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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:01 AM Original message |
If Marriage isnt an important word/right: Then why are we denied this right/word? |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. I'm a straight person; you're not talking about me. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:17 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. no i am not talking about you: i am talking about those who keep asking why we need the rights of |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 04:05 PM Response to Reply #1 |
25. I think we have seen some of it right here on DU |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:50 PM Response to Reply #25 |
35. And when old people marry we'd call it an "infertile union" |
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papau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
2. Seems some idiots assume if you are gay you can not be religious - so only rights are |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:10 AM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Except, civil unions won't grant all the same rights. |
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papau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
40. I agree - I'd like to have "civil union" replace "marriage" in all our laws since religion should |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
3. Marriage isn't a right for anyone |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:16 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. what exactly is your point? |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:09 PM Response to Reply #4 |
20. If it were a legal right |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 05:47 PM Response to Reply #20 |
26. Wrong. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 07:55 AM Response to Reply #26 |
51. That's my point |
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LeftCoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 05:52 PM Response to Reply #20 |
29. Marriage is not 'permission' from the state |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 07:53 AM Response to Reply #29 |
50. A contract that can be denied if certain criteria aren't met (n/t) |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:12 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. But any couple in which both are of legal age, |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:12 PM Response to Reply #9 |
22. Why shouldn't anyone not be allowed to get married? |
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Sapphocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:43 AM Response to Reply #3 |
11. Actually, you're right. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #11 |
18. They serve what purpose again? |
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kiahzero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:26 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. Not true. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:42 PM Response to Reply #3 |
14. Oh, is that why!? That darn "licence." |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:37 PM Response to Reply #3 |
15. Of course it's a right -- it's just qualified with certain criteria |
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TechBear_Seattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:40 PM Response to Reply #3 |
16. The Supreme Court of the United States says you are wrong |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. good one. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:07 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. Hardly |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:09 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. just like voting: certain age/citizenship status/time spent in state etc |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:19 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. The point is |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 05:49 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Wrong. |
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TechBear_Seattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 09:31 AM Response to Reply #23 |
45. That is a nice straw man you have built up |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 08:02 AM Response to Reply #45 |
52. Define this "basic civil right" (n/t) |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:48 PM Response to Reply #19 |
34. Your niece has a say in this matter, right? |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 08:03 AM Response to Reply #34 |
53. Of course. Are you saying thiis could never happen? (n/t) |
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MadAsHellNewYorker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 11:02 AM Response to Reply #3 |
56. Then I guess neither is voting, cause you have to register to do it |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
6. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:53 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. money? |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:50 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Deeply yes...it all boils down to $$$$. |
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Tyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
10. Very good question, lioness |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
24. OK since I seem to have stirred the pot here. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 05:51 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Wrong again. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 10:55 AM Response to Reply #28 |
54. No that came latter |
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LeftCoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 05:55 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. Gay couples can't/don't have children? Don't tell Mary Cheney that! |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 10:57 AM Response to Reply #30 |
55. Those kids |
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LeftCoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #55 |
68. So? You said marriage "was about having and raising children...nothing else" |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 04:35 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. I agree |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-14-06 12:59 PM Response to Reply #69 |
78. Marriage's original meaning or intent is not material. NT |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-13-06 12:37 PM Response to Reply #68 |
73. No not really |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:10 PM Response to Reply #24 |
31. wow, i feeL Like i've Learned so much |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:17 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I'm also amazed to learn that my lesbian cousin & her wife don't have a child. |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 07:12 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. but the question remains |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:19 PM Response to Reply #36 |
41. Their children probably is learning. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 12:05 PM Response to Reply #32 |
64. I will bet you there was a third party involved |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 06:38 PM Response to Reply #64 |
70. There was a third party involved. Why does that matter? They're raising a beautiful son together. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 11:11 AM Response to Reply #31 |
59. Huh? |
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Sapphocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:40 PM Response to Reply #24 |
33. All of which is now moot. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 11:52 AM Response to Reply #33 |
60. Marriage is renderd moot. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 10:25 AM Response to Reply #24 |
47. Your errors, one by one: |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 11:54 AM Response to Reply #47 |
61. "Equal protection would not apply to incest " |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 08:12 PM Response to Reply #61 |
72. Now you're asking a DIFFERENT question. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-13-06 12:42 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. So where does the 14th Amendment refer to classes of people? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-13-06 08:11 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. That is the precedent. |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-14-06 08:58 AM Response to Reply #75 |
76. Incest is not illegal for everyone. It is legal in some states |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-14-06 12:58 PM Response to Reply #76 |
77. Regardless, if it applies equally to everyone it is not a violation of |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-14-06 08:56 PM Response to Reply #77 |
79. Huh |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-15-06 12:25 AM Response to Reply #79 |
80. I'm not arguing that it SHOULD be illegal. Just that it is not a violation of the |
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MadAsHellNewYorker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 11:09 AM Response to Reply #24 |
57. Oh, the same sex marriage will lead to polygamy debate |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 12:00 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. You can certainly carry this further |
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MadAsHellNewYorker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 12:10 PM Response to Reply #62 |
67. I have no problem with the all or nothing solution. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 11:10 AM Response to Reply #24 |
58. it's not the future that's keeping us from our rights today |
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HockeyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
37. It is about Procreation and Religion |
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Sapphocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 08:56 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. I think the anti-gay/anti-choice brigades... |
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HockeyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:13 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Yes, religion is patriarchal |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 12:08 PM Response to Reply #39 |
65. We can debate whether it is benificial for a child |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
42. It's all about defending their bigotry |
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William769 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:53 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. You hit the nail right on the head. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 12:09 PM Response to Reply #42 |
66. Deleted message |
Tyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
44. Marriage is a civil contract with an OPTIONAL religious overlay. |
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TechBear_Seattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 09:41 AM Response to Reply #44 |
46. Exactly right |
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Tyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 12:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. Seems like a lot of straight folks are almost hardwired to see marriage as being tied to religion. |
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TechBear_Seattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-10-06 07:42 AM Response to Reply #48 |
49. Trivia on religious marriage |
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vincent_vega_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 12:03 PM Response to Reply #48 |
63. Regligion was tied to everything |
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Tyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 07:26 PM Response to Reply #63 |
71. Take religion out of the equation |
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