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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:54 PM
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Can I get a hug?
My 81 year old father ended up in emergency (he had insomnia last night and went downstairs to watch tv; he must have tripped, as he woke up a couple of hours later on the floor) Blood everywhere - on the walls, and the carpet; he had a large gash on his head (now a huge goose egg) and most likely felt it, then, disoriented, held onto the walls for support.

The verdict? 3 cracked ribs, and some slight bruising on the brain. The neurosurgeon thought that the bruising isn't that much of a concern, and he would recuperate better at home. He does have to be monitored by his doctor for the next week or so.

We have a tense relationship at best, but I certainly don't want to see anyone in pain or suffering.

I also had to say goodbye to an amazing mentor and friend...she is moving out of province, and as she is in her 70's...though so full of life, love and energy...I may never see her again. She has been such a blessing, and an inspiration. It's hard to let go. :cry:

I'm glad this day is almost over. :-(
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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:55 PM
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1. Awww....
Here's one :hug: I'm sorry about all that.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:59 PM
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7. Thanks, sweetie
:hug:
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mad-mommy Donating Member (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:57 PM
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2. yes, a great big hug like my son just gave me n/t
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:59 PM
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8. Thanks, mom
;-) :hug:
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:57 PM
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3. hmmm I would, but I might get the poision ivy that lelapin just gave you
oh, what the heck... :hug:
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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:58 PM
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6. Oops...
:blush:
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:59 PM
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10. Well, it is sure to be a memorable one
:) :hi:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:01 AM
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11. Thanks, qnr
:hug:



<scratch, scratch> :spank:
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IChing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:58 PM
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4. yes, sounds like a long day
:hug: :pals:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:01 AM
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12. Many thanks
for the many hugs, IChing :hug:
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:58 PM
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5. well wishes
for your Dad, may he recover quickly.

And some :hug: :hug: and good thoughts for you too. Take care!
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:02 AM
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14. Thank you
so very much, buddhamama.

Your hugs are helping. :hug:
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-20-06 11:59 PM
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9. Hope your father feels better soon...
and I'm sorry you and your friend must part...hopefully, circumstances might bring you together sometime in the future again. :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:03 AM
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17. I hope so, too
she's had such a profound influence on me. A truly amazing lady. Thanks, KC2. :hug:
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:02 AM
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13. Yes


And I'm sure your father's recuperation will be swift...you please make sure to take good care of yourself, too, okay?

Hopefully you can somehow retain contact with your friend...but, if not, she'll always be there in a sense that geographical distance can never diminish.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:09 AM
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20. What a wonderful hug, Gumpers
:hug:

Thank you. It must be all the meditating I've been doing - with all the chaos of today, I'm still quite centred. Feeling down and exhausted, but centred.

My friend and I will definitely keep in touch - she radiates so much joy and love, it's something I will miss - her presence...she's like the grandmother I never had as a child.
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:34 AM
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34. Hold to the center and,
if not always immediately apparent, everything will be okay (or better).

You're lucky to have ever known such a person as your friend -- and so is she lucky to have known you. :-)
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:45 AM
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37. Absolutely
I'm surprised I'm holding my own...meditation is quite the discipline, but it's definitely having the desired effects.

I am the honoured one - I can only hope I'm half the woman that she is. I also hope that I'm as fun, loving, wise and curious at her age. She is one of, if not the most, enlightened person I've ever met. :)
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:41 AM
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71. Let's hear it for great role models
I have a feeling that, at her age and earlier, you're going to bring the same kind of joy and positivity into the lives of many. I'd say that she will be proud, but I know she already must be. :D

I'm glad to hear that meditation is helping in such concrete ways, too!
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:49 AM
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73. I'm sorry
wasn't there a Queen round here somewhere... :shrug:



:P

Well thank you my good man, though I guess you'll have to prove that last part... ;-)

I also hope you're right! :7
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:13 AM
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79. Your GOOD man?
Oh, I don't know about good, baby. :evilgrin:



Did I say 'baby'? I meant Queen, of course. :scared:



There: Queen u4ic. That better? :D

And long may she rule!
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 09:27 PM
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112. Well, I'm hoping GREAT
but if wishes were horses...



