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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 09:49 AM
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My Gf asked me to move in with her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
well she said we should move in together and find a place etc.

:bounce:

:)
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 09:50 AM
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1. Yay!
:toast:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 09:51 AM
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2. my lease doesnt expire till the summer...
so its a future plan.

as is my cats are at her place...

so its not like we arent living together now

:bounce:
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 09:56 AM
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3. Cool!
:hi:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 09:57 AM
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4. hey there!
:hi:
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 10:02 AM
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5. She isn't 20 years older than you, is she?
it's nice to have someone you love around.............
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 10:04 AM
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6. she is a year and a half younger, and no i dont date anyone more than 2 years my junior.
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Redbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 10:10 AM
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7. Congratulations.
My advice after many years of observing relationships:

Find a place with a really big bathtub.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 10:11 AM
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8. why?
and thanks.

i dont really like baths
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Redbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 10:27 AM
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9. I have many friends who swear by the magical properties
of the joint bubble bath.

But really, it just means to find a place that will enrich your relationship. It could be a balcony or a stunning view or a location near a theater or museum you both love.
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Bake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:11 PM
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10. Is it really wise to share this much personal info?
Just askin' ... be careful out there.

Bake
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:12 PM
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11. what do you mean? i am not giving you a home address...
some chick in nyc is moving in with another...this does not qualify as too much personal info. imho.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:19 PM
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14. Well, you know. Out of the millions of people in NYC...
you and she are two of them.

:D
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:22 PM
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16. 2 lesbians in brooklyn. we will be so easily identifiable
:)
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:00 PM
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19. Especially if you move to Park Slope.
:eyes:

Congratulations!

I hope all goes well. We dated for about six months as well before we took the next step.
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:18 PM
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13. I agree, 'Bake. But then again
I'm OLD & WISE :smoke:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:17 PM
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12. Congratulations!
:bounce:


For some reason I thought you already did live together. :shrug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:19 PM
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15. congrats and good luck--i wish you two all the best!!!
great news lioness :hug:
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Anarcho-Socialist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 01:38 PM
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17. Yay!!!
:woohoo:

When do you start deciding on names for your future cats?
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 02:56 PM
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18. That's terrific, lioness. I'm happy for you both.
:-)
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:01 PM
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20. what about pots and pans?
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:02 PM
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21. CONGRATS@!!!!!!!!!!111111
:bounce: :bounce:

SOOO happy for you!!! :D
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:18 PM
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22. Excellent!
You two are a great couple. Congratulations. :toast:

And please keep me posted on your plans. If you want my opinion on Brooklyn neighborhoods, PM me, ok?
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:21 PM
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23. thanks. we currently dont like greenpoint very much.
and are looking at affordable areas. all help would be appreciated
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:26 PM
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24. We moved from Ft. Greene/Clinton Hill.
You might still be able to find affordable housing in that area. We lived right on the edge of Bed/Sty and by the time we left, we noticed a burgeoning gay community sprouting up.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:31 PM
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25. we really want to live in a gay friendly place. people stare at us too much.
i can handle it (people in general stare at me all the time)..but she cant stand it
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:33 PM
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26. Park Slope is a safe bet.
Poke around and you might find something affordable on 5th Avenue. There's lots of new restaurants, bars and shops. And it's convenient to the subway.
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-15-07 03:45 PM
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27. yeah, but there is something in the water there.
Edited on Mon Jan-15-07 03:50 PM by idgiehkt
If you drink enough of it you end up like this:





My two favorite ladies

edit: Congrats to you Lioness...my mind kind of wandered there for a minute, lol. :hi:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 11:24 AM
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28. i doubt i will end up that hot.
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 12:09 PM
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36. LOL
you already are. :hi:
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Catfight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 11:26 AM
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29. That's the beginning of the end...LOL...always the downward spiral from there. nt
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 11:42 AM
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31. i doubt it...i can count on one hand how many times i have slept in my apt
in the last 3 months

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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 12:52 PM
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38. Not for me. Living alone sucked ass.
Moving in with Sweetie was the best thing I ever did.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 11:28 AM
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30. Wow, how cool!
Good for you.

:bounce: :hi: :hug:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 12:02 PM
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34. thanks love.
hopefully you will come visit with jonny some day :)
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 10:30 PM
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50. I hope so.
One day we will meet and all have fun! :) :hi:
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 11:46 AM
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32. Congratulations!
All the best!
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zappa_parappa Donating Member (280 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 12:00 PM
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33. My girlfriend and I are talking about it too...we're running into some issues though
Shes got really old animals, and I live up a big flight of stairs, so we can't really move them. And I just bought the place, so selling it isn't really practical yet...I might rent it out and move in with her, but i dunno yet. But the sooner the better, I can't wait.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 12:38 PM
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37. i cant wait either. i already live with her. it would nice to make it official though
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YDogg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 12:02 PM
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35. neat. I remember that feeling.
My best to you both!
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 04:07 PM
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39. thank you
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 05:09 PM
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40. Very cool. Yay!
So can I guess that you're seriously considering it? Or have you already agreed?

:hug:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 05:19 PM
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41. well i am basically living with her. my cats are in her apt.
Edited on Tue Jan-16-07 05:20 PM by lionesspriyanka
so yes i agreed.

we are both very excited about it.

all my suburban friends will be sad, cos now they use my apt to crash after parties.

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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 05:21 PM
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42. So when can I come over for the first dinner party!
:9

Please pass on my congratulations to Lisa and tell her I said Mozel Tov!
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 05:23 PM
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43. well my lease expires in may so some time after that.
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musiclawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 05:40 PM
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44. How old are you.?
I'm not against co-habitation but I have more than one caveat depending on your age.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 05:43 PM
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45. 28
Edited on Tue Jan-16-07 05:43 PM by lionesspriyanka
cohabitation is kind of your only choice if you are gay and committed
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 06:11 PM
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46. delete
Edited on Tue Jan-16-07 06:12 PM by lionesspriyanka
dupe
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 06:11 PM
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47. so umm what caveats do you have?
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musiclawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 06:33 PM
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48. my neice was in same situation as you
under 30, almost knew herself, almost knew what she wanted but not quite yet...Had some school to finish, wanted a new career (which to me means becoming a new person) I told her to be careful because her lady friend was settled, done with school, wanted kids yesterday. My sis was just not there yet. It was over pretty soon. Make sure you are on the same page, at the same trajectory etc Best wishes.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 01:07 PM
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51. well she is younger than me. and we are on the same page.
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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-16-07 06:35 PM
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49. Woohoo!
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 01:07 PM
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52. thanks
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 01:10 PM
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53. Are you and her the same dress size?
If so - boom! Double your wardrobe instantly!

Congrats!
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 01:11 PM
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54. we have very different taste in clothing. she would never wear mine nor i hers.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 01:11 PM
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55. Still, certain accessories can be shared
Say a cami that fits you both...
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-17-07 01:20 PM
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56. so far we can share belts. thats pretty much it, she wears boys clothes
and i dont :P

i am in so in love...tra la la la la :bounce:
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