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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:27 AM
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Would you assist your SO in a suicide?
we are talking about one motivated for medical rather than emotional reasons.
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Strong Atheist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:28 AM
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1. Yes. Did it for my furkid.
Edited on Sun Sep-06-09 09:29 AM by Strong Atheist
Edited: May do it for myself one decade...


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suninvited Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:28 AM
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2. yes
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stray cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:30 AM
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3. Under the right circumstance - for example giving appropriate pain medication for pain
in a terminal situation.
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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:33 AM
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4. If and if
Terminal, extreme pain and thought it through? Yes.
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:35 AM
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5. No.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:38 AM
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6. Without question...
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HopeHoops Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 09:52 AM
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7. If she was in pain with no prospect for survival, then yes, without question.
Legal or not.

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Moondog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 10:52 AM
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8. Only hypothetical in my case, but yes. n/t
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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 11:47 AM
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9. Yes.
If it was terminal and there was lots of pain, and quality of life and degraded significantly.

I've already asked my SO to do it for me, too. Actually, if I'm still able take myself out, I'm doing it as soon as I'm no longer able to get to the bathroom under my own steam. I ain't livin' that way.

:hi:
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Dystopian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 11:55 AM
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10. Yes, with fear, but yes...
My youngest son and I made this pledge to each other many years ago. I wonder if he remembers. I don't have an SO, but would do it...with the fear of going to prison. I would die there, as I have extreme anxiety, and am so claustrophobic that I would indeed die. So....I would, but then don't know what would happen to me, or if I would just happen to go with him...

You ask some very intense questions, and this is the first one I've responded to.

peace~
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 12:25 PM
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11. Would I? Of, course the answer is "yes". However, there would be stipulations and conditions.
I wouldn't do it just willy nilly as your question asks.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 02:07 PM
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14. ^
with much conversation, hesitation, reservation and forethought.
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elocs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 01:03 PM
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12. I have no SO and never will, but I would if I did. n/t
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quakerboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 02:00 PM
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13. Yes, with reservations
Knowing her family has a history of mental illness, I would have to be 100% sure that it was for medical reasons.

That is a heartrending question.
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 02:09 PM
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15. yes
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 03:40 PM
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16. I suppose the option "one motivated for financial reasons" is off topic
Also, does it have to be an actual suicide, or can it only look like one?
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 03:58 PM
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17. Yes, I think so, if he was terminal and pain was no longer manageable.
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Zavulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-06-09 04:17 PM
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18. I'd like to think so if she was in that much pain, but I honestly don't know...
Edited on Sun Sep-06-09 04:18 PM by Zavulon
...and neither do most other people. You have to be in that situation to truly know, you can't just say you would and expect the rest of us to take that as gospel.
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