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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:13 PM
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I should NOT have told him this...
it is too much and too soon and sometimes I wonder if its really really from the bottom of my heart absolutely true:


if you only knew how lucky I am to have YOU in my life. I do not talk much about my past...a lot if it is very painful to remember. I had given up on the hope of having a relationship and BOOM you come along.
I have not had feelings like this since I was 16 and we were living in _______. I was very much in love but, Daddy took a job here in __________ and we moved AGAIN. I went to 6 different schools in less than 4 years.
Anyway long story short, I lost at love because we were too young to maintain a relationship with that much distance between us. My parents did not care and were actually glad, they said it was "puppy love"

Smoker, I never got over that guy, til now...

I hope that we will always be good to and good for each other.


hugs,
wh
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:19 PM
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1. Just make sure
You live up to your words. Guys hate it when women change their minds.

Remember this: It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:23 PM
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Sometimes it would be infinitely better not to have loved. In that spirit
Wildhorses, I hope he appreciates you :hug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:24 PM
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4. bless you crim son...especially with what you are going through
right now...

I hope he appreciates me, too...

one more lying fucker in my life and I will pate' the SOB :P
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:23 PM
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3. well, I am loyal...to a fault...
and he started it...he said it first
and he is really good to me...
and he sent a really nice e-mail
and that was my response...


and I think I really mean it but, wtf do I know about LOVE??

that shit has really HURT me in the past...I know that for a fact
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:08 PM
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6. If that's the case...
why do you feel like it's "too much too soon"?

Sounds to me like you are both on the same lovely wavelength!

I know, love is risky, but there is nothing like it when it's good.

I wish you the best, wh. :hug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:15 PM
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8. it is too much too soon cos
I am too scared and
I have had my heart
wrapped up too tight
for such a long time
and too lay it bare
now
RISKY BUSINESS and not the tom cruise kind either :P

thanks speedoo :hug:


how is you CD of love songs?


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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:20 PM
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10. I gotta go back to that thread and make up a playlist.
I'm sure I'll end up including your ideas!!
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 08:06 PM
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24. hey, if you don't mind...
would you send me PM of the songlist you end up?

or is it private for that special someone?
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 08:21 PM
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27. Will do.
Not private at all.

Unfortunately for me, there is no "special someone" :cry:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 08:25 PM
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28. oh, there will be...just like I told billyskank,its all about the
time...the final frontier :P

:hug: you deserve someone really special :hug:
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 08:42 PM
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29. Thanks, sweetie.
YOU'RE special.

But alas, you seem to be taken! ;-) :*
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-09-06 10:39 AM
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35. ahh... that is sweet what you say
:blush:

and yes, I do seem to be taken...but, to think I would ever tell someone that caould take the place in my heart that has been locked away for so long...that is really saying something. I have had 2 marriages and other various long term relationships through out my life but, no one ever came close to the feelings I had for the guy I have been referring. Thing is: how was I to know that he was the love of my life until my life is half over and I realize that no one has taken his place?

:hug:
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:11 PM
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7. The next heartache
Heartaches are hell, but the trip from here to there, I have found, is worth every minute, if done with love. Enjoy!
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:20 PM
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11. so far, so good...
so very good and OH so much FUN

I forgot what fun it can be :loveya:

and thanks for posting in my thread :hi:

how is yours going?

Have you got the 8,000 yet?
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:30 PM
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13. Fun
That's the best thing in life.

My thread? 15 to go. I must be on a lot of ignore lists.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:42 PM
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16. ignore you? why?
just cos you don't like feet :shrug:
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:51 PM
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22. Why? idunno
I like feet. But my new attraction is tramp stamps.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 08:04 PM
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23. oh yeah? since when?
oh wait a minute... c ya over there in the question thread :P
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 08:11 PM
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25. Well, you are on my list
I'll never forget you, Martha. I will always love the time we spent together. Hmmm. Together. Lets break that word down, shall we?

To get her.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 08:17 PM
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26. its all about the chase...
right :eyes:


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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:38 PM
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14. guys hate it when girls change their minds?!?!?
as opposed to

girls love it when men change theirs :wtf:


:eyes:
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:43 PM
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17. My experience
Men take a woman just like she is and never want them to change.

Women take a man and think... "well I can make him better"

To us it seems women change their minds. It seems. What do I know? I never have figured out too many women. After all, there's too many women and too little time.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:46 PM
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19. oh lord...I learned that shit a LONG time ago...
guys go through changes, too.

and I could get oh so dirty with this thread but, I am trying to be good :evilgrin:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:41 PM
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15. you just gave me the best laugh of the night...with this:
Guys hate it when women change their minds. :rofl:


that sentence is a thread all by itself...
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:46 PM
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20. Yeah, it'd be a hoot
Once upon a time I was gonna post: "Why do women paint their nails?"
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:50 PM
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21. cos she was too lazy to go get a pediicure...and its in the middle
of nowhere and the budget is running funny this last quarter of the year, too many birthdays and not enough paychecksthat kinda thing ya know what I mean :shrug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:19 PM
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2. and now I can't believe I just posted this on the fricking web
:blush: while I can still edit I should SOOO fucking delete this...blame it on the shiraz :yoiks:
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:02 PM
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5. Hey now
If he doesn't appreciate you expressing how you feel about him then he's not worth your time.

Good shiraz? :hug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:18 PM
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9. thanks and yeah he liked it...
he is the least game playing man I have met...

I mean

he says what he means
and I really think he means it
when he says it


and...meh, a very fresh shiraz 2005 austrailian... :toast:
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:22 PM
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12. And I don't?
:cry:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:43 PM
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18. oh sweetie....sure you do...
you do doncha? :hug: :*
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Road Scholar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 09:28 PM
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30. Grasshopper, there are some things for which you do not owe
an explanation.You are entitled to as many as you like. :toast:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-09-06 10:34 AM
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33. an thank you honorable sahib...your words are like jewels..
I will cherish them and wear them next to my heart :toast:
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 10:40 PM
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31. Never regret expressing love.
You get what you put out. If you are expressing love, love will return to you. Sometimes it wears a disguise, though..and it is up to you to remember that.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-09-06 10:33 AM
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32. this one is dsiguised as a budweiser drinking, cigarette
smoker who is one inch shorter than me... :beer:

I would not have picked him out in a line up :P


btw: if they say in their profile that they are trying to quit smoking, you need to read that as "smokes like a freight train" :smoke:
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-09-06 10:59 AM
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-09-06 11:26 AM
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38. sheesh, I dunno...and welcome to the Lounge
:hi: come late, stay early and post often :toast:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-09-06 10:37 AM
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34. There's nothing bad about this WH
Was he OK w/ it? If he had a reaction to it you weren't expecting, just give him some time to assimilate it. :hug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-09-06 10:43 AM
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36. thank you for your kind words supernova. and YES he was
Edited on Mon Oct-09-06 10:43 AM by wildhorses
okay with it...He did not go into specifics but, he said that he got my e-mail and that he loves me. I think it kinda shocked him that I finally revealed to him how DEEP my feelings are for him cos I have been playing it cool...you know like yeah , i love you baby...but only when he says it first...and any talk of marriage has been pretty much...uh,...avoided on my part. you know, like, I casually change the subject...
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