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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 07:46 PM Original message |
Can you love someone if you cheat on them? |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
1. That's a good question |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
2. Without going into a lot of Yak-Yak ..About 98% NO. |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
3. Sure, if you're cheating on them with their clone |
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coyotespaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 07:19 PM Response to Reply #3 |
39. Really, though... |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 10:28 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. X-Geek. |
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mcctatas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
4. I think so... |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
5. I guess it varies. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
6. Apparently not enough to not risk hurting them |
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Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
7. Yes. But it's also a sign that something important is missing. |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 02:08 PM Response to Reply #7 |
37. I agree. |
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Chemical Bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
8. I would say the cheater doesn't love him or herself. |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:15 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Excellent point |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
9. Yes.... people cheat for many reasons and probably trust issues but |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 01:27 PM Response to Reply #9 |
31. both men and women cheat for love and/or companionship. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
11. There are many different kinds of love... |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
12. No |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:27 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. haruka!! |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:29 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. TROPHY WIVES UNITE! |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 07:22 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Facebook...I'm addicted...so sorry! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 01:29 PM Response to Reply #23 |
32. Check PM |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 03:10 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. I did...hook me up girlfriend!! |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
13. Define "love". |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
14. Yes. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
15. Cheating doesn't mean you're not in love. It means you're a douchebag. nt |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
17. My ex-husband thought so |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
18. maybe the better question is-How can you cheat on someone you love? |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
19. Yes (nt) |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
20. Being faithful is showing love n.t |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-21-08 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
22. Sure, but it doesn't speak too highly of the value of being loved by you |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
24. You've already presupposed the answer by calling it cheating. |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
25. Cheating is an irresponsible |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 07:48 AM Response to Original message |
26. Yes and no. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
27. Going behind the back of your partner is disrespectful and wrong. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
28. HELL NO. |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
29. No. If you love someone you don't do that to them. |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
30. sure. I would venture to say you can love someone and KILL them. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
33. Yes, I think so. That doesn't make it right, though. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
34. Depends on your definition of love |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
35. Yes. |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
36. Love and Sex are not the same thing... |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
40. Of course you can. Silly question. |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
41. Define "cheating" |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 12:47 PM Response to Reply #41 |
52. I define it as: violating whatever commitment you made to that person. |
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triguy46 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
42. No. You never cheat on the one you love. End of story.l |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
44. no |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
45. If you are a self-absorbed person who misunderstands how fidelity is connected to love.. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
46. Maybe |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
47. Yes |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-22-08 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
48. yes, but it sucks |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 12:16 AM Response to Original message |
49. What's love got to do, got to do with it? |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 09:14 AM Response to Original message |
50. I would say yes... |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
51. Whattheheck, -I'm in a philosophical mood. |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
53. I think so. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
54. If Love=Respect, then no |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
55. Cheating on someone (and I'm going to assume exclusive relationship) |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
56. Yes. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-23-08 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
57. there are as many kinds of love as there are people, so Yes...would I want it? |
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