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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 08:01 AM
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The Promise of Power




{1}Promise

Your children are not your children,
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, even in your dreams.

You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you,
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth. …..
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness."
--Kahlil Gibran

Yesterday there was a wonderful photo of America’s future posted on GD-P by friend "blogslut." The post/thread was titled "Beautiful," and featured a photo of a youngster with a drawing of Barack Obama. When I looked at the expression on the child’s face, I was reminded of Gibran’s poem, which is featured in the beginning of A.S. Neill’s 1960 classic, "Summerhill."

One of the most amazing parts of the 2008 democratic primary is the way that the younger generation is participating in the process. Senator Barack Obama is winning the democratic nomination in large part because of the investment of young Americans to his campaign. In my household, it’s not just the ones who are of voting age who support Obama.

This afternoon, for example, my 10-year old daughter will be baby-sitting. She and her 14-year old sister contribute to the Obama campaign. There are, of course, people who will attempt to dismiss what a 10-year old girl thinks, and attribute it to her parents’ influence. Maybe in part. But my daughter is smart enough to be among the children invited to the national "Junior Presidential Youth Inaugural Conference" in January, 2009. She has the chance to meet with John and Elizabeth Edwards, and to watch President Obama taking the oath of office. She could hold her own in debating the issues involved in the 2008 campaign with those who dismiss children.

It wasn’t that long ago that another generation of American youth were having their beliefs rejected by some of their elders, who were afraid of change. There were "adults" who wished that students in the 1960s would "behave." They thought that students should be "noted for involving themselves in panty raids, goldfish-swallowing, (and) seeing how many can get in a telephone booth." (Malcolm X; The Role of Young People; 1965) Some of the bows that Gibran spoke of had become sticks in the mud. And we have some people who’s minds are stuck in the mud and mire of the decaying republican past.

{2} Power

"One of the first things I think young people, especially nowadays, should learn is how to see for yourself and listen for yourself and think for yourself. Then you can come to an intelligent decision for yourself. If you form the habit of going by what you hear others say about someone, or going by what others think about someone, instead of searching that thing out for yourself and seeing for yourself, you will be walking west when you think you’re going east, and you’ll be walking east when you think you’re going west. This generation, especially of our people, has a burden, more so than any other time in history. The most important thing that we can learn to do today is think for ourselves.

"It’s good to keep wide-open ears and listen to what everybody else has to say, but when you come to make a decision, you have to weigh all of what you’ve heard on its own, and place it where it belongs, and come to a decision for yourself; you’ll never regret it. But if you form the habit of taking what someone else says about a thing without checking it out for yourself, you’ll find that other people will have you hating your friends and loving your enemies. This is one of the things that our people are beginning to learn today – that it is very important to think out a situation for yourself. If you don’t do it, you’ll always be maneuvered into a situation where you are never fighting your actual enemies, where you will find yourself fighting your own self. ….

"I hope you don’t think I’m trying to incite you. Just look here: Look at yourselves. Some of you are teen-agers, students. How do you think I feel – and I belong to a generation ahead of you – how do you think I feel to have to tell you, ‘We, my generation, sat around like a knot on a wall ….’ What did we do, who preceded you? I’ll tell you what we did: Nothing. And don’t make the same mistake we made….."
--Malcolm X; To Mississippi Youth; December 31, 1964

I have the privilege of being able to speak to groups of students about the social/political issues of the day. I am more impressed with the group of young people today than I have been at any other time when I’ve spoken with them in past decades. One of the things that stands out is how they are able to access so much information by way of the internet. The power of that tool has been evident since Howard Dean’s 2004 campaign, and it is playing a vital role in the Obama movement.

It is a different situation than what Malcolm was speaking of. Many people from the generation that I am proud to be part of did not sit around like a knot on a wall or a stick in the mud. We are happy to see this younger generation rejecting the bump on a log role that those who oppose the Barack Obama democratic movement are trying to apply to them.


In the past, very few people thought that the democratic party would be deciding between a black man and a woman for their party’s nomination for the highest office in the land. A year ago, very few "experts" gave Barack Obama a chance of being the nominee. State by state, we see the energy of the young Americans transforming the political landscape. I’m happy that I am here to witness it.
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mmonk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 08:05 AM
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1. I have to leave, I'm going to bookmark this for later reply.
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stellanoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 08:14 AM
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2. Thanks aqua man.
Another thoughtful well reasoned contribution.

I've also noticed that this is the first time people are saying they are voting for or supporting Obama because their kids convinced them to do so.

I've NEVER heard of that in any previous elections.

Wish we all would realize that our kids are often far wiser than we are, and they'd better be, given the world they are inheriting.

I heard this expression on the radio several months ago from the author of this book http://www.cosmosandpsyche.com/

"Mechanistic reductionism often masquerades as maturity."
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:06 PM
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9. Right.
My children were Obama supporters before I was. And my wife is still undecided -- she will vote for the democratic nominee. In our family discussions, she is able to list strong points for Senator Clinton, in the area that my wife works (human services). That is why when I read on the other thread where someone wrote that kids only parrot their parents, I had to laugh.
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DemReadingDU Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 06:10 PM
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20. Many adults seem to have lost the ability to think
They seem to have lost those critical thinking skills. They would rather listen to Rush Limbaugh, Foxnews, watch mindless TV shows, and have someone else think for them. Rarely do these types of people research any facts.

