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Too few people spread too thin. Issue One made it on the ballot too late to run an effective campaign against it. Had there been a little more time, and the presidential race not so crucial, Issue One in Ohio was defeatable.
It was opposed by virtually every major republican, democrat, newspaper, organizations such as AARP, ACLU, the Limited (clothing store), and the Ohio State University. The second sentence should have sunk it - but there was no time to effectively convey that message to the average resident. The second sentence bars state recognition of any unmarried relationship that attempts to confer the benefits or rights of or to approximate marriage. (paraphrased - if the server is back up you can visit NoOnOne.puppycharm.com and find the full text)
The second sentence, since it is not specific to same gender couples - or even limited to couples, is ambiguous and will create an enormous financial liability for the state - which will be obligated to defend it. Just one example: A common estate planning tool is the joint with rights of survivor manner of owning property. Parents routinely title bank accounts and real property this way with their children in order to keep the property out of probate when the parent dies. This form of ownership was, until fairly recently, limited exclusively to married couples. It is likely that this form of ownership will be subject to challenge after the death of one of the joint owners because it confers a benefit of marriage on unmarried property owners.
Cleveland Heights ran a very effective campaign to create a domestic partner registry using very similar issues - unfortunately it takes time to craft and to trot out the attractive heterosexual couples or parents and children who will be affected to put a face on the issue that people can accept.
The only effective counter I can come up with is what I do every day - but many gays and lesbians are not able to do. I am completely out. I am aware of only one person who knows me who voted for Issue One, and have never personally experienced discrimination except when I am in a situation where the only thing someone knows about me is that I am a lesbian. It is much harder to vote against the marriage of the couple you know and love and are aware will be affected by your vote, than it is to vote against people you imagine have horns and a pointed tail.
I don't think we need a direct counter, but we need to find some value/cause that we are passionate about that will drive us to the polls, and motivate us.
We also need to find a communication network that is as effective as the churches. The fundie churches had captive zealot audiences of a few to hundreds of people. Our church receive a packet of pro-Issue One flyers to distribute to members (which are now in my recycle bin). I'm sure every other church did as well. We spent our time going door to door reaching one or two people at at time. We got firm commitments, and delivered most of those votes - but it was a slow one on one process. Even if they only turn out 30%, they will beat us based just on sheer efficiency of their means of contact
Thank you for acknowledging my sacrifices. As you can probably tell from my recent posts, it is extremely frustrating to deliberately choose to place the immediate well being of my family second - and then to come here and be blamed for refusing to keep silent.
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