My beloved sweetie and I are no more (for now)

[HEyHEY]

We are taking a break because she has some serious personal issues and they are preventing her from giving herself to me the way she'd like to. And she's feels guilty because she knows how much I've given myself to her... she spent the last couple of weeks being unable to function, and was crying all the time.
So, Monday when I talked to her on the phone I knew something was wrong and it was serious. So, I jumped on a plane the next day and we talked about it. She has some things she needs to heal from and I wish I could help her with it, but I can't. Plus, she needs to overcome this stuff on her own as it will make her stronger and able to deal with it all much better.
In the meantime our classification is "More than friends" but not "Boyfriend/girlfriend." We've decided on no-sex, but when we do see each other cuddling is okay.
Thank god she's in town tomorrow night for 10-days. It will make this transition much easier if we can casually hang out, instead of just parting ways and not seeing each other until Christmas, when we will re-evaluate the situation.

I've told her I'll wait as long as it takes for her to feel better and able to commit. If it's not to be, we'll both know at some point.
That's all.

[YellowRubberDuckie]

1. It'll get better.

:hug: Good luck to her and you.

[idgiehkt]

2. I am so sorry.

:hug:

pm me if you want/need to.

[NC_Nurse]

3. That's hard.

But worth it, either way. Hugs to you. :hug:

[philosophie_en_rose]

4. You're a good friend.

:thumbsup:

[graywarrior]

5. HeyHey, you are such a great dude.

I hope things work out for the best. And hey, HeyHey, we love you here!

[Sugar Smack]

6. You have to know, that tore my fucking heart out.

I hope fervently that you can be at peace with your decisions.

[HEyHEY]

7. I'm trying - first step is to eat, seeing as how I haven't

Since Monday. But now that things are actually decided upon I've got my appetite back. We love each other and this will come around, when it's over... we'll be all the better for it.

[Sugar Smack]

8. Start little. Crackers and broth, like a sick person.

When I feel like my heart's been smashed, I do small, quiet things for myself like that. It's best. Please take care. :hug:

[Phillycat]

9. Try Slimfast and Ensure

Kept me alive through a breakup when i couldn't eat solid foods. Best to you. :hug:

[HEyHEY]

11. Thanks

Seem to be able to eat now though... which is too bad.. I was almost under this month's target..damn!

[bridgit]

10. .

time to say goodbye till then?

[hunter]

12. They are always beloved.

:hug:

[ScreamingMeemie]

13. HEyHEY...

There is nothing I can say to ease the hurt or explain the unexplainable. She's lucky to have your support. I have gained even more admiration for you tonight. I'm thinking of you,

Laura