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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 04:06 AM
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Remember my psycho ex-girlfriend?
The one I mentioned, who called the cops on me after lying her ass off to them, and had been married to a guy who torched their apartment in an insurance scam, and was caught selling prescription narcotics?

She's dead.
Facing jail time, she took every pill she had in the house, killing herself.

You know what?
I don't feel sorry for her one bit.
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 04:08 AM
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1. Psycho or not
I feel sorry for her family.
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 04:28 AM
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2. Her family disowned her.
It was they who apologized to me for what she tried to do to me.
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 05:31 AM
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3. Well I am sorry about the whole situation
For you having to deal with it.
And for her being so crazy and unhappy that she took her own life.

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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 05:56 AM
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4. cold
the woman was obviously mentally unbalanced
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 07:17 AM
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5. Healthy people don't take their own life
I know she did some bad stuff to you, but I'm always sad when I hear someone has killed themselves, because I believe most could have been helped with either therapy or a psychiatrist. Very sad all around.
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 08:03 AM
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6. I feel very sorry for her.
Whatever scams she allegedly pulled don't eradicate her worth as a human being. And, when everyone you know withdraws from your life (justified or not), it's doubly hard to recover from any illness.

I didn't know her, and you portray her as very exasperating. But I'm sorry that she felt so hopeless that she took her own life.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 08:08 AM
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7. ......
:hug:


life lessons are not easy...
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Cathyclysmic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 08:29 AM
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8. With compassion like that,
I'd be surprised if you ever make it within 50 feet of another woman again. Or any other life form.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 09:10 AM
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9. My, my, how things have changed in Loungeworld.
Glad to see I won't have to contribute to this thread. The Lounge Lizards with hearts and minds have done it for me.
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CBGLuthier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 09:15 AM
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10. I feel very sorry for her
for having dated you. Have to wonder how much your coldness contributed to her problems.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 10:38 AM
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CBGLuthier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 11:03 AM
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17. been there, done that
Still don't dance on people's graves.

Did you expect a wave of support for your callousness?
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 11:20 AM
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18. No.
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 09:21 AM
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11. I feel sorry for you.
The ability to feel compassion and forgiveness is one of the greatest joys of being alive.
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asthmaticeog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 09:54 AM
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12. Wow. Um, just wow.
Gravedancing on an obviously deeply disturbed person. I'm honestly sorry about the shit that happened to you, it shouldn't happen to anyone, but yikes, man.
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zonkers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 10:21 AM
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13. Drugs. An Insurance scam. A torched apts. Jail time. Suicide. Jeez.
You don't think this affects you but it does. Hang in there, tough guy.
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Tyler Durden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 10:27 AM
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14. You can't be condemned for that feeling...
I frequently comment that my bitch-goddess ex is so inconsiderate that she doesn't have the common decency to drive head on into a speeding gasoline hauler, and be consumed in the ensuing confligration to spare us all a funeral.

This kind of anger is very common when dealing with psychotic ex's. No one can blame you for it. I certainly don't. I do not actively wish harm on my ex; I'm sure you didn't either.
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 10:42 AM
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16. an entirely sad situation all round.
I feel badly for her, her family and for you too. this has affected you in ways you may not know now or ever. It has shaped your life in ways you may not recognize. I hope that some day you will grieve without anger and have peace everlasting.

It's always , always sad when one takes their own life. She was not healthy, mental illness is an ILLNESS.

my condolences to all involved.


aA
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-13-06 11:38 AM
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19. Locking.
A sad situation; nobody needs a flamewar here.

Call Me Wesley
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