You forgot the 'bowing down' smiley.
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 08:33 AM
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126. I'll be great
Edited on Wed Aug-23-06 08:46 AM by ForrestGump
for you. :D

Behind every great man is a great woman, as they say, but it does make me a little nervous when you get behind me like that... :scared:






And, yes, I was indeed remiss:


















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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 02:43 PM
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136. But my sweet
it is only for an impromptu goose, or a kiss on the back of the neck when the mood takes me... O8)





I appreciate a man who can correct his mistakes.

Ah. Now all is well with the world. :D
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 06:31 PM
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153. Oh...okay, then
Goose...gander...whatever farmyard animal you want to simulate, I guess, is okay with me. :loveya:

And I've always had a thing for the Canada goose, you know...





Oh. Almost forgot:



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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:02 AM
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15. damn, I see so much of that in the ER...elderly people falling
Edited on Mon Aug-21-06 12:03 AM by wildhorses
sorry it happened to your Dad. :hug: And good byes are always hard. :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:11 AM
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22. Thank you, wildhorses
It's odd, because he's not fragile at all. Well, not by most 81 year old standards, anyway...he still has his own house, a big garden...though it's obvious age is catching up to him.

This goodbye is particularly tough... :cry: :hug:
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:03 AM
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16. Oh, sweetie...
I'm so sorry. It'll get better, it really will. And in the meantime, all the positive energy and good vibes and love that I have is yours.

:hug:

:loveya:

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:11 AM
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23. Thank you so much, rrr
You're such a doll. :hug: :loveya:
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:05 AM
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18. Aww....
:hug: (And I've already virtually gotten lelapin's posion ivy enough, so I don't care :P). :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:13 AM
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24. How can I resist
your hugs, Zombie? (despite your affliction) :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:08 AM
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19. My dear u4ic!
Oh sweetie......what an awful day.......for you, and your dad.........

I hope he will soon heal from his injuries!

And I hope that you and your mentor will find a way to stay in touch.....

Perhaps it isn't letting go......but changing the nature of your relationship?

:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:16 AM
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26. Peggy,
thank you so much, sweetie. Your kind words mean so much to me.

You are absolutely right...it is just changing, not necessarily letting go. :hug:


:loveya:
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:09 AM
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21. You betcha, sweetie.
:hug:

My wife and I will pray for your dad. I don't like for anyone to suffer either. Hope he recovers soon.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:17 AM
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27. Thank you so much, Aristus
:hug:

I don't usually post too many personal goings on in my life, but the support has been amazing. Thank you for being a part of it. :loveya:
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:15 AM
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25. Of course
Have several.

:pals: :hug: :pals:

I'm sorry you are having such a bad day. Here's a big hug for you.

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:18 AM
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28. I LOVE that last smilie!
:rofl:

Nicole, thanks for making me laugh. :hug: And for all the hugs. :loveya:
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Dangerously Amused Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:21 AM
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29. Aw baby girl, all my love and hugs to you tonight.








It's so scary when they get older.


Is your friend moving far away? Does she have email?


I just did a short meditation for you, your Dad and your friend. I'll do some more a bit later.



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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:23 AM
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31. You're wonderful, D_A
:hug: :loveya:

Thank you so very much.

Yes, my friend has email; I have her new addy and phone number. I've gotten used to goodbyes over my life; but this one is very, very hard. :-(
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Dangerously Amused Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:36 AM
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35. You are so very welcome.




I'm really happy to hear she has email, hopefully that will help to ease the transition. Make it seem less like "goodbye" and more like "goodbye for now."



More hugs. Just 'cuz you're my girl.






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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:47 AM
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39. You're...
GRRRRRRRRRREAT!




:hug: :loveya: :hug:
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:21 AM
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30. Of course.
:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:24 AM
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32. Thanks, Starbucks Anarchist
:hug:

How's your new life? :hi:
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:25 AM
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33. Doing good.
Moving to NYC this Friday. :D
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:48 AM
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40. This Friday?
Ah, my mistake; I thought you were already there.

