as if they're giving you very good advice. It's hugely condescending, and said with a smile, to remind women that they're judged by their demeanor and looks.
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niyad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-04-09 01:46 AM
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14. my standard response to "smile, why don't you" is "what is there to smile about when I have to deal
with assholes like you all the time?"

that generally shuts them up.
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 08:05 AM
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12. Yes, this article has a lot of pap in it a profile of a man would not have.
Edited on Tue Nov-03-09 08:08 AM by Captain Hilts
Yes - blacks were also supposed to smile - I hadn't thought of that.

Men on the street DO tell you that. If they're over 70, I'll take it.

Thank you for this interesting and interestingly written profile of Pelosi. If you've gone back and read profiles of Eleanor Roosevelt from the 20s, 30s and 40s, you'll see similarly written articles. They note the strengths, etc. but, somehow, the fluff surrounding the serious stuff ultimately demeans her and her work.
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angstlessk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 12:50 AM
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5. honey, if I am walking down a street and a man tells me to smile..I will apply
my foot to his testes...no questions asked
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Drunken Irishman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 12:54 AM
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6. I don't think that's just a woman thing...
I'm told to smile all the time.

People say I look mean because I hardly smile. I don't like to smile. I think people who smile at every moment look like fools.

Or deranged folk.

Either or.
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doc03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 12:41 AM
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3. I think her face was molded that way n/t
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 12:49 AM
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4. Maybe one face lift too many. n/t
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 01:12 AM
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7. That is what I think...
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 02:43 AM
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10. Too much botox.
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Merlot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 01:31 AM
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9.  a radio host said he’d like to punch her in the face...
Joe the Plumber wanted to “beat the living tar out of her.

And it's ok to make these comments because she's a woman???

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paulsby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 03:06 AM
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11. ask margaret cho... nt
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-03-09 08:05 AM
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13. Don't forget Olbermann's comments about having someone beat up Hillary Clinton.
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Beacool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-05-09 06:53 PM
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15. Yep, that pompous bastard!!!
He said that someone should take her into a room and that only he should come out.

You couldn't pay me to watch KO and that sexist jerk, Chris Matthews.

:grr:
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