K Gardner
(1000+ posts)
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:04 PM
Original message |
| "Miss Jean Louise, Stand Up, Your Father's Passin'." |
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Edited on Sat Sep-27-08 10:17 PM by K Gardner
(I first want to apologize for posting about this topic yet again, after so much has already been said. But I have to get this off my chest.) It takes awhile, they say, for the result of a debate to settle in. A bit of time for the words and images to weave their way into our souls and deposit there a lasting image – the impression we then take away for all time. I guess that is why the pundits get it so terribly wrong so very often. They’ve allowed no time for the settling. And anyway, they see what they want to see, what they’re told to see; and from there, try to influence and mold what we see. I’ve been mostly sad today. I left the TV off. And I didn’t know why until I watched a re-run of “To Kill a Mockingbird” and was dumbstruck by this line, this scene: “ Miss Jean Louise, stand up, your father’s passin’.”  The people relegated to the balcony stood in unison as Atticus Finch passed. A silent gesture of respect, of honor, to a man who struggled to do what was right, no matter what the personal cost. A man who fought for principles greater and far beyond himself.  And I cried, realizing then that I was thinking about Barack Obama and how hard it must have been for him to stand on that stage and talk to a man who refused to even acknowledge his presence. Who refused, out of a meanness of spirit unfathomable to me, to look him in the eyes, man-to-man; human being to human being, Senator to Senator. I realized then why the picture of him hugging Michelle afterward touched me so. She alone would understand how that hurt him. A hurt he would likely never voice to anyone but her. Yet he stood there, for 90 minutes, without acknowledgement from his opponent. Stood there brave and calm and unflinching, fighting for us and for the principles he believes in.  I turned, as I so often do, to “Dreams from my Father”, to Barack Obama’s own words to try to find some meaning, some salvation; perhaps to assuage my own guilt over the affront I felt was afforded to Barack Obama. And I found, in pages 156-158, words he wrote about people on the South Side – how they felt about accomplishment and the obstacles they had to overcome to be accepted; and how often they were not accepted. “So, despite the deserved sense of accomplishment these men and women felt, despite the irrefutable evidence of their own progress, our conversations were marked by another, more ominous strain. The boarded-up homes, the decaying storefronts, the aging church rolls, kids from unknown families who swaggered down the streets – loud congregations of teenaged boys, teenage girls feeding potato chips to crying toddlers, the discarded wrappers tumbling down the block – all of it whispered painful truths, told them the progress they’d found was ephemeral, rooted in thin soil; that it might not even last their lifetimes”. (snip) “As it had for the men in Smitty’s barbershop, the election had given these people a new idea of themselves. Or maybe it was an old idea, born of a simpler time. Harold was something they still held in common: Like my idea of organizing, he held out an offer of collective redemption.”  Even after this, when the man who refused eye contact stumbled painfully upon a name, this remarkable American said to him with a soul full of humility and compassion, "That's ok John, that's a hard one." That is the mark of greatness. The man who stood there without being acknowledged, unflinching and without a spark of bitterness in his heart, is the next President of the United States. It’s about Respect. It’s about Hope and the Future of a nation. It’s about the struggle for Human Dignity throughout the ages. It is, most of all, about Equality. “Miss Jean Louise, stand up, your father’s passin’.” 
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Every time I watvh that movie... |
WCGreen |
Sep-27-08 10:07 PM |
#1 |
 
The tears we shed when we watch that movie |
truedelphi |
Sep-28-08 10:27 PM |
#216 |

another tear in my eye - about the tenth time this month |
rurallib |
Sep-27-08 10:09 PM |
#2 |

beautiful post, thank you. |
JoeIsOneOfUs |
Sep-27-08 10:09 PM |
#3 |

Beautiful post. nt |
ThruTheLookingGlass |
Sep-27-08 10:09 PM |
#4 |

That is my absolute favorite cinematic moment of all time... |
mamalone |
Sep-27-08 10:09 PM |
#5 |
 
Now you've made me cry again :-) I hope Barack knows how much he is loved, and how much we |
K Gardner |
Sep-27-08 10:22 PM |
#17 |

God love him, indeed! |
mamalone |
Sep-27-08 10:25 PM |
#21 |

Now you made me sad. |
babylonsister |
Sep-27-08 10:10 PM |
#6 |
 
but what makes me sadder is that so many don't seem to be paying attention |
Iris |
Sep-28-08 03:14 PM |
#170 |

I have To Kill A Mockingbird on tv right now. I read it every summer. |
Kerrytravelers |
Sep-27-08 10:11 PM |
#7 |
 
So do I, and I'm reading the book. I'm right at the beginning of the |
Misskittycat |
Sep-27-08 10:20 PM |
#14 |

The movie just finished. I'm blubbering as usual. I noticed for the first time |
Misskittycat |
Sep-27-08 10:58 PM |
#38 |

"John that's a hard one" |
grantcart |
Sep-27-08 10:11 PM |
#8 |
 
Thank you.. I didn't have the exact quote.. editing :-) |
K Gardner |
Sep-27-08 10:15 PM |
#12 |
  
mine isn't exact and it is inaudible but that is what was happening |
grantcart |
Sep-28-08 12:02 AM |
#47 |
 
That worked on so many levels. |
dchill |
Sep-28-08 07:09 PM |
#197 |

Damn...what an excellent post |
Demi_Babe |
Sep-27-08 10:12 PM |
#9 |

Oh.My.God. |
NanceGreggs |
Sep-27-08 10:12 PM |
#10 |
 
Thanks Nance.. and to everyone taking the time to read :-) |
K Gardner |
Sep-27-08 10:22 PM |
#18 |
 
I'll second that for Ms. Greggs |
shadowknows69 |
Sep-28-08 09:01 PM |
#208 |

Kick |
timber84 |
Sep-27-08 10:15 PM |
#11 |
 
Unusual in expressing what we call heart. Extrordinary. |
lumpy |
Sep-27-08 10:27 PM |
#24 |

McCain desperately wants Obama and all he represents |
Erin Elizabeth |
Sep-27-08 10:18 PM |
#13 |

What an unbelievably beautiful post. |
liberalmuse |
Sep-27-08 10:20 PM |
#15 |
 
Such a beautiful, beautiful post.... |
No DUplicitous DUpe |
Sep-28-08 08:19 PM |
#203 |

That was beautiful. n/t |
Phx_Dem |
Sep-27-08 10:20 PM |
#16 |

Thank you for the moving post |
senseandsensibility |
Sep-27-08 10:23 PM |
#19 |

Touched. Thank you. |
FrenchieCat |
Sep-27-08 10:25 PM |
#20 |

*Sniff, sniff* |
Window |
Sep-27-08 10:25 PM |
#22 |

Okay, that gave me goosebumps. n/t |
snacker |
Sep-27-08 10:26 PM |
#23 |

Thank you for your post. |
vanderRock |
Sep-27-08 10:30 PM |
#25 |

Tears rolling as I read your post |
me b zola |
Sep-27-08 10:31 PM |
#26 |
 
Just think of how we'll all feel on Inauguration Day ! Thank you. |
K Gardner |
Sep-27-08 10:34 PM |
#28 |

Wow. What a beautiful post. |
AZBlue |
Sep-27-08 10:34 PM |
#27 |

Great book, great movie, exceptional moment--and a perfect analogy. |
blondeatlast |
Sep-27-08 10:38 PM |
#29 |

This is what that "must read" button we tested would be used for. |
ladyVet |
Sep-27-08 10:43 PM |
#30 |

...beautifully written, heartfelt post |
Born_A_Truman |
Sep-27-08 10:45 PM |
#31 |

What a beautifully perceptive and elegant post.. |
virgdem |
Sep-27-08 10:45 PM |
#32 |

This is an absolutely beautiful post ... |
samilla |
Sep-27-08 10:47 PM |
#33 |
 
Welcome to DU, Samilla. You're so right about the "tightrope" and your post is |
K Gardner |
Sep-27-08 10:50 PM |
#35 |
 
if I may |
judgemc |
Sep-28-08 04:29 PM |
#178 |
 
wow.....talk about timing..... |
blue sky at night |
Sep-28-08 09:59 PM |
#214 |

Thank you - this is a gorgeous and touching piece of work n/t |
FKA MNChimpH8R |
Sep-27-08 10:47 PM |
#34 |