I hope you have a 'smooth move'. Best of luck with it. :pals:
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:42 AM
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36. My mom had a scary health episode a couple of weeks ago...
she's fine now and it sounds like your dad will be fine soon as well. And I hope you'll find that your mentor is still someone you can count on.

Some hugs to help you... :hug: :hug:

And some prayers as well.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:53 AM
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41. Thanks so much, speedoo
Those hugs and prayers are so very appreciated... :hug:

I'm glad to hear you're mum's doing well. I think the main thing is to let him have his independence as much as possible. You know those older folk...lived through the Depression and mile high snowdrifts...cracked ribs be damned! ;-)

:loveya:
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:46 AM
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38. Do you have any friends or family nearby?
?
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:55 AM
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43. Yes
My two sisters and I, along with my father, are in the same city. In the same area of the city, as well.

He has plenty of help if he needs it.

I also have some great friends nearby. :hi:
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:03 AM
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45. I'm glad.
:)

u4ic

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:39 AM
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46. Thank you for caring
:hug:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 12:54 AM
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42. u4ic!
my dear friend. I'm SO sorry to hear about your father's accident. My dad is the same age and did the same darned thing a few years ago. I hope your Dad recovers as well as mine did. I will keep him in my thoughts and will send good vibes and best wishes his way for sure.
And for you my friend, many hugs and a shoulder. It must be very difficult to have someone move so far away, someone who has meant so much to you. You might see her again, who knows? You know she will always be with you in spirit and in the knowledge and love she imparted on you. This day may be over but a new one has begun for you, hopefully a better day. A day full of promise and good fortune. You will remain in my heart and thoughts. You have been such a good friend to me, and I want you to know that I hope to be there for you, when you need me too.

:hug: :loveya: :hug:

aA
kesha.

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:01 AM
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44. Ah, the lovely
auntieA makes an appearance! :hug: :hug: :hug:

Thank you, hunny bunny. You're a wonderful friend for me, too. I did go to Harvey's today for comfort. ;-) (well, also being exhausted, I didn't feel like making supper)

Yes, she will always be with me in spirit. The past few years have been very tough for me, and she has been so supportive and understanding...and given so much unconditional love...(I mentioned above like the grandmother I never had). I feel like I still have so much to learn from her. I think people come into our lives for a reason...and I have learned some things from her that perhaps I wouldn't have from anyone else.

Much more than just a friend, a spiritual mentor. :hug:

:loveya:
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:53 AM
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47. you know it
:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:59 AM
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50. enigmatic!!
How are you, m'friend?? I'm so glad when I run into you here! Thanks for the hug. :hug:

He got taken to Grey Nuns, and treated promptly. He's actually closer to the University hospital, but good grief, I'd hate to have seen the wait there! (mind you, staggering and bleeding and elderly, you'd hope would move up the queue...)
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:07 AM
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55. Oh boy
I've only dealt w/ Royal Alex since I've been here so I guess I've been lucky; I'll be sending all the good vibes I can to both of you! :)
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:14 AM
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57. Thank you,
you are truly a wonderful man. I appreciate your support so much.

I only dealt with the Royal Alec once; that was enough (emergency, I should clarify; outpatient was fine). I hope your experiences have been better.

I feel like I need a virtual drink...so...whaddaya got? ;)
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:53 AM
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48. aw. c'mere.
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's fall. I will pray that he has a speedy recovery.

Losing your friend's nearness is never easy. Sometimes, when a friend moves, we make an even truer effort to stay in touch and share with one another. Its not as easy, but I hope you won't lose touch with one another. Your friend sounds very special.

here's a great big hug for you to heal your heavy heart-
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:01 AM
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51. Awww, lavenderdiva
You're so kind...thank you, sweetheart. :hug:

I don't run into you that much anymore, I hope you're doing well. :loveya:
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:13 AM
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56. I know, I haven't seen you either-
I've missed you! I'm hanging in there- thanks for those hearts! :hug:

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:17 AM
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58. I need to get back into our group again
Hope to see you there!

and just for you... :loveya: :loveya:
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:55 AM
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49. Sorry...:(
Hope things get better... :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:02 AM
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52. Thank you kindly, petersond
Your hugs are much appreciated... :hug:
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:06 AM
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53. My thoughts, prayers, best wishes and hugs
:hug:

You've obviously going through a tough time. May tomorrow be a better day :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:19 AM
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59. Thank you, socialdemocrat
Your hugs and kind wishes, and everyones, have made me feel so much better. I did come with a heavy heart, it is lightened so much by the wonderful support here, like yours, in the Lounge.

