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If so, don't be so quick to rush off, and be less worried about what someone might think of you. Worry about the kid first--not always fun, but it is your basic duty as a human being. Ask the kid "Where are your parents, little guy?" Ask him why he's there all alone, be sure his parents even know. He wouldn't be the first kid to sneak to a park when his parents thought he was napping or with a sitter. His parents could be frantically searching for him, or might think he's with someone they can trust. I can tell you that from first hand experience. Or there could be something worse going on. And it's even possible the parents are just bad parents. Don't just walk away from something like that. Don't be that guy. Best case is to find the parents and make sure everything is good. Worst case is you call the cops. Whatever happens, worry more about the kid than about your schedule.
If you're saying you've seen the kid there a few times and have reason to think his parents are okay with him being there, then it's your choice as to whether you avoid the park. Whether it's the kid or something else, you'll always have to decide stuff like that. Make the choice, and don't blame the kid or parents for it. There's no guarantee that if the parents were there the kid wouldn't bother you anyway. If you always avoid uncomfortable situations, you'll feel like a prisoner a lot of your life.
Ask the kid's name, tell him yours, tell him you're in a hurry but can let him throw the frisbee once. It sounds to me like you were getting defensive with the kid, making up excuses on why you couldn't play. Don't. Be in charge--he's four, he's used to big people being charge. Then, whenever you pass through the park, say hi using the kid's name, tell him you can't play, let him pet your doggy, then be on your way.
But first, make sure he's okay. The way I read your OP, you saw a strange four year old alone and didn't try to find out where or who his parents are. Don't do that.
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