This man is the living embodiment of the word "presidential". |
kestrel91316 |
Sep-27-08 10:54 PM |
#36 |

Thank you for eloquently putting voice to the thoughts of many |
Lifelong Protester |
Sep-27-08 10:55 PM |
#37 |

Great post, KGardner: Obama is like Atticus! |
Mimosa |
Sep-27-08 10:59 PM |
#39 |

A mere mortal as great as Atticus Finch |
sandnsea |
Sep-27-08 11:01 PM |
#40 |

Reality check |
Vattel |
Sep-27-08 11:02 PM |
#41 |
 
K Gardner's post is absolutely beautiful and I was welling up until |
tcdq |
Sep-28-08 08:23 AM |
#83 |
  
I agree.. see post #105. I didn't mean to try to speak for Obama.. I |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 10:34 AM |
#107 |
 
Now, you've really made me cry and I see why you're so well |
tcdq |
Sep-28-08 10:57 AM |
#112 |
 
You may not have spoke for Obama... |
nini |
Sep-28-08 12:05 PM |
#128 |
 
A minority . . . |
13 Hawks |
Sep-28-08 03:36 PM |
#174 |
 
someone disses me that way; I have to restrain myself from slapping the impudence from their face |
crankychatter |
Sep-29-08 04:42 PM |
#237 |

Stunningly beautiful post. |
SeattleGirl |
Sep-27-08 11:11 PM |
#42 |

OMG, that post made me tear up! |
Odin2005 |
Sep-27-08 11:17 PM |
#43 |
 
Me too.... |
DogPoundPup |
Sep-28-08 12:38 PM |
#138 |

What a beautiful, beautiful post this is... |
qanda |
Sep-27-08 11:25 PM |
#44 |

I cannot even begin to say how very moved I am... |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Sep-27-08 11:30 PM |
#45 |
 
I just woke my husband up and told him I had to read him this post |
qanda |
Sep-27-08 11:33 PM |
#46 |

Kicking, because....nt |
OwnedByFerrets |
Sep-28-08 12:15 AM |
#48 |

I was wondering about that |
TrogL |
Sep-28-08 12:21 AM |
#49 |
 
I'm an Aspie too and I made that exact same observation! n/t. |
Odin2005 |
Sep-28-08 12:49 AM |
#54 |
 
I had the same response |
FKA MNChimpH8R |
Sep-28-08 12:27 PM |
#135 |

Somewhere tonight, |
dgibby |
Sep-28-08 12:34 AM |
#50 |

what a moving post |
joop |
Sep-28-08 12:39 AM |
#51 |

Thanks so much for this. |
asdjrocky |
Sep-28-08 12:45 AM |
#52 |

OP can you send this email to KO. I just think MSM has to recognize this as a voice of a people. |
vaberella |
Sep-28-08 12:47 AM |
#53 |

This is the best post I have ever read on DU in the 6 years I've been here |
nini |
Sep-28-08 12:53 AM |
#55 |
 
I second that |
lizziegrace |
Sep-28-08 02:38 PM |
#164 |

I will always watch that movie when it is on...Atticus Finch and Gregory Peck were among |
BrklynLiberal |
Sep-28-08 12:53 AM |
#56 |

That small little yellowcornteethed piece of crap will rot in hell for |
lonestarnot |
Sep-28-08 01:00 AM |
#57 |

The hero on that debate stage was Barack Obama. |
tblue |
Sep-28-08 01:26 AM |
#58 |

K&R for an outstanding post, lady. |
Tatiana |
Sep-28-08 01:28 AM |
#59 |

K |
spokane |
Sep-28-08 01:39 AM |
#60 |

I couldn't believe it when I saw the quote! |
Carla in Ca |
Sep-28-08 01:54 AM |
#61 |

Thank you |
ZombyWoof |
Sep-28-08 01:55 AM |
#62 |

Really beautiful. |
cilla4progress |
Sep-28-08 03:00 AM |
#63 |

. |
ClayZ |
Sep-28-08 04:17 AM |
#64 |

A knockout. |
Old Crusoe |
Sep-28-08 04:31 AM |
#65 |

Beautiful post. K&R n/t |
myrna minx |
Sep-28-08 05:22 AM |
#66 |

k&r |
MPK |
Sep-28-08 06:44 AM |
#67 |

Thank you for such a beautiful post. |
madaboutharry |
Sep-28-08 06:52 AM |
#68 |

My Father is a lot like Atticus Finch |
Roon |
Sep-28-08 06:57 AM |
#69 |

Nothing to add, except thank you. |
Maureen1322 |
Sep-28-08 06:58 AM |
#70 |

Words ~~ I cannot find the ones necessary to express how wonderful your post is. |
Hepburn |
Sep-28-08 07:04 AM |
#71 |

I got a chance to talk to my mom.. |
glowing |
Sep-28-08 07:17 AM |
#72 |

What an awesome tribute! Hope it gets so many recs that it breaks a record! |
1Hippiechick |
Sep-28-08 07:37 AM |
#73 |

This is a great thread. |
GoPsUx |
Sep-28-08 07:40 AM |
#74 |

One thing to note about Barack vs Michelle is that fortunately |
BumRushDaShow |
Sep-28-08 07:44 AM |
#75 |
 
Being an activist who is not AA, I appreciate these moments of enlightenment from someone with |
1Hippiechick |
Sep-28-08 08:00 AM |
#77 |
 
Thank you for your thoughts on this - they will stick with me and they help |
IndyOp |
Sep-28-08 10:13 AM |
#100 |

I don't even pretend to speak for Obama, or even to pretend to know what is in his |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 10:32 AM |
#105 |

Barack has a magnanimous spirit. It comes from within, from who he is, you can tell. |
Waiting For Everyman |
Sep-28-08 07:47 AM |
#76 |

This is a magnificent post. Thank you for posting this. Recommended. |
terrya |
Sep-28-08 08:05 AM |
#78 |

Oh my! Stunningly beautiful piece! |
TorchTheWitch |
Sep-28-08 08:08 AM |
#79 |

A strikingly beautiful sharing. Thank you. n/t |
timeforarevolution |
Sep-28-08 08:11 AM |
#80 |

This needs to go viral! |
endthewar |
Sep-28-08 08:14 AM |
#81 |

Great post |
workinclasszero |
Sep-28-08 08:19 AM |
#82 |

Don't you apologize for nothin' |
WesDem |
Sep-28-08 08:25 AM |
#84 |

This is superb. May I pass this along to my email list? |
livvy |
Sep-28-08 08:37 AM |
#85 |

Progression of pictures and your point is top notch writing, GREAT POST!!!!! |
uponit7771 |
Sep-28-08 08:44 AM |
#86 |

Thank you. Your post is a treasure |
Glorfindel |
Sep-28-08 09:05 AM |
#87 |

Beautiful. |
yellerpup |
Sep-28-08 09:16 AM |
#88 |

Ya know, I don't post much, but I had to respond to this one. |
chiffon |
Sep-28-08 09:17 AM |
# |

This is one of the most touching posts ever. KandR |
Dystopian |
Sep-28-08 09:17 AM |
#89 |

Your post brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful. Thank you. |
lolamio |
Sep-28-08 09:22 AM |
#90 |

A most excellent tribute. |
Uncle Joe |
Sep-28-08 09:22 AM |
#91 |

Thank you for your beautiful post. |
TuxedoKat |
Sep-28-08 09:50 AM |
#92 |

Outstanding. |
volstork |
Sep-28-08 09:50 AM |
#93 |

K&R |
Veruca Salt |
Sep-28-08 09:52 AM |
#94 |

I was standing right in front of that man (last photo from Berlin) |
48percenter |
Sep-28-08 09:55 AM |
#95 |
 
I'd love to know the story behind the picture.. it's absolutely one of my favorites. I |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 10:40 AM |
#108 |
  