:hug: :loveya:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:07 AM
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54. Awww...
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:21 AM
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60. Awww...
Thank you haruka! :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

(one day we'll have a virtual swordfight...I learned it in my BFA. I'm partial to sabre) :hi:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:22 AM
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61. I was a varsity sabre fencer in HS.
Was it a BFA in acting?
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:34 AM
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62. w00t!
I would love to learn fencing.

Yes, the BFA was in acting (I left after the 3rd year).
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:42 AM
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64. I started a BFA in scenic design but I left after the 1st year.
I was getting really stressed out and I realized I liked stage management better. Next show gets me my Equity Card (which I really should have already though)! W00t!
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:55 AM
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65. double w00t!!!
:bounce: :toast: :bounce: Way to go!!
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:41 AM
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63. Hey, sweetie
Hope your dad gets better, and I'm sorry that your friend is moving away. :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 02:56 AM
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66. Hi SeattleGirl!
Thank you for all your kind wishes. You are one of the truly beautiful souls here. :hug: :loveya:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:08 AM
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67. I have unlimited hugs for you, my friend
:hug:

:loveya:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:12 AM
Response to Reply #67
68. Thank you
my dear, sweet billy! :hug: :loveya:

The Lounge support has been overwhelming, and am very grateful for such wonderful friends! :loveya:
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Random_Australian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:28 AM
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69. Here, have mine:
:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:
                                                   :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya:
                               :loveya: :pals: :pals: :pals: :pals: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :pals: :pals: :pals: :pals: :loveya:
           :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :pals: :pals: :pals: :hug: :hug: :hug:YOU ARE HERE :hug: :hug: :hug: :pals: :pals: :pals: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya:
                              :loveya: :pals: :pals: :pals: :pals: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :pals: :pals: :pals: :pals: :loveya:
                                                   :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya:
:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:32 AM
Response to Reply #69
70. They say you Aussies love to party
I'd say you also love to hug, too!

Thank you, m'friend! Thank you for all those wonderful hugs!

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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:47 AM
Response to Reply #69
72. Hey, you
Keep your hands offa my fiance. :grr:






At least, she was my fiance...I'd better check that other thread when I wake up, to see if she still is. :D





DISCLAIMER: dude, I have a rich fantasy life...



...hug away!



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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:49 AM
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74. Sorry sweetie
:hug:
I Hope tomorrow is a better day !
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:50 AM
Response to Reply #74
75. Thanks, GoPsUx
You're a great friend. :hug:

Whaddaya doing up? Insomnia?
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:53 AM
Response to Reply #75
76. Yeah I was gonna get up in an hour anyways .
I think you are a great friend also.
And you will always have one here in me.
When are you going to sleep you must be getting tired?
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 03:58 AM
Response to Reply #76
77. Geez, mom!!
:eyes:

Very soon. I'm pooped.

Just wondering if my little Gumpy has decided to rescue me from the snakes. Snakes off a damn plane...
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:04 AM
Response to Reply #77
78. I am a nag ain't I
Just wanna make sure u4ic takes care of her self like a good mot_ wait scratch that... friend :)
You probably are having a hard time turning your mind off anyways.
Here is another one :hug: and a :loveya:

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 09:28 PM
Response to Reply #78
113. You're right
on both counts - plus I was having some much needed fun...

:hug:
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:19 AM
Response to Reply #77
80. Of course I'm here to rescue you from snakes, my darling
Hey, GoPsUx....go away.


