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coloradodem2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:23 PM
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This is not a sex thread per se.
I was just wondering what your criteria for sex is?

Mine is simply that I have to find the woman attractive on some level. We don't have to be that close, but it cannot be with someone I hate. I have complained on my backstory about failed chances at relationships that there was this romanian woman that I hated. Many other guys say that I should have just gone for it. I say no. Here's why, if I ever have sex, it would be my first time. I don't think I have high criteria, just low confidence. If I had sex with someone that I could not stand, it would taint my view of it. I am not big on celibacy. Meaning, I am not celibate by choice, but I do have my standards.

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Fixated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:24 PM
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1. If she has a vagina and no penis....
I'm game.
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salinen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:27 PM
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3. What if she has both?
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name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:53 PM
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5. you mean...
a mangina?
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coloradodem2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:58 PM
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7. Hermaphidite.
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BOSSHOG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:27 PM
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2. Please don't call me Percy!
Criteria for sex? Hey, I'm 50 and married. I like it hot, sweaty. Organs and tongues and digits everywhere. I ensure she (my wonderful wife) gets there before I do - what a guy. Criteria for sex?
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On the Road Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:29 PM
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4. You're Absolutely Right!
Why would you have sex with someone you're not attracted to? Why would anyone expect you to want to?

Generally, I have tended to stay away from casual encounters, because relationships often begin. A relationship with the wrong person can vastly outweigh sex, even if it's good.
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felonious thunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:57 PM
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6. It won't taint your view of sex
Now, I'm not about to advocate going out there and screwing anyone you can find that's willing, but the whole "first time" thing is overrated. My first time was a drunken haze, with someone I didn't have any interest in, excluding that night, and it didn't taint anything. I was a little disgusted with myself for about a week, and then thought that holy cow, i'd like to do that again, with someone I actually like!

So lo these number of years later, and I'm not about to brag about that first time, but damn, I sure do love the sex!

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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 04:58 PM
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8. tee hee hee
she and i are in the same room...the cats are fed...my brother is not whining...we are both still awake :)
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Moderator DU Moderator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-07-04 05:02 PM
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9. Locking
This will turn into a sex thread regardless of intent.
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