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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:41 PM Original message |
daughter just told me she wanted to quit band |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
1. Does she still enjoy playing? |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:43 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. she says she likes playing |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:00 PM Response to Reply #2 |
11. I absolutely hated football season |
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Red State Rebel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:04 PM Response to Reply #2 |
15. This is always the toughest time of the season.... |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 09:05 AM Response to Reply #15 |
44. My sister quit band because of pressure to be in marching band |
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soleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:27 AM Response to Reply #2 |
47. I joined the band because of football season |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
3. Is that such a bad thing? |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
4. what doesn't she like |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
5. Unless she's going to major in music, |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
6. What's so bad about that? |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:48 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. I am so not a stage parent |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:57 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. She's right to feel that way |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:58 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. its more the principal of sticking to your committments |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. You marched four years |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:02 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. its HER committment she chose to play no one forced her |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:08 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. Well, I saw that in your edited OP |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:12 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. She's choosing not to now. |
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LSK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 04:49 PM Response to Reply #14 |
76. she committed to do it indefinately till the end of time??? |
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ChoralScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:01 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Were you frightened by a marching band as a child, LM? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:08 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. nah, I was on choir. Air conditioning and no carrying heavy stuff on the bus. |
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ChoralScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:12 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. I did both... I even taught band for a while |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:18 PM Response to Reply #18 |
29. And no marching |
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-..__... (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 08:48 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Band Camp |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:12 PM Response to Reply #8 |
23. One time in band camp........... |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
16. I quit in HS because of marching/football |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:11 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. I suggested she go to Jazz Band and she said |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
17. Maybe she'd rather be making music, and not be the willing slave face forced to serve the state |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:13 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. christ.... |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:36 PM Response to Reply #17 |
33. ... |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 09:09 AM Response to Reply #33 |
45. No kidding! |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:43 AM Response to Reply #17 |
55. Wow. Just wow. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 01:11 PM Response to Reply #55 |
69. Thanks to all of you! |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 04:41 PM Response to Reply #17 |
75. You, Sir, are my new hero |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:20 AM Response to Reply #75 |
80. Thanks! |
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Pierre.Suave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:24 AM Response to Reply #17 |
81. HAHAHAHAHA |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
24. I think it's great that she can play three instruments |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:16 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. thank you |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:39 AM Response to Reply #28 |
53. Errraaaa.... Greenbriar.... |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
26. I stopped when I had to march in order to stay in band |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
27. I hated the fact that my mother forced me to do marching band |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
30. Exploring some issues with her could be helpful, too - |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
31. Send her to the principal's office. |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
32. People actually march in band? |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
34. Can she get out of marching band? |
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nytemare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-21-07 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
35. Is it something she has to drop immediately? |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 02:33 AM Response to Original message |
36. Is there any local youth band or orchestra she could join |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 02:52 AM Response to Original message |
37. It happens... |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 03:27 AM Response to Original message |
38. Went through the EXACT same thing with my parents sophomore year of high school |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 03:56 AM Response to Original message |
39. Let her quit. |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:41 AM Response to Reply #39 |
54. In my day, they WERE identified as worse than "geeky". |
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carly denise pt deux (855 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 07:12 AM Response to Original message |
40. Unless she is planning on being a music major in college, let her quit |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 07:28 AM Response to Original message |
41. let her read this thread and, then discuss the options... |
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AllegroRondo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 07:57 AM Response to Original message |
42. some advice from a former Band nut |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:23 AM Response to Reply #42 |
46. Another Band nut here... |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:29 AM Response to Reply #46 |
48. There are three bassoonists on this board? |
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AllegroRondo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:33 AM Response to Reply #48 |
50. we need to get together and play some time! |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #50 |
56. Ouch, I learned tenor clef the hard way |
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AllegroRondo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:20 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. the "sink or swim" method? |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:30 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. It was the |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 01:00 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. BWHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 01:04 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. Yeah, and he spit when he yelled |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 01:29 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. Foam at the corners of the mouth... |
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AllegroRondo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:32 AM Response to Reply #46 |
49. alright! another bassoonist! |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:55 PM Response to Reply #49 |
64. I went to a conservatory on bassoon |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
43. My daughter did that her senior year. |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
51. anything else going on???? |
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The empressof all (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
52. Next to Atheletics...Music is the source of the most college scholarships |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
57. Just make sure that band gets replaced with something else. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:08 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. While I agree that sitting in front of the tv is a waste |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:30 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. We knocked off the structured stuff in the 5th grade. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
59. Did you pay a boatload of band fees just before school started? |
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Silver Swan (805 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
63. It's up to her, but |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 12:59 PM Response to Original message |
65. I refused to play in the marching band. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 01:06 PM Response to Reply #65 |
68. What do you play? |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 01:33 PM Response to Reply #68 |
71. No double reeds for me |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 01:47 PM Response to Reply #71 |
72. And you REFUSED??? |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
73. Does your daughter audition for any honors bands ? |
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Gidney N Cloyd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
74. Marching Band was the WORST! |
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last_texas_dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
77. I'd encourage her to think it through |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
78. Marching band is hard on the embouchure... |
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bamacrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-22-07 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
79. Let her, it could greatly improve her life. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
82. Tell her to tough it out for the next 2 years or she's grounded until graduation |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
83. Why are you angry? |
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