IIRC, we were standing behind the Hotel Adlon |
48percenter |
Sep-28-08 11:47 AM |
#122 |
 
Thank you.. what a wonderful story. I'm so glad it was caught on film ! |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 12:04 PM |
#127 |
 
Now you made ME cry |
GalleryGod |
Sep-28-08 03:14 PM |
#169 |

Thanks so much for your perfect analogy, K Gardner. . . |
Lena inRI |
Sep-28-08 09:55 AM |
#96 |
 
LenainRI.. I guess I'm naive, or maybe too hopeful, but I don't think this |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 04:42 PM |
#180 |

Unbelievable post...nailed it! n/t |
archiemo |
Sep-28-08 09:58 AM |
#97 |

What a beautiful post |
Terri S |
Sep-28-08 10:03 AM |
#98 |

Outstanding. And expresses what so many of us felt but couldn't speak. Thank you. |
cyberpj |
Sep-28-08 10:08 AM |
#99 |

Atticus Finch was voted THE #1 movie HERO of all time, and rightfully so !! And, |
RBInMaine |
Sep-28-08 10:15 AM |
#101 |

One of the best posts I have ever read on DU |
nevergiveup |
Sep-28-08 10:22 AM |
#102 |

Absolutely wonderful! |
jamesatemple |
Sep-28-08 10:25 AM |
#103 |

Well done! |
JNelson6563 |
Sep-28-08 10:25 AM |
#104 |

Damn, that made me cry. |
Mad_Dem_X |
Sep-28-08 10:33 AM |
#106 |

Thank you for an inspiring post. The very least that the |
LibDemAlways |
Sep-28-08 10:43 AM |
#109 |

K - you've left me speechless. Thanks for putting this into such beautiful and exact words. |
hisownpetard |
Sep-28-08 10:44 AM |
#110 |
 
It's a SHAME for this response to be buried in this thread :-) I did not know that about Robinson.. |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 11:28 AM |
#114 |
 
Keith Olbermann mentioned Jackie Robinson in this context. |
Perragrande |
Sep-28-08 11:08 PM |
#222 |

Did he? I wish I had heard/seen that. Keith is one of my heroes. |
hisownpetard |
Sep-29-08 11:00 AM |
#234 |

Beautiful post. Thank you so much for sharing that with us. |
yardwork |
Sep-28-08 10:46 AM |
#111 |

Thank you |
Irishonly |
Sep-28-08 10:59 AM |
#113 |

Thank you for an absolutely beautiful post |
lynettebro440 |
Sep-28-08 11:29 AM |
#115 |

Thank you for such a poignant post. Tears & Chills. |
TxBlue |
Sep-28-08 11:31 AM |
#116 |

Incredible post. |
Midlodemocrat |
Sep-28-08 11:32 AM |
#117 |

Very Good...K&R |
KoKo01 |
Sep-28-08 11:40 AM |
#118 |

That was beautiful. |
GreenEyedLefty |
Sep-28-08 11:40 AM |
#119 |

K&R. nt |
indie_ana_500 |
Sep-28-08 11:43 AM |
#120 |

Bless you, K Gardner |
Left Brain |
Sep-28-08 11:43 AM |
#121 |

Don't feel sorry for Barack. |
Bette Noir |
Sep-28-08 11:47 AM |
#123 |

I think we found out today why the spoiled brat, John McCain, didn't |
MasonJar |
Sep-28-08 11:55 AM |
#124 |

Thank you for reminding us and Thank you Barack Obama |
life long demo |
Sep-28-08 12:00 PM |
#125 |

"Tequila Mockingbird? I don't know what's in it, BUT set me up a couple". Pres G W Bush 2008 |
happygoluckytoyou |
Sep-28-08 12:03 PM |
#126 |
 
Oh no.. dear lord, I hadn't heard that. That hurts my heart! |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 12:05 PM |
#129 |

That's My Favorite Scene from the Movie, Too |
mckara |
Sep-28-08 12:05 PM |
#130 |

Reflection |
dgibby |
Sep-28-08 12:11 PM |
#131 |

Incredible, insightful post. |
Unbowed |
Sep-28-08 12:16 PM |
#132 |
 
Absolutely beautiful and thought-provoking, thank you ! |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 12:22 PM |
#134 |

Great post k & r |
bronxiteforever |
Sep-28-08 12:21 PM |
#133 |

Big K & R !!! |
WillyT |
Sep-28-08 12:34 PM |
#136 |

Many THANKS!! |
newrisk |
Sep-28-08 12:36 PM |
#137 |

Hey Boo |
DCofVA |
Sep-28-08 12:39 PM |
#139 |
 
I made that connection also at the end.. a very touching and moving analogy, thank you ! |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 12:40 PM |
#141 |
 
Well said! |
dgibby |
Sep-28-08 01:28 PM |
#150 |

Racist |
djp2 |
Sep-28-08 12:39 PM |
#140 |

I'm overwhelmed by your post, tears in my eyes. Thank you. nt |
DeepModem Mom |
Sep-28-08 12:43 PM |
#142 |

Wonderful post! Amazing pictures too. |
Raksha |
Sep-28-08 12:56 PM |
#143 |

What a beautiful post |
tsegat01 |
Sep-28-08 12:57 PM |
#144 |

Just beautiful. |
Oregonian |
Sep-28-08 12:58 PM |
#145 |

This has left me speechless... K & R |
Surya Gayatri |
Sep-28-08 01:04 PM |
#146 |

Beautiful. Absolutely beautiful |
stoge18 |
Sep-28-08 01:06 PM |
#147 |

You made me cry. |
redqueen |
Sep-28-08 01:09 PM |
#148 |

This is what I'm talking about!! |
Doodler71 |
Sep-28-08 01:27 PM |
#149 |

One of the finest OPs I've ever read on DU, or any other blog. Thank you. |
understandinglife |
Sep-28-08 01:34 PM |
#151 |

wonderful post. Thank you |
Beaverhausen |
Sep-28-08 01:36 PM |
#152 |

I dunno. Sen. Obama has been around the block a few times and has |
valerief |
Sep-28-08 02:05 PM |
#153 |
 
We are all human and his heart holds such love for this country |
The Wielding Truth |
Sep-28-08 05:18 PM |
#185 |

You made me cry, you bugger |
Applan |
Sep-28-08 02:11 PM |
#154 |

Very moving post, thank you. |
wienerdoggie |
Sep-28-08 02:12 PM |
#155 |

Now you made me cry. nt |
Miss Chybil |
Sep-28-08 02:17 PM |
#156 |

Great movie and great post~! |
Debi |
Sep-28-08 02:19 PM |
#157 |

It's simple. McCain thinks he is owed the Presidency & nobody should stand in his way, black or not. |
Bernardo de La Paz |
Sep-28-08 02:20 PM |
#158 |

Absolutely amazing. |
JackBeck |
Sep-28-08 02:21 PM |
#159 |

You've moved me to tears |
October |
Sep-28-08 02:21 PM |
#160 |

Thank you! A very thoughful post! |
bambino |
Sep-28-08 02:22 PM |
#161 |

Incredible post, K Gardner. Thank you so much |
Flaxbee |
Sep-28-08 02:30 PM |
#162 |

DANG, what a great post! |
calimary |
Sep-28-08 02:30 PM |
#163 |

Beautiful, elegant and fitting analogy. Thank you. n/t |
Lancer |
Sep-28-08 02:42 PM |
#165 |

The movie touches, but your words were touching also.... |
cmt928 |
Sep-28-08 02:51 PM |
#166 |

We've just entered and come out of a dimension the professional admiral's son would have very |
KCabotDullesMarxIII |
Sep-28-08 03:06 PM |
#167 |

KR, A wonderful post; A wonderful comparison....but |
ooglymoogly |
Sep-28-08 03:06 PM |
#168 |

McCain - just another bigot? |
Piewhacket |
Sep-28-08 03:29 PM |
#171 |
 
There's nothing wrong with being a "WASP", PW.. you have heart, that much is obvious.. |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 07:02 PM |
#194 |

