Because I am your father, that's why!

[LuckyTheDog]

Well, at least that's what I want to say. Sometimes I actually do use variations of that. Usually, I simply try to make the point that he is nine years old, that I am responsible for him for nine more years and that I have to decide things for him a lot of the time. Sometimes that sinks in, other times, not so much.

And yes, taking baths and/or showers really is necessary. And yes, you really DO have to finish that homework before you can watch Spongebob, etc., etc.

Sigh. Raising a kid in a way that encourages his strong-willed nature and teaches him that questioning authority can be a good thing ... well, that can really bite you in the ass sometimes.

Luckily, I know that, deep down, he's a good kid. :)

#OneOfThoseDays

:beer:

[trof]

1. We've all (most of us) had 'em, bud.

Days like that.
Good luck.

[PassingFair]

2. Teaching by example, and explaining WHY is always the best way.

It will pay off in the long run.

Teaching by fear and intimidation will only
engender obedience, not the wisdom to CHOOSE
wisely.

[Skittles]

3. I wasn't even allowed to ask the question that would demand that response

I fucking knew better!

[LuckyTheDog]

5. Me, too

I am trying to do things differently, though. But... man... that's the hard way.

I actually can see why parents just beat the crap out of the kids when that was acceptable. It had to be easier -- even if it was immoral by today's standards and, in the long run, far less effective.

[driver8]

4. I've got a VERY strong willed 9 year old daughter...

She is a good kid, too. However, she really pushes my buttons, sometimes! She is also a drama queen...

[zanana1]

6. There's a fine line here...

I think it's healthy for a kid to ask a parent "why" and get a real answer. However, I've seen instances when the kid practically takes over and becomes the authority figure. Parents have a duty to say "no" so their children will grow up to be good people.