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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:00 PM Original message |
my friend asked me last night why she isn't 'over' losing her baby 3 months ago. it broke my heart |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. You're a damn good friend. You did VERY well. And no, three months is NOT |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. thanks, redstone |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
2. It's a death in the family |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. she takes his reluctance to talk as a sign that he's past it already |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:15 PM Response to Reply #4 |
12. I would venture that she is wrong. He isn't over it, either. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:33 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. he's not over it |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
5. My mother lost a daughter soon after her birth. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:35 PM Response to Reply #5 |
16. thank you |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
6. From the dates you gave, the baby's due date is right about now. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:37 PM Response to Reply #6 |
17. she's going to appeal the decision |
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fight4my3sons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
7. Here is a site that may help |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. thank you |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
8. This brought tears to my eyes. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:41 PM Response to Reply #8 |
19. thank you |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
9. There are several national support groups for such situations |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:43 PM Response to Reply #9 |
20. i don't know if the hospital gave her any info |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 06:49 PM Response to Reply #20 |
29. Kagehime, you are such a good friend. Please PM me if you want to discuss anything at all. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
10. She'll never be 'over it'. It was the death of a child, a dream. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
21. thanks, midlo |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
27. Midlodemocrat speaks the truth... here's my backstory. I still think about the baby, even though it |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 06:43 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. i am so sorry, radio lady |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
11. wow |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:48 PM Response to Reply #11 |
22. it's not long at all |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 05:10 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Ive always wondered what it would be |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
13. My daughter was stillborn at 22 weeks 19 1/2 years ago and I still cry for her. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:50 PM Response to Reply #13 |
23. i'm tempted to talk to her husband |
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easttexaslefty (740 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
14. All the advice up thread is really really good |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 04:59 PM Response to Reply #14 |
24. ... |
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dendrobium (85 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
26. She also needs a lawyer. |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
30. You're doing everything you can do for her. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
31. That's so sad |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
32. ummm....she needs to give herself more time. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 10:25 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. thank you so much for sharing that with me |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:19 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. If you hear anyone tell her that, |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
33. ... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-27-08 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
35. So sad. I hope she finds a good lawyer, a better therapist and a (much) better husband. |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:52 AM Response to Original message |
37. Here's a link |
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nuxvomica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 08:17 AM Response to Original message |
38. Was there a funeral or memorial service? |
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