See, sugarlumps? :D







Really, Mr sUx...I am sorry to be so curt, and you know I didn't mean it, but -- you know -- the chicks dig it when you flex the old testosterone a little bit...you know what I mean, amigo...
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:28 AM
Response to Reply #80
81. But i am a cute snake
And even cuter ON A MUTHA FUCHENPLANE!!
:)
I just wanna bite u4ic is that so wrong?
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:31 AM
Response to Reply #81
82. Well, that IS true
An acute snake, as oposed to an obtuse one.

And, no, I certainly can't fault your motives... :-)
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 09:30 PM
Response to Reply #80
114. A simple "go away" isn't enough
I like my "testosteronees" to get down and dirty for me... :*
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 10:33 PM
Response to Reply #114
115. you heard the lady Forrest ..I challenge you to a duel!!
But just don't hit me hard..or in the face..Can we do rock ,scissors ,paper??
Shit!! It sucks to be a liberal sometimes!!
:rofl:
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 08:45 AM
Response to Reply #115
130. Sorry -- I can't hear you. What was that?


Let's hear it for the sucker punch!










Nothing personal, dude. Same old story. Boy meets girl. Other boy meets girl. Girl tells first boy to beat the everloving sh** out of second boy to prove his love.

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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 09:15 AM
Response to Reply #130
131. Damn Why ya gotta cheat
guess it wasnt meant to be u4ic :(
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 09:24 AM
Response to Reply #131
132. Because all's fair in love and
...well...you know..they say love hurts. Or, to elaborate, love can give you multiple contusions, a concussion, and broken bones (at minimum).

Sorry about the chair. Now that I've come down, I admit that was a little excessive.







Okay. Now. If I'm right, and I am afraid that I very well may be, she'll be running along any minute now to console you and tend to your wounds while scolding me for being a vicious brute...either that or she's going to pick up this chair and wallop you some more while you're still down. It's a tough call... :D
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 12:00 PM
Response to Reply #132
133. So if i play the sympathy card
Oh Ok i gotcha.
:)
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 06:46 PM
Original message
The only trouble with those sympathy cards is that you've got to
know when to hold them, know when to fold them...know when to walk away, and know when to run...
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:33 PM
Response to Reply #132
147. Boys! BOYS!
Just HOLD IT RIGHT THERE!!!
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 06:46 PM
Response to Reply #147
156. I'm holding it
Right there or, really, anywhere you want....
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 07:56 PM
Response to Reply #156
162. I've got
a few places in mind... :evilgrin:

The view sure is wonderful today... :loveya:
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 08:01 PM
Response to Reply #162
163. It's a good day. In fact, I'm
feeling euphoric....

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:40 PM
Response to Reply #132
148. ...because I couldn't...
Ok. Bathroom break is now over.


You may resume... :popcorn:
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:49 PM
Response to Reply #148
150. I am on the ground badly beaten by a chair wait whats this
(Gopsux grabs a pile of dirt Slings it Towards ForrestGumps eyes)
Keeeeeeeeyah A right Capt.Kirkesq Karate Chop to ForrestGump's Shoulders. And A Kick to the groin.
You'll never have any kids..
Gopsux turns Towards u4ic .Hey honey Bam!! another chair to the back of the head!!
curse you Forrest!!
We trade blows until we both drop to the ground Exhausted.Peering up out of our sweat and blood soaked Brows we see u4ic leave with Johnny Depp!!
Damn man ..Wanna get a beer?
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 06:53 PM
Response to Reply #150
158. A beer? But I don't drink.
On second thought...I think I'll start.




Women. :eyes:

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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 06:51 PM
Response to Reply #148
157. Thank you, my lady
We who are about to get the hell kicked out of us salute you!

Hail!








Tell me, GoPsUx....do you ever watch those gladiator movies?


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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 08:38 AM
Response to Reply #114
129. Well, I'm already fairly
dirty, so let's see if I can get down...

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:03 PM
Response to Reply #129
141. Any way I can help...
Edited on Wed Aug-23-06 03:03 PM by u4ic
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 06:44 PM
Response to Reply #141
154. How did you get video of me dancing the other night?
Oh, baby. :*

They don't make dances like that any more. Now I'm going to have to watch Saturday Night Fever again.

I shall treasure this and learn. Though I am