for obtaining parent advocacy help:
http://wrightslaw.com/oh and general info on LD's: ldonline.org
Ok - at the risk of being tarred and feathered - again - here's a selection from the article I'd like to address:
" “There can definitely be tension between the parent and the school,” said Ron Hager, senior staff lawyer at the National Disability Rights Network. “You as the parent know your child best, but the teachers and administrators see themselves as the experts.”
Your best defense? First, listen to the educators; they might know what they’re talking about. But parents should also become experts themselves. You’ll need to learn about your child’s specific disabilities and the treatments and therapies that work for his or her issues, Mr. Hager advised. Then you need to make a compelling case to your child’s individualized education plan team.
If you find that the school is not acknowledging problems that you know are interfering with his or her learning, you may have to ask to have your child re-evaluated. To expedite this process, parents often pay for a private evaluation themselves, costing $500 to $5,000, depending on the tests. "
"listen to the educations; they m ight know what they're talking about". - key word here - MIGHT. Maybe they do. and Maybe they don't. Maybe they DO and they can't/won't really DO anything about it. (Not necessarily the teachers, but the admin/principals, as well.)
PARENTS DO KNOW THEIR CHILD BEST!
"But parents should also become experts themselves." Exactly. You have to become a detective. Teasing out what is your child's problem. Read everything related. Talk to other parentns with similar issues (there are plenty of online groups devoted to LD kids). How is the problem manifesting itself? Is it related to other issues - like diet, environment, stress, vision, anxiety... Is more prevalent at certain times? Like at school but not at home? Are they symptoms sort of "all over the place" and inconsistent? or inconclusive? Working with your child daily. Checking his work. Talking to the teachers - the other parents. Seeing what's easy and what's a problem. Are there some "oddities" about your child that just don't make sense, but you never thought it was a "problem". . . just - quirky or weird...
Unfortunately, some "school officials" DON'T like to be told about things they know nothing about - and can get REALLY - uh, cranky - about that. (if not down right insulting and vicious.)