Young people however love the Internet. They do lots of research and reports. It's no wonder the young people are convincing the adults who to vote for.
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 06:44 PM
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21. Social novocaine.
The things you list deaden the discomfort that many adults do not want to experience.
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Frustratedlady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 08:15 AM
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3. What a wonderful piece.
Being in the twilight of my life, I have often wondered if the young people of today were strong enough and unselfish enough to take the reins of this country. I believe turnout of young folks this primary season and the way Barack Obama has lit the fire in their eyes shows that it is time to let them lead the way.

I just hope they hold onto that fire until November and use their energy to help Obama fix the mess that Bush will have left behind.

Love the Kahlil Gibran writing. I am sending it to my children and grandchildren to ponder over, as well as many friends.

Thank you!
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:16 PM
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11. The media presents
an image of the younger generation that certainly is not accurate on the larger scale -- which I suppose fits, because the media does the same thing with every other group of people in the USA.

I like Gibran's image of the bow & arrow. This might sound odd (perhaps most things I write here verge on odd), but this weekend, a good friend stopped over. He surprised me with a gift, something he had been given as a young person while living in India. It is a very old bow & arrow. He knows that I used to take part in archaeological digs in this area, and had been bringing some projectile points from another part of the country to show me a few months ago.

His gift was unexpected, and of course I needed him to write down everything about it, as when the time comes that one of my children's children becomes the keeper of these artifacts, they will know where it came from.
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Me. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 08:18 AM
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4. Transformation
Before
our
very
eyes
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:17 PM
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12. Yes.
There is a different feeling today, than there has been in the last seven years.
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blogslut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 09:04 AM
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5. Thank you
I would like to tell about a small moment from ten years ago and how it relates to the photo of the girl I posted yesterday.

For several years, my daughter went to a community center located in my hometown. This was a public facility, funded by the United Way. I thought the place was excellent. The children were racially mixed and the activities were learning-oriented. I am forever grateful to them for having helped to shape the wonderful young woman my daughter is today.

The moment that stands out in my memory still breaks my heart a decade later.

I went to pick my daughter up one day and noticed a collection of student-made collages tacked on the wall. They were collages that the older kids had made for Black History month. The theme: "I have a dream". These works of art were each child's expression of their dreams for their futures.

The boy's collages were very sweet, full of cut-out pictures of athletes, doctors and astronauts.

The girl's collages were composed of pictures of fashion models. Every single collage, nothing but pictures of models. No doctors, no astronauts, not even the stereotypical nurse or teacher.

When I saw that photo of the girl, holding her drawing of Barack Obama, I remembered those collages. I remembered the anguish I felt, realizing that there was an entire generation of girls with no hope and no dream and no role model except super model.

The girl in yesterday's photo has a new role model. She has a dream that doesn't involve her looks or figure. It it a beautiful photo because it is a photo of a better future:

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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:20 PM
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13. Very good.
Thank you for making that most important point -- this campaign is about providing everyone their rightful opportunity. It is about changing the way people think about themselves, and the way that they see the world around them. When we accomplish this, then people's behaviors change. And that is how society is transformed.
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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 09:47 AM
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6. It is inspiring to see our younger generation feeling empowered and making a difference about
for the future of us all. K&R
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:25 PM
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14. Yes it is.
A healthy society requires that all segments participate. Democrats know that young people have more potential than to be an inmate, or a soldier in Cheney's oil war. We know that. Now we need to take the steps needed to offer them other possibilities -- further education, community service, and real jobs. It can be done, but some of us have been so frustrated by the current administration, that we have trouble actually trusting that it can be done. We need to trust ourselves, and the younger generation.
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Me. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 10:58 AM
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7. Marvelous For Your Daughter

Teach Your Children

‘You who are on the road
Must have a code that you can live by
And so become yourself
Because the past is just a good bye.

Teach your children well,
Their father's hell did slowly go by,
And feed them on your dreams
The one they picked, the one you'll know by.

Don't you ever ask them why, if they told you, you would cry,
So just look at them and sigh and know they love you.

And you, of tender years,
Can't know the fears that your elders grew by,
And so please help them with your youth,
They seek the truth before they can die.

Teach your parents well,
Their children's hell will slowly go by,
And feed them on your dreams
The one they picked, the one you'll know by.

Don't you ever ask them why, if they told you, you would cry,
So just look at them and sigh and know they love you.\


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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:26 PM
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15. Great song.
Thank you.
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Me. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:38 PM
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17. Any Time
Keep teaching those seminars
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 04:55 PM
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19. Thursday.
Should be fun!
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Scurrilous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 11:28 AM
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8. K & R
:thumbsup:
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:26 PM
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16. Thank you.
Keep on fighting the good fight.
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me b zola Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 03:14 PM
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10. K&R
:kick:
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-21-08 04:54 PM
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18. Thank you. n/t
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