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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:04 AM Original message |
What's the point of divorcing somebody after 40 years? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:06 AM Response to Original message |
1. i can see it. sometimes two grow apart. |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:12 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. If you just "grow apart" ... that is a choice. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:15 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. see, again, you are right. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 11:55 AM Response to Reply #3 |
16. Sometimes life takes you in different directions. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:10 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. you kinda explained it really really well. nt |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:18 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. My perspective ... |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:28 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. In a way, it's still about love. |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 05:53 PM Response to Reply #26 |
37. Is NYC being THE place to do what she wants to get back into |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 12:51 PM Response to Reply #26 |
63. very nice- sounds like a great and healthy relationship and explains why |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:49 PM Response to Reply #3 |
33. Not so much a "choice" |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 08:07 AM Response to Reply #33 |
54. But it sounds like you made a choice .... |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:05 AM Response to Reply #54 |
60. Let's put it this way |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:39 AM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to be completely black and white about this ... |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:09 AM Response to Original message |
2. They shouldn't. |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
5. Call me cynical, |
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Macoy (102 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:25 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Marriage Should be for Life |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:46 AM Response to Reply #6 |
10. Very sorry to hear you are going through that... |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 11:39 AM Response to Reply #6 |
14. I completely disagree |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:32 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. There is the matter of the recent purchase of an 8 million dollar |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:44 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Hmmmm. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
7. Only the two people involved can know the point of divorcing |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:28 PM Response to Reply #7 |
45. This is the only possible, and therefore correct, answer. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
11. People don't die or lose the ability to be miserable at the age of 60 |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
12. ask my parents. They did it after 38 years of marriage and 3 adult children. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:21 PM Response to Reply #12 |
20. The parents of a friend of mine did the same thing. But they weren't very good at being separated.. |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
13. Whats the point of being married to be married? |
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BurtWorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 11:42 AM Response to Original message |
15. The point may be that you just don't want to be married to a person anymore. |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
17. While they may get divorced, I thought they were just getting separated |
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PRETZEL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:56 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. They've been in the public eye for decades, |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
21. I honestly think my parents should get divorced (41 years) |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:13 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. I agree with you |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 04:29 PM Response to Reply #21 |
36. Yep, your last sentence exactly. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
23. Would you be happier if she had just shot him? nt |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:50 AM Response to Reply #23 |
58. Well, that is a form of recycling. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
25. When you have nothing in common any more what's the sense in staying married? My |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:36 PM Response to Reply #25 |
32. has he seen a doctor lately? |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 04:11 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. He won't go. He tells everyone, "I have insurance so I can't afford it" Thanks for caring.. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
27. There are as many points as there are divorces. |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
28. Personal Happiness and Fulfillment |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
29. Distributing the assets now rather than later? |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
30. So you should be forced to live with someone |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
31. Reminds me of the joke about the elderly couple who went to the divorce lawyer |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:19 PM Response to Reply #31 |
51. That's a good one. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
34. Sick of each other? |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
38. Lots of reasons. |
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chromotone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
39. After 22 years, my wife and I are calling it quits... |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:49 AM Response to Reply #39 |
57. Well, then, good for both of ya. But that said, I think you should give it another 18 years |
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chromotone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 12:53 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. I gave it another 18 years... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 07:58 PM Response to Original message |
40. because you're absolutely sick of them |
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Love Bug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
41. Some people just get tired of fighting all the time. |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
42. I think he wants some strange... |
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david13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
43. I agree. Why? after 40 years? But I guess they argued and just |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
44. You hate their guts after 1 year, but it takes you 39 to do something about it |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
46. A better question: |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
47. If you think you would be happier in a newer relationship I could see it. Apparently they had |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
48. I understand your confusion, |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 07:58 AM Response to Reply #48 |
53. They are public figures. People speculate all the time about the lives of public figures. |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
49. Every day you put your happiness on the back burner is a day you won't get back. |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:17 PM Response to Original message |
50. interesting to see how many people are insisting |
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southerncrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 11:28 PM Response to Original message |
52. Sometimes you just get tired of 'em. |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
55. sometimes it takes that long to work up the guts to do it. |
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deutsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:15 AM Response to Original message |
56. I don't believe marriage is for life |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
59. For the record, I would totally do Tipper |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
62. I guess it depends on what exactly your marriage vows were, and whether you really meant them. |
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rcrush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
65. Because at 41 is when you go on the shooting spree. |
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