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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:13 PM
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Someone please tell me some good news!
:cry:

I have received two pieces of bad news from my family today.

My cousin died last night of a massive coronary. He was almost 50. He was the brother of my cousin who died in 1990 of AIDS. Goddess love my aunt, she is a strong woman. She is also very heartbroken.

We also found out today that my uncle has the early stages of lung cancer. He is in his late 60s but has been a heavy smoker since is early teens.

Make it stop.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:18 PM
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1. Oh, dear, sweet KW!
:hug: Am so sorry! :hug:


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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:23 PM
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4. This really sucks!
I am sorry, right now there is no way I can spin this optimistically!

:cry:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:20 PM
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2. I'm so sorry ..
:hug: My heart goes out to your aunt, and to you my friend.


aA
kesha
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:23 PM
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5. Thank you!
:hug:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:21 PM
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3. I'm sorry, KW.
Seems that the piling on is in your corner, for the worse.

If I could make it stop, I would.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:23 PM
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6. I know you would!
:hug:
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:24 PM
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7. Oh KW
:hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:24 PM
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8. ...
:hug:
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:39 PM
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9. damn
just, damn. :hug: :hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:40 PM
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10. ...
:hug:

And because I have guests coming in from out of town, I will not be able to go to Milwaukee for the funeral.

:cry:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:42 PM
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11. Damn, that's hard to take.
Sorry about that, KitchenWitch. Wish I could change it.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:46 PM
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14. My aunt is such a strong woman
I did not think she needed her strength tested any more.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:50 PM
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17. I hear you. I hate that saying "God doesn't give us more than we can handle."
It's nice, but it sure doesn't help when you get hit with multiple tragedies. Especially around this time of year.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:51 PM
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18. Count me as another who hates that saying.
:grr:

fuck that! Sometimes life just sucks.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:04 PM
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19. Yeah, and I like to tell god to take a flying fuck when things like that happen.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:12 PM
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20. *snicker*
Oh, I totally get you!

:hi:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:33 PM
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21. We'll be handcuffed to eachother in hell.
:applause:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:33 PM
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22. Right on!
:yourock:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:36 PM
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24. So have a nice Christmas celebrating the son of god's birthday.
:toast:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:50 PM
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28. LOL!
:toast:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:59 PM
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30. Do you feel that black spot forming on your soul?
That's a mortal sin, happily joining all those original sins you had before you were even born. Forget about the venial sins. I have no idea what they consist of, but you have them...sinner.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 09:02 PM
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31. Catholic much?
I have old Catholic residue myself.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 09:08 PM
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34. 8 years of black hearted nuns.
Guilt is my personae.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:09 PM
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35. I feel ya, sister!
:hug:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:15 PM
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39. Hey, at least I perfected it.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:44 PM
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12. My mom is completely healed :)
she is doing good.


Me - I am so ready for the holidays to be over.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:45 PM
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13. That is good news!
:woohoo:
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Az Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:46 PM
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15. The good news is that the pain does stop
And you get to keep the good memories.

Go tell the people you care about how much you love them. It will do you good.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 07:48 PM
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16. Yes, it does stop!
Thanks!
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Neoma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:35 PM
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23. I haven't given up on politics.
:shrug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:42 PM
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26. This is good!
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:41 PM
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25. My deepest sympathies KW.
That's too much tragedy for one person to have to go through. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

:hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:47 PM
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27. Thanks!
This is just so hard!

:hard:
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 08:53 PM
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29. I can't imagine having to deal with all that at once.
Damn.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-24-06 12:04 AM
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45. One just does
I have been hugging the kids a lot since I heard all this news.
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-24-06 12:08 AM
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46. That sounds like the best way.
Cherish what you do have.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 09:03 PM
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32. My dear KitchenWitch.........
How horrifying, sweetie.........

I can hardly imagine what you're going through, right now........

Perhaps this little poem might help......I know it does me......

Life is eternal;

And love is immortal;

And death is only a horizon;

And a horizon is nothing

Save the limit of our sight...



Be well, sweetie.......Remember that you are greatly loved! :loveya: :hug: :loveya:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:21 PM
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42. Thank you
I appreciated the phone call. At this point I did not want to call anyone, but if anyone wanted to call me that is cool.

Reaching out is not my strong point.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 09:06 PM
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33. I got a better job!
Commute will be longer, but I work fewer days a week and the pay's better. :D

I am tremendously sorry about your loss, Kitchie. :hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:10 PM
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36. Congratulations!
:hug:

I know that life here is temporary, but emotionally it is difficult to let go.
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:12 PM
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37. Bad news this time for year is magnified....
Peace, KW... Peace....
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:23 PM
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43. Thanks!
It is, I mean, geez, it really should not be, but most people put so much emphasis on holidays that things like this become huge.

:cry:
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:14 PM
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38. The good news is that you are here.
And many people love you.
:hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:23 PM
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44. Thank you!
I appreciate it more than you know.
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:16 PM
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40. I'm very sorry
I hope things turn out for the best with regards to your uncle.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-23-06 11:20 PM
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41. Me too
It is not likely though, since he "lives off the grid" so to speak.
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