Thank you. Your post touched our 'better side'... |
Piewhacket |
Sep-29-08 04:03 PM |
#235 |

K&R Thank you K Gardner! I wanted to shake mr. mcsame and |
snappyturtle |
Sep-28-08 03:29 PM |
#172 |
 
Oh my.. I didn't hear THAT excuse, easily proven false. One of his surrogates I believe said, |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 04:37 PM |
#179 |

Oh, that excuse I sighted came directly from the horse's mouth to my ears! |
snappyturtle |
Sep-28-08 05:25 PM |
#186 |

This man is our next President. We've been waiting a long time |
CLW |
Sep-28-08 03:32 PM |
#173 |

Thank you. n/t |
GrannyK |
Sep-28-08 03:55 PM |
#175 |

Powerful post. Thank you. |
JimDandy |
Sep-28-08 04:01 PM |
#176 |

Kicking here so more can read this outstanding OP! |
snappyturtle |
Sep-28-08 04:10 PM |
#177 |

A magnificent post. Thank you so much. |
Beregond2 |
Sep-28-08 04:50 PM |
#181 |

I also watched that movie the other night, cried, and thought of Barack |
leveymg |
Sep-28-08 04:58 PM |
#182 |

Not only is this the greatest post of the day or week, |
FitzmasAgain |
Sep-28-08 05:00 PM |
#183 |

Beautiful, outstanding and filled with the simple truth of human decency. |
Cyrano |
Sep-28-08 05:14 PM |
#184 |

in case you are still looking at responses.... |
blue sky at night |
Sep-28-08 05:49 PM |
#187 |
 
I am speechless, overwhelmed and humbled by the responses to this. Of course, |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 05:53 PM |
#190 |

Hey, thanks for the reply.... |
blue sky at night |
Sep-28-08 09:03 PM |
#209 |

Thank you, K Gardner! |
sonias |
Sep-28-08 05:52 PM |
#188 |

Wow. |
krispos42 |
Sep-28-08 05:52 PM |
#189 |

Great observation, what's more Obama is reality |
obiden |
Sep-28-08 06:06 PM |
#191 |

A beautiful book, movie and candidate. Thank you. |
sofedupwithbush |
Sep-28-08 06:23 PM |
#192 |

It is hard to cause me to moist eyes... |
Ronbeaux |
Sep-28-08 06:57 PM |
#193 |
 
Welcome to DU, Ronbeaux, and thank you :-) |
K Gardner |
Sep-28-08 07:48 PM |
#202 |

Wow! Just WOW! because I'm speechless. Beautiful. K&R! n/t |
tpsbmam |
Sep-28-08 07:05 PM |
#195 |

I think we should ask Skinner to keep this pinned to the top until after the election |
nini |
Sep-28-08 07:07 PM |
#196 |
 
Exactly what I was thinking! |
TorchTheWitch |
Sep-29-08 08:52 AM |
#232 |

Some brilliant DUer should, with your permission, K Gardner |
timeforarevolution |
Sep-28-08 07:10 PM |
#198 |

K&R |
dchill |
Sep-28-08 07:12 PM |
#199 |

thank you for this |
riverwalker |
Sep-28-08 07:30 PM |
#200 |

Beautiful, poignant, essential read. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. n/t |
casus belli |
Sep-28-08 07:42 PM |
#201 |

I keep coming back to it. Nothing more needs to be said, K. |
Condem |
Sep-28-08 08:43 PM |
#204 |
 
Me too. I've read this at least 6 times today and now a friend sent a link to it via email |
Beaverhausen |
Sep-28-08 08:52 PM |
#207 |

What a beautiful post |
ellacott |
Sep-28-08 08:47 PM |
#205 |

I am speechless with emotion and admiration - for both Barack and you for writing such a beautiful |
EffieBlack |
Sep-28-08 08:51 PM |
#206 |

Thank you for putting this into these words. |
mahina |
Sep-28-08 09:11 PM |
#210 |

Wow! |
redhatgirl |
Sep-28-08 09:17 PM |
#211 |

beautiful. |
barbtries |
Sep-28-08 09:31 PM |
#212 |

You have expressed my deepest feelings about the debate. |
trickyguy |
Sep-28-08 09:43 PM |
#213 |

This is a beautiful and exceptional post. |
racaulk |
Sep-28-08 10:17 PM |
#215 |

We named our cat after Jean Louise. Scout. |
Condem |
Sep-28-08 10:30 PM |
#217 |
 
Me, too! |
dgibby |
Sep-29-08 04:55 PM |
#238 |

beautiful !!! nt |
crazy_vanilla |
Sep-28-08 10:31 PM |
#218 |

I would also love a permanent place for this post. |
MPK |
Sep-28-08 10:32 PM |
#219 |

In McCain's defense |
Bensthename |
Sep-28-08 10:35 PM |
#220 |

I am going to send this to everyone on MY list! |
Journalgrrl |
Sep-28-08 10:41 PM |
#221 |

I have read this thread three times now |
Samantha |
Sep-28-08 11:15 PM |
#223 |
 
Haven't seen you in awhile, Sam.. thank you so much for this wonderful, touching |
K Gardner |
Sep-29-08 08:42 AM |
#229 |

Beautiful post. |
beac |
Sep-28-08 11:19 PM |
#224 |

Thank you for this post |
Kiwinet |
Sep-29-08 01:02 AM |
#225 |
 
Welcome to DU! |
Journalgrrl |
Sep-29-08 01:36 AM |
#226 |
 
Welcome to DU ! Hope to see you around for many years to come :-) |
K Gardner |
Sep-29-08 08:42 AM |
#230 |

I'm a tad late to the party my dear |
junofeb |
Sep-29-08 02:09 AM |
#227 |
 
The responses in this thread have restored my Faith in Humanity.. we SHALL overcome, indeed ! |
K Gardner |
Sep-29-08 08:44 AM |
#231 |

Kick |
OakCliffDem |
Sep-29-08 05:46 AM |
#228 |

Thank you for this beautiful post. |
elizfeelinggreat |
Sep-29-08 10:01 AM |
#233 |

KICK! |
FrenchieCat |
Sep-29-08 04:36 PM |
#236 |

kick |
MPK |
Sep-29-08 09:33 PM |
#239 |

K Gardner, that was absolutely beautiful |
ailsagirl |
Sep-29-08 09:37 PM |
#240 |

Kick - wish I could recommend again and make it 300! 14,240 views! n/t |
1Hippiechick |
Sep-30-08 10:16 AM |
#241 |

