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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:25 PM Original message |
Need advice for a Mom of a 16 year old daughter who is heading for trouble. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
1. maybe some good parenting? |
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leftyclimber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:43 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. It's amazing the sh*t you run into as a parent. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. That is, unfortunately, not always the truth... |
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LeftPeopleFinishFirst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 09:52 PM Response to Reply #1 |
12. That's not how it works. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 10:06 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. and I'm not saying that this kid is a bad kid |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:25 PM Response to Reply #13 |
44. The mother is contacting the DA not about her daughter, |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 05:13 PM Response to Reply #12 |
39. Well said. |
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TexasBushwhacker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
2. Let me be blunt |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:55 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Yup, at 16 that girl is already doing her own thang |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 11:00 PM Response to Reply #2 |
17. I wish we could reccomend replies. |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:14 AM Response to Reply #2 |
35. I would definately get some sort of long term birth control |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
5. This is in Chicago? |
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Prisoner_Number_Six (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:51 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. That's NOT the body part that needs attention. |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:30 AM Response to Reply #7 |
25. "I am not a number, I am a free man!" |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
6. We face it now. If there's other issues, like depression, or psychosis - |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
9. a school where she is virtually a prisoner until she is 18 |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 10:52 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. I know some people who did that with their very bright son |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:44 AM Response to Reply #9 |
30. I will PM you later on Wednesday. n/t |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
10. I've told the Mom for years that the older a child gets, |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 10:36 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. If 'loving' the 'wrong' guy is the worst thing |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 10:56 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. amen |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 11:14 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. n/t |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:42 AM Response to Reply #14 |
29. The big deal is that she is cutting school to go see this guy in Chicago. |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:38 PM Response to Reply #29 |
41. These days teenage girls |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:14 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Right, I think that very many young women are high maintenance. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
11. Send her here |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
18. There is so much wrong with this situation, I'm not sure where to start. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:13 AM Response to Reply #18 |
23. PM the Midlo!! (It does sound like the girl is basically too far gone, though.) |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:33 AM Response to Reply #18 |
28. I will do that later on Wednesday. I work the night shift. |
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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
19. answer: bavarian bording school. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
21. I have a similar story with a 15 year old.... my stepdaughter... |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-20-08 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
22. Where is the girl's father? |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:28 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. The girl's father walked out on her when she was 4, |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:31 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. well then, that option is out -- |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 12:30 AM Response to Original message |
26. They believe they have better things to do in Colorado, too |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 03:57 AM Response to Original message |
31. are they in cook county? dupage? |
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JoDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 06:56 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. The OP said they live in the suburbs |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:15 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. They live in Cook County--it is more than just Chicago, encompassing many burbs. |
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logosoco (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
34. this story has really touched me... |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
36. Sixteen is a hell year for sure |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 05:29 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. Well, the first 4 on the list are very good. n/t |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
37. Sounds awfull. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
38. Send her to Saint Dominic Savio's school for Highschool Girls in Trouble. |
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LucyParsons (938 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
42. This may not be helpful |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:39 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Grounding can be too simple of an idea. |
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