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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:05 AM
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So, do tell, what was it like 'your first time'?
Were you scared?

How young were you first time out?

Did you use BC? (birth control)

Did you even know what the hell you were doing?

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OK....I'll answer first..... Gulp...


I was 15 and didn't have a clue. It was my first time out.

We didn't have any BC and didn't know where to get it.

We didn't know what we were doing at all but we knew we were attracted to each other.

Nothing happened because we both were so inept! :rofl:

That was a good thing!! :P

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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:06 AM
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1. 13. She was 16 and had a driver's license...so it was cool.
Rdstone
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:29 AM
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11. 13!?! Wow!!
I was still playing with dolls at 13 yrs old!
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:08 AM
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2. not scared
16

condom

not much of a clue :rofl:

you could not pay me enough money to go through that again :rofl:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:09 AM
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3. My dear Breeze54!
I was a lot older....not that it helped any! (I was 21.)

We were virgins too...

I was scared, and not ready at all, if you get my drift...

Nothing happened...

Well, not too much, anyway...

It did get better!

We're still married...and love each other a whole lot... :blush:
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:13 AM
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5. The first time I hit a 'home run'; I was 18
and I married him three years later, at 21. ;)

but I did 'try' it at age 15 and it scared the 'you know what' out of me! :P
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Bennyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:11 AM
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4. me...
18...after a couple of failed attempts at an earleir age.

No. No BC. Knew nothing about it.

No, the girl was way more experienced. Funny I can see the very spot that "IT" happened from my window right now....
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:14 AM
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6. A bit nervous
Eighteen both of us. (Wasn't her first time, though.)

Yup.

We knew enough, and we were in love.

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suzbaby Donating Member (906 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:15 AM
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7. 19 yo
Got drunk at a party with my boyfriend, went home afterward and it just "happened".

Had the sense to ask for a condom mid-way through.

Didn't know what the hell I was doing. Wish it hadn't happened the way it did, but such is life!

I met a wonderful man later who treated me like a queen and washed away all the memory of such incidents. :)

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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:26 AM
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9. The man I married taught me all about sex...
and at 18/19; I was more than willing to learn. ;) Maybe because I was in love with him.

But from 15 (after that experience) until I met him? I wasn't interested.



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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:24 AM
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8. I was so nervous I could barely get it up.
I was 16 and so was she. I played it off like I needed a little extra attention "down there" and she obliged me. That was enough to get the ball rolling and around 15 minutes later we were basking in the awkward silence of the afterglow.

Luckily, it was the first time for both of us, so neither one of us knew how fucking horrible we were.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:28 AM
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10. Awe, go easy on yourself...
You were just a kid. All is forgiven. ;)
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 12:51 AM
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12. I was 16.
My best friend's parents were out of town. I was staying with her. My best friend had lost her virginity a few weeks earlier and I was all too eager to catch up.

Our boyfriends came over. We raided her parent's liquor cabinet and proceeded to get looped on Jack Daniels while watching her dad's porn movies. Marilyn Chambers in Inside Seika is the one I remember. We used condoms but I have no recollection of who brought them. We had at in my friend's parents' bed - broke one of the wheels off the frame, too. Oops.

The whole thing was rather blurry in memory but we had no clue what we were doing. We tried to be very serious though, at first, I think because of the porn and the alcohol. I think we so wanted to *do it right* because of the whole first time thing, but in the end we just ended up laughing our asses off at how absurd it all seemed at the time.

Crazy. Just crazy.

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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 01:01 AM
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13. Sounds about right....
;)

It was all a blur to me too, at the time and I was

just freaking out afterwards.

Looking back, I was just to young and immature.

I'm glad we didn't 'figure' it out that night. ;)

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muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-17-07 05:22 AM
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14. Locking - Sex thread
By definition. Locking this before it gets too explicit.
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