Too beautiful to let go |
me b zola |
Sep-30-08 10:56 PM |
#242 |
 
... |
me b zola |
Oct-02-08 01:23 AM |
#243 |

kick |
democracy1st |
Oct-02-08 01:28 AM |
#244 |
| 1. Every time I watvh that movie... |
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Tears come to my eyes at the point...
I have that pic of Obama holding the little boy close in as my screen saver.
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truedelphi
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Sun Sep-28-08 10:27 PM
Response to Reply #1 |
| 216. The tears we shed when we watch that movie |
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Are for all of the pain and the lessons we have had to experience or watch others experience.
I never ever understood what it meant to be an American until one dy I sat inside a Danish cafeteria. I was just passing through that country with two friends. I would never see that cafeteria again.
But I felt oddly out of place. At first I didn't know why. Then I realized that with my NOT BLOND HAIR, and my NOT BLUE yeyes, I stood out like a sore thumb.
Everyone but me and my friends sat in that cafeteria looking pretty much like each other. I mean occasionally one person or another stood out slightly: somewhat too heavy set or somewhat too skinny. or way too tall or way too short. But the hair coloring was identical, the eye color was identical. Three hundred people and they pretty much looked the same. Basically cousins.
I felt so alien I cannot decribe it. And I was a white person sitting with a bunch of other white people. I cannot imagine how it would have been if I was totally different - Chinese or Black, American Indian, Muslim from Dubai. (Of course maybe a black person from the uSA would have been so familiar with the alien feeling I was experiencing that it wouldn't have registered for them.)
I was suddenly struck by a new found love and respect for my country. I believe that we all, as both individuals and as a people, choose our reality. And the most racist person in this country, on some level they are struggling with the concept of racism. Whereas simply by being born in Denmark they could have escaped that concept as an life issue.
America is a melting pot. Sit inside any cafeteria in any big city and you can see it. Yes prejudice is alive and well. And every time I watch To Kill a Mockingbird i get the shivers when the people in the balconey nudgeing Atticus' daughter to rise to her feet. But we're all working on it. Some more than others.
And McCain is simply a bitter old man. He lost his prime years to a tiger cage. Chances are good he will lose this election to Barack Obama.
It must rankle his heart and his soul, but I am not sure it is prejudice. I think it is the feeling of someone who has stayed in the political world months if not years before he should have gotten out. And so he cannot bear to see the young lion that is becoming the alpha male. While McCain retires to chew over a few odd bones and wonder why he didn't get his chance years earlier.
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| 2. another tear in my eye - about the tenth time this month |
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Edited on Sat Sep-27-08 10:09 PM by rurallib
hard to be tough and macho when this guy and his family provide living proof that America can be America. It is just causing me to relieve decades of emotion.
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| 3. beautiful post, thank you. |
| 5. That is my absolute favorite cinematic moment of all time... |
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and it was made more poignant when you realize that Atticus Finch never even knew that was all going on in the balcony above him. He never knew the love and respect that the people felt for him. and in the final analysis I don't know if it even mattered. The man did what he did because it was the right thing to do- the only thing he could do, being the man that he was. The parallel with Obama is well drawn.
This was a great post... really great. K&R
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K Gardner
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:22 PM
Response to Reply #5 |
| 17. Now you've made me cry again :-) I hope Barack knows how much he is loved, and how much we |
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all made eye contact with him during that debate. God love him.
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mamalone
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:25 PM
Response to Reply #17 |
| 21. God love him, indeed! |
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And I cried, realizing then that I was thinking about Barack Obama and how hard it must have been for him to stand on that stage and talk to a man who refused to even acknowledge his presence. Who refused, out of a meanness of spirit unfathomable to me, to look him in the eyes, man-to-man; human being to human being, Senator to Senator. I realized then why the picture of him hugging Michelle afterward touched me so. She alone would understand how that hurt him. A hurt he would likely never voice to anyone but her. Yet he stood there, for 90 minutes, without acknowledgement from his opponent. Stood there brave and calm and unflinching, fighting for us and for the principles he believes in.
I hope Obama can feel the love from all of us. And you're right about McCain's mean-spiritedness. It makes him so much smaller to those paying attention.
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Iris
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Sun Sep-28-08 03:14 PM
Response to Reply #6 |
| 170. but what makes me sadder is that so many don't seem to be paying attention |
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or if they are, it's sadder still that they are not outraged.
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| 7. I have To Kill A Mockingbird on tv right now. I read it every summer. |
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I makes me a better person.
Your OP was incrediable. A hearty kick and recommend from me.
kt
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Misskittycat
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:20 PM
Response to Reply #7 |
| 14. So do I, and I'm reading the book. I'm right at the beginning of the |
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courtroom scenes. It's one of my favorite movies of all time.
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Misskittycat
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #14 |
| 38. The movie just finished. I'm blubbering as usual. I noticed for the first time |
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that the movie is in black and white. Very effective.
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| 8. "John that's a hard one" |
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Edited on Sat Sep-27-08 10:12 PM by grantcart
While McCain was ripping into Senator Obama he stumbled on the pronunciation of Ahmadinejad and Obama interupts his rant to say "That's ok John that's a hard one." It was pure Atticus Finch.  basically her only published work thank you Harper Lee and thank you for a masterpiece of a thread
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K Gardner
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:15 PM
Response to Reply #8 |
| 12. Thank you.. I didn't have the exact quote.. editing :-) |
grantcart
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Sun Sep-28-08 12:02 AM
Response to Reply #12 |
| 47. mine isn't exact and it is inaudible but that is what was happening |
dchill
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Sun Sep-28-08 07:09 PM
Response to Reply #8 |
| 197. That worked on so many levels. |
| 9. Damn...what an excellent post |
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If they gave Pulitizers for posts, this would be the first recipient. An absolutely beautiful essay, and truly moving.
I am literally out of words.
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K Gardner
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:22 PM
Response to Reply #10 |
| 18. Thanks Nance.. and to everyone taking the time to read :-) |
shadowknows69
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Sun Sep-28-08 09:01 PM
Response to Reply #10 |
| 208. I'll second that for Ms. Greggs |
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That was an exceptional thread K.
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Best post i've ever read here.
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| 24. Unusual in expressing what we call heart. Extrordinary. |
| 13. McCain desperately wants Obama and all he represents |
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to remain The Invisible Man.
But he stopped being invisible a long time ago. And he will never be invisible again.
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| 15. What an unbelievably beautiful post. |
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My favorite book of all time is 'To Kill a Mockingbird'. If anyone wants to know what true liberal values are, read this book. I had the same thought as you did when seeing that picture of Obama hugging his soulmate right after the debate. We will never hear from his lips how much McCain's disdain, no, utterly undeserved comtempt last night hurt him. This is a man of remarkable strength, and he's no doubt come across this kind of ugliness before. I would like to thank you for sharing your beautiful, unique perspective. I'm crying for the third time today. Thank you.
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No DUplicitous DUpe
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Sun Sep-28-08 08:19 PM
Response to Reply #15 |
| 203. Such a beautiful, beautiful post.... |
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Edited on Sun Sep-28-08 08:24 PM by No DUplicitous DUpe
Thank you so much for opening my eyes to your perspective.
on edit - I meant to reply to the original message, but your post was great, too.
Also, I have never seen so many reply, using the word beautiful. You have deeply moved this community.
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| 16. That was beautiful. n/t |
| 19. Thank you for the moving post |
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I think many of us felt what you did without having the ability to put it into words. I am so glad that you wrote this, and I feel that you should SEND it somewhere. I know that Thom Hartmann often quotes DUers, and I think he would appreciate this, and perhaps share it with his listeners.
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| 23. Okay, that gave me goosebumps. n/t |
| 25. Thank you for your post. |
| 26. Tears rolling as I read your post |
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I think that Skinner needs an entirely different class of rating for a post such as this. My simple recommendation just isn't enough. Your post is really something special.
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K Gardner
(1000+ posts)
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:34 PM
Response to Reply #26 |
| 28. Just think of how we'll all feel on Inauguration Day ! Thank you. |
| 27. Wow. What a beautiful post. |
| 29. Great book, great movie, exceptional moment--and a perfect analogy. |
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I'm sobbing--and I like it.
k/r
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| 30. This is what that "must read" button we tested would be used for. |
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Thank you for putting it into words. I think Obama is a great person, and his compassion shines through during these moments that almost get overlooked when there is so much going on.
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| 31. ...beautifully written, heartfelt post |
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We are Barack America.
My prayer is for my grandchildren to grow up remembering Barack Obama as the first president they knew, and for the America he brings for their future.
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| 32. What a beautifully perceptive and elegant post.. |
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your writing is so evocative of the hope that I feel Obama represents for this country. Seeing Obama and McNasty standing side by side at that debate, I saw a man that was full of a meanness of spirit and one that represented a generosity of spirit. The same generosity of spirit that Atticus Finch had, while surrounded by mean, hateful people. That movie is also my absolute favorite, as is the book.
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| 33. This is an absolutely beautiful post ... |
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...about one of the finest human beings we've nominated to the office of the presidency in generations.
Last night I listened to the post-debate roundup wanting to hurl every time one of the white, geezer male pundits took Barack to task for not cleaning McCain's clock. Not one of them considered the delicate tightrope Barack has been forced to walk this entire election season. Had he pounded McCain as they advised, Barack would have been excoriated as an angry black man picking on a war hero.
Racism is alive and well here in the US of A.
I've seen it first-hand in my northern suburban community when my one of my good friends who is black and I decide to window-shop together after lunch and an overly-solicitous saleslady rushes to my friend's side asking if there's anything she can help her with. I know what the sales woman is thinking. And I marvel at my dear friend's quiet composure, dignity and grace when she replies - usually with a smile, "Thank you. I'm just looking." I saw that same composure, dignity and grace - along with a keen, measured intelligence and judgment- in Barack Obama last night. It's no surprise because that's who Obama is.
I really do wonder if we Americans are worthy of this man who has stepped forward with courage and at great cost to everything he holds dear to lead us through this horrible mess we're in.
So, K. Gardner, I stand with you and Miss Jean Louise. Mr. Barack Obama is passin.'
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K Gardner
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Sat Sep-27-08 10:50 PM
Response to Reply #33 |
| 35. Welcome to DU, Samilla. You're so right about the "tightrope" and your post is |
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beautiful.. you will be a welcome addition to DU ! 
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TheMickster
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Sun Sep-28-08 04:29 PM
Response to Reply #33 |
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Make a small correction: Miss Jean Louise, President Obama is passin'
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blue sky at night
(1000+ posts)
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Sun Sep-28-08 09:59 PM
Response to Reply #33 |
| 214. wow.....talk about timing..... |
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what an awesome post you responded to for your very first POST!!! Welcome to DU and keep up the good work!!
ps, where have you been all this time?
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| 34. Thank you - this is a gorgeous and touching piece of work n/t |
| 36. This man is the living embodiment of the word "presidential". |
| 37. Thank you for eloquently putting voice to the thoughts of many |
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I was so angry last night at the smallness of that over-privileged petty man, I was just livid. OUR Barack is such a class act, such a HUMAN being, not the robo-man he was debating. When he helped said those kind words to McCain when he stumbled over that name, that is a direct appeal to people's affective domain. Makes him so human and HUMANE to me.
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| 39. Great post, KGardner: Obama is like Atticus! |
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I love your pics and insight.
I feel like crying.
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| 40. A mere mortal as great as Atticus Finch |
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Yes, I do believe we may have found one. Beautiful post.
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Do you really think McCain's not making eye contact with Obama hurt Obama's feelings all that much, and that Michelle "alone would understand how that hurt him?" I mean, let's not get carried away here.
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Kind of Blue
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Sun Sep-28-08 08:23 AM
Response to Reply #41 |
| 83. K Gardner's post is absolutely beautiful and I was welling up until |
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reading Obama's feelings being hurt and Michelle alone would understand. Please, the one thing about Obama is that he KNOWS his rival all too well, better than any of us. Not looking Obama in the eyes because of meanness of spirit, I doubt it. McCain was floundering and exposed for the fraud he is well before the debate. McCain knows and we know that at every turn during his politicking that he was bested by a superior candidate and still had to go through a debate he truly tried to avoid.
I'm going to venture to say, from my experience, I don't think many blacks can achieve a position like that of Obama's without at least expecting some form of mild, indirect, or blatant racism. There's no way to strive and progress without turning hurt feelings, of any kind from any source, into a strength; and I believe Barack is well beyond the hurt stage. While I truly think empathy is a great virtue, I don't understand why so many choose to believe that Obama was hurt. Why the transfer of hurt feelings to Obama?
I saw a weak, snarling insecure old man fighting any way that he could for his world to remain the same. And there was Obama totally aware and confident leading a crusade for a better world. There I fully agree with K Gardner that Obama is to Atticus as McCain is to the townspeople.
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K Gardner
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Sun Sep-28-08 10:34 AM
Response to Reply #83 |
| 107. I agree.. see post #105. I didn't mean to try to speak for Obama.. I |
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think my own feelings, I just transferred over to him  But IndyOp had a good post on this, down the thread a bit. Thanks for responding and sharing your viewpoint. It helps me understand my reaction to this.
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Kind of Blue
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Sun Sep-28-08 10:57 AM
Response to Reply #107 |
| 112. Now, you've really made me cry and I see why you're so well |
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loved here. I hate when tears spring up like this and burn my eyes. I was afraid to post and decided what the hell if I get flamed. I truly didn't expect such a kind response. Yeah, I guess we're all dealing with the same history and moving in the same direction even though we see it from different perspectives. So thanks for not being mad at me and keeping the conversation going. Got to get tissues now.
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| 128. You may not have spoke for Obama... |
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but you spoke for all of us.
The infuriating disrespect shown by that old school pathetic creep hurt me for Obama - it angered me. I think you're right on some level it had some kind of effect on Obama - how could it not? However, he is one tough cookie and I'm sure he expects that kind of treatment from old codgers like McCain who see the tide turning. McCain is on life support in this election and he knows it. He's pissed and he can't keep his sense of entitlement under control.
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Anyone who is a part of a minority grows up knowing
"nuances" of bigotry, which include snickers and
sneers, glaring eye contact or, in this case, no eye contact
at all. At the least, it was rude of McCain and showed
culpability and guilt on his part. I expect a president of
the United States to look every citizen in the eye.
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crankychatter
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Mon Sep-29-08 04:42 PM
Response to Reply #41 |
| 237. someone disses me that way; I have to restrain myself from slapping the impudence from their face |
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Edited on Mon Sep-29-08 04:48 PM by crankychatter
I do it well
So did my man, Obama
check this reality...
John McCain wouldn't treat a beggar that way at a city bus stop without Secret Service protection
a Wino just might stab you
John McCain is a little bully and a physical coward
edited to add:
I'm sorry he got tormented for years and has PTSD
But the rest us aren't on the planet to restrain ourselves and maintain a safe environment for deranged little wack jobs like McCain
Talk to the docs... take your meds and for godsake, stfu and go home
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| 42. Stunningly beautiful post. |
| 43. OMG, that post made me tear up! |  |
DogPoundPup
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Sun Sep-28-08 12:38 PM
Response to Reply #43 |
| 44. What a beautiful, beautiful post this is... |
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I wish I could frame it and put it on my wall. And I wish somebody would get me a tissue!!!!!
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| 45. I cannot even begin to say how very moved I am... |  |
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This is, bar none, the most beautifully written post I have ever read here. You reduced me to tears, my dear K Gardner! I thank you... K&R
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| 46. I just woke my husband up and told him I had to read him this post |
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I cried my way through it-- again. I think this may be the best post ever written on DU.
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| 48. Kicking, because....nt |
| 49. I was wondering about that |
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Edited on Sun Sep-28-08 12:25 AM by TrogL
I couldn't watch all of the debate. I was too tired, and McCain was upsetting me so much I was afraid I'd throw something through the TV and I can't afford a new TV right now.
I wondered what it was about McCain that was creeping me out.
I have Asperger's syndrome. I am absolutely crappy at eye contact, but I know that so I will make the effort 'til it hurts. I kept looking at the debate and wondering, "what's wrong with this picture". Now I know. I didn't keep the DVR recording but I'll bet somebody else has it and can prove it.
McCain would NOT make eye contact.
They tell me that means something. McCain ain't no Aspie.
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Odin2005
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Sun Sep-28-08 12:49 AM
Response to Reply #49 |
| 54. I'm an Aspie too and I made that exact same observation! n/t. |  |
FKA MNChimpH8R
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Sun Sep-28-08 12:27 PM
Response to Reply #49 |
| 135. I had the same response |
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I am DXd Asperger's and had the same "something's REALLY wrong here" feeling while watching, but also couldn't figure out just what it was until Chris Matthews went on about it in the post-debate analysis. McSame is scared to death of Obama and resents him to to his miserable, rotten, sold-out core. He knows that O is a better, smarter, more accomplished man than he is and it is eating him alive.
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Harper Lee is smiling. Thank you for such a beautiful, eloquent post.
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and so full of truth and hope. I am so proud of our president.
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| 52. Thanks so much for this. |
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One of the greatest American books and films of all time. I even preformed in 2 different productions of the stage play, in 2 different rolls. A big K&R!
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| 53. OP can you send this email to KO. I just think MSM has to recognize this as a voice of a people. |
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It was beautiful, poignant, and spoke the words that came also from my heart. It showed years of struggle of oppressed people of any race of any income back ground who fought for recognition and never got it. It showed the people fighting for recognition from the oppressive and unilateral government. I'm glad Obama is our voice and representation in big government, because we can't afford nor tolerate any more invisibility.
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| 55. This is the best post I have ever read on DU in the 6 years I've been here |
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You captured the incredible integrity of our next President.
Thank You
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lizziegrace
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Sun Sep-28-08 02:38 PM
Response to Reply #55 |
| 56. I will always watch that movie when it is on...Atticus Finch and Gregory Peck were among |  |
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the great liberals of my lifetime. Your post was truly inspired and eloquent. I feel that you captured the depth of feeling that Obama felt, and the relief of being able to find consolation in the arms of his wife. A wonderful, memorable post.
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| 57. That small little yellowcornteethed piece of crap will rot in hell for |
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his lack of love for his fellow human beings, and on top of that the phoney bastard is a jealous creep. Barack towers over him in so many ways that the cheap rich fuck couldn't even look him in the eye without imploding.
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| 58. The hero on that debate stage was Barack Obama. |
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You are so insightful to point out the intersection of two indelible heroes, Barack and Atticus. To Kill a Mockingbird is my favorite movie of all time, and I watch it every year or so. That courtroom scene is soul-wrenching. I will never be able to watch it again without thinking of Barack. And now my mind is reeling with other parallels between that movie and this campaign. The lynch mob is not unlike the Republican attack machine, the bigots and bullies of that party. We, the people, are Tom Robinson, with freedom and justice denied. And the one man standing guard and defending us, of course, is Barack/Atticus. And like Atticus on that porch, the hero on that debate stage was Barack Obama. McCain tried his best to make Barack invisible, and like Scout, we will shine the light where it belongs. The debt of gratitude we owe Barack.......... Your post has touched me more deeply than I can say. Thank you so much.
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| 59. K&R for an outstanding post, lady. |
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This was truly touching and it reaches that place that we sometimes ignore, yes indeed, Thank you very much for such a wonderful anecdote. God Bless... Peace!!!
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| 61. I couldn't believe it when I saw the quote! |
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Of course I knew it instantly. THE best book written in the 20th century and your use of it was done in a very moving way. Thank you for the beautiful post.
BTW, I have a signed copy of the book given to me by my mother about 5 years ago. I was something I'd wanted for years. I will cherish it always.
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| 66. Beautiful post. K&R n/t |
| 68. Thank you for such a beautiful post. |
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There is really no more that needs to be said.
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| 69. My Father is a lot like Atticus Finch |
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The only difference is Atticus was am attorney and my Father was a computer programmer.
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| 70. Nothing to add, except thank you. |
| 71. Words ~~ I cannot find the ones necessary to express how wonderful your post is. |
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Thank you for such a beautiful offering to all of us on the DU.
Last evening, I was out to dinner with a friend. We are both white and we are both seniors. We both clearly remember the 1950s and 60s and the struggle for civil rights and we both commented on how we do not understand prejudice and discrimination. I said to my friend, "It is about time..." and we both knew that I was referring to having a POTUS who is black.
Yes, it is about time...and it is about time that repect is shown for what a person is and not what he/she looks like and most particularly, the color of his/her skin. It takes a small person, a VERY small person, to measure the worth of another by the color of his or her skin. John McCain has again proven that he is indeed a small man, a VERY small man.
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| 72. I got a chance to talk to my mom.. |
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I asked her if she watched the debate. She said she wasn't going to, and then she started and said it was so good, she couldn't flip the channel. She said before the debate if someone asked me 5 reasons why I would vote for Obama, I couldn't tell them... Now, I see what you see in this man. He's the one, he's the leader.. AND I get why he can't become the "angry" black man.. he has to let a few punches just land.. But she felt very comfortable with him as our leader and SO much less comfortable with McCain... She can't wait for the VP debate, she hopes that the little wood chuck falls flat on her face.
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| 73. What an awesome tribute! Hope it gets so many recs that it breaks a record! |
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Bittersweet tears are rolling down the face of this ol' 60s hippiechick as I read and re-read your post. As someone who lived through the 60s assassinations, the riots, the Civil Rights Act, Voting Rights Act, the draft, VietNam--all of those memories have bubbled to the surface during this campaign, and I am easiily moved to tears. The reference to To Kill a Mockingbird put me over the edge. That movie and Mississippi Burning are my all-time favorite movies about civil & human rights, and activism and our responsibility to right the wrongs of this nation.
Thanks for an unforgettable post.
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| 74. This is a great thread. |
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I doubt Obama was hurt very bad at all by McSames refusal to look at him. He is a smart man who needs not to have the approval of Mr votes 90% w/Bush.
This is a wonderful thread..It teared me up a little. Thank you
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| 75. One thing to note about Barack vs Michelle is that fortunately |
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he doesn't carry the "baggage" that Michelle and many of the rest of us multigenerational AAs carry and often internalize - the numerous stories of past hurt, oppression, anger, frustration, and unfairness heaped upon our elders during their lives here in the U.S., and this then piles onto our own heart-breaking experiences in our lifetimes. And although the message of hope and patience and determination and resilience resonate from those same stories, it has been difficult to see the light at the end of the long dark tunnel.
Fortunately Obama's father didn't have that background nor did his mother. And this I think is why he can float above the nonsense so casually. This does not diminish the fact that he has his own negative experiences through life. But he's not weighed down by his family's history, and is thus able to rise up and lift the rest of us up with him.
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1Hippiechick
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Sun Sep-28-08 08:00 AM
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| 77. Being an activist who is not AA, I appreciate these moments of enlightenment from someone with |
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first-hand experience. While I have not suffered as an AA, my Creator gave me an activist's broken heart and a fighting spirit to stand up against oppression and those who perpetrate it.
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Sun Sep-28-08 10:13 AM
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| 100. Thank you for your thoughts on this - they will stick with me and they help |
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me understand just a bit better how and why Obama is rising above. He must still be feeling the punches at a deep, deep level.
The shame I feel when I see McCain beating up on Obama is the shame I feel when I think of whites who disrespected Martin Luther King. Courage is when a great person stands up again and again after having been figuratively (or literally) spat upon. When I think about MLK having been so profoundly disrespected and how he stood up again and again I feel great, great shame.
I come back always in my mind to Booker T. Washington's eternal observation, "You can't hold a man down without staying down with him." It stuns and saddens me that McCain and others don't see this, but they don't.
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| 105. I don't even pretend to speak for Obama, or even to pretend to know what is in his |
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heart.. there has been some discussion about what was probably my transference of my own pain at watching this, to Obama. So, I apologize if I seemed to be projecting feelings onto Obama that were probably mine. Did McCain's "diss" hurt him?
I have no idea. But as you just said, Indy Op, I do think he must at least "feel the punches at a deep, deep level." I thank you for those words, for that further explanation. I'm still struggling with my own shame, as you are. And I'm proud we have a hero who will stand up and take the punches, and not complain.
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| 76. Barack has a magnanimous spirit. It comes from within, from who he is, you can tell. |  |
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That's why he reminds me of our best leaders of the 1960s. They had that quality too, which hasn't been seen in a long time. I was struck by it right away like a pitch on a tuning fork, when I saw his Keynote Speech in 2004. He has something very rare, something we need at this moment of history. I found it so interesting that the Kennedy family recognizes it too, and said so. All of us who see it can't be wrong! (And I'm sure we're not.)
I wonder that I didn't think of the parallel between him and Atticus before. Of course you're so right. I think you put your finger on what bothered so many people about the lack of eye contact during the debates that we couldn't "place" exactly.
It's funny how a moment of thinking about that, and then having the movie happen to come on as it did, can open up a truth. Thank you for "receiving" it and sharing it with us, because I believe that's just what it was. Very beautifully expressed too, and thanks for the extra effort of adding the pictures. Beautiful. And so true.
The funniest thing to me, is that some of the pundits are still saying that he "doesn't connect with people". Are they paying ANY attention? Look at his supports, everywhere the same. Are we not touched by him, do we not feel a connection? OMG! And this is not a "flash" thing, this has been a long election race.
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| 78. This is a magnificent post. Thank you for posting this. Recommended. |
| 79. Oh my! Stunningly beautiful piece! |
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What an extraordinary gift you have! I don't think I've ever read a more moving and eloquent post anywhere before. I had to read it over and over again, and it's just as powerful the last time as the first... just like both the book and the film To Kill a Mockingbird that you referenced. You chose the perfect photos to illustrate it as well... it's almost as if the photos were made for the sole purpose of accompaning your words.
I can't even come up with a response fitting enough on my own, but it did make me recall the reaction of Antonio Saliari from the film Amadeus to the work of Mozart - "It is miraculous." To me, your post is indeed miraculous. I am in awe.
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| 80. A strikingly beautiful sharing. Thank you. n/t |
| 81. This needs to go viral! |
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Too good to just keep it here. 
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Obama and his family symbolize to me what is great about America. A man who loves his wife and kids and tries to better other peoples lives as well.
A perfect example for "family values" voters to chose right?
But no..
They would rather have a 3 times married, white, rich, angry, sullen, insulting man like McCain instead. I would say their politics outweigh their religion and morals.
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| 84. Don't you apologize for nothin' |
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Your OP is a great gift to all of us -- as is Obama. Thank you 
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| 85. This is superb. May I pass this along to my email list? |
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Not only is it a well-written essay, but it really touched me, and reminded me of what it is about Obama that I find so appealing. It is the essence of his humanity, his ability to go beyond prejudice, beyond insult, beyond inequity to persevere for what is right, fair, and just for all Americans, no matter how "ugly" they may be. He believes, and so those of us who listen, believe, that a better America is possible. And a better America means a better world as well.
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| 86. Progression of pictures and your point is top notch writing, GREAT POST!!!!! |
| 87. Thank you. Your post is a treasure |
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I'm saving it to read again and again.
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chiffon
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Sun Sep-28-08 09:17 AM
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| Ya know, I don't post much, but I had to respond to this one. |
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It was indeed a pleasure to scroll through and read such an original post. Sometimes our artistic interpretations are more profound than we know.
What a great movie!
I know and I hope you know that this is purely quite profound.
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| 89. This is one of the most touching posts ever. KandR |
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Beautifully written....heartfelt thanks.
peace~
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| 90. Your post brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful. Thank you. |
| 91. A most excellent tribute. |
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Edited on Sun Sep-28-08 09:23 AM by Uncle Joe
Kicked and recommended. Thanks for the thread, K Gardner.
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| 92. Thank you for your beautiful post. |
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I was really angry with the disrespect John McCain showed to Barack Obama too but I hadn't had time to analyze it so thoroughly as you did, and I too felt sad about the debate the next day despite polls saying Barack had won. Now I know why. I think if McCain loses the election his debate performance will be a big reason why. The disrespect shown to Sen. Obama will resonate with the majority of Americans. He has shown the US and the whole world that he doesn't have the temperament or the character to be President.
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Edited on Sun Sep-28-08 09:50 AM by volstork
Just outstanding.
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No words I could ever say would give justice to the beauty of this piece.
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| 95. I was standing right in front of that man (last photo from Berlin) |
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and felt slightly overcome by the emotion that Barack has brought to the world, let alone the USA.
When it is quiet at night, I find my thoughts drifting to the 4th of November, and saying a few words to the world spirit: "please rid us of this evil, bring us all hope and change."
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K Gardner
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Sun Sep-28-08 10:40 AM
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| 108. I'd love to know the story behind the picture.. it's absolutely one of my favorites. I |
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had forgotten you were there! Do you know anything else about how this picture came to be?
It so represents how the world must feel !
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| 122. IIRC, we were standing behind the Hotel Adlon |
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most of the people thought Obama would be going in on the front side of the building, MHC and I were walking through the Holocaust Memorial, when we came out at the end near the Adlon we saw a small crowd and many Police cars. There were dozens of photographers behind the barriers and we heard buzz that Obama would be coming soon, so we waited. There were several people from Africa up close to the metal crowd control piece, and I believe this man was one of them. The other guy had on a similar t-shirt, but I think his had a graphic with the African continent on it (?) After BO waved and went into the hotel these guys just broke into song, and were swooning. It was really cool. 
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| 127. Thank you.. what a wonderful story. I'm so glad it was caught on film ! |
GalleryGod
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Sun Sep-28-08 03:14 PM
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| 96. Thanks so much for your perfect analogy, K Gardner. . . |
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. . .because your comparison underscores what I've thought all along. . that Obama's natural statesmanship comes from having to be challenged all his life as a mixed race person. . .adjusting to all the subcultures that he was a part of but had to work at being FULLY accepted into. Practice makes perfect. . .he's not afraid of failure because he knows daily how being magnanimous wins your enemies over every time. This statesmanship naturalness is the very thing that makes other politicos pea-green with envy. . .and makes some give tepid instead of unflappable support for Obama by saying ambiguous comments. . .or some who cannot look him in the eye. . .these politicians are P R O F O U N D L Y J E A L O U S. These less "centered" politicians are intimidated by Obama and won't ever admit it. BUT. . .yeah, there is a big "BUT". . .how are you coping with the huge possibility of electronic voting fraud looming ahead because the Democrats still haven't rallied for a nationwide supervised paper ballot after all the fraud revealed since 2000? I'm saddened and sickened at the thought that after all the wondrous goodwill and fortitude of Barack Obama and his supporters for the past 17 months, these damn voting machines could hijack the true will of the people ONCE AGAIN come November 4, 2008! Really. . .I'm depressed about this possibility. . .because we are so powerless in the end. . .how, K Gardner, are you dealing with this possibility? I need your further inspirational analysis. . .thanks. . .
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K Gardner
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Sun Sep-28-08 04:42 PM
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| 180. LenainRI.. I guess I'm naive, or maybe too hopeful, but I don't think this |
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election is going to be close enough to rig. I fully agree the last two WERE. I think Obama will win in such a landslide that it will prohibit any fine tuning.. not there there will be SOME tinkering, there will.. but I simply think it is going to be a blowout. I hope I'm not proven wrong. We do need to keep our eyes and ears open, stay vigilant, monitor polling places and spread information about voting.. there are wonderful groups and advocates out there that are truly on top of this. Bobby Kennedy recently did a great radio show on efforts of the Republicans to vote cage.
There are more of us.. and I do believe we're ready for them, this time.
God bless you and the wonderful state of RI.. I spent a year there and would love more than anything to go back someday, to live !
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| 97. Unbelievable post...nailed it! n/t |
| 98. What a beautiful post |
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Your comparison to my hands-down-all-time-favorite movie still has me with goosebumps on my arms and tears in my eyes. I'd never made the connection between Atticus and Barack but it is breathtakingly spot on.
Just absolutely beautiful! Thank you.
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| 99. Outstanding. And expresses what so many of us felt but couldn't speak. Thank you. |
| 101. Atticus Finch was voted THE #1 movie HERO of all time, and rightfully so !! And, |
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Gregory Peck was wonderful in the role. He PERSONALLY wanted to play that role, and he did an excellent job ! One of his best performances ever, really deserved the Oscar for it, and a really terrific person both on and off the screen. He was perfectly cast, and captured the character spot on. Indeed, everyone in the cast did a great job, as did the film makers. I have the DVD version with all of the "making of the movie" footage. A great book which I read TWICE in both grammar school and high school. Nice analogy too. McCain is taking heat BIGTIME for being so sour as to not even look at Obama. I'm not saying it was necessarily a racist thing, but VERY undignified nonetheless.
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| 102. One of the best posts I have ever read on DU |
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I too have been haunted by this debate. Thanks so much for the cry. It was a cry I needed.
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| 103. Absolutely wonderful! |
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You know how it is? When you love something, you want to share the experience with someone you love? When I read your post, I had no choice ~ I went to the kitchen and said, "Baby, can you spare a minute? I've just got to share something with you."
We sat together as I tried to read aloud your words, viewed the pictures, wiped our eyes, re-committed to one another to do whatever we can to get Obama elected. Your contribution has some far-reaching, positive effects. I'm grateful for your insight and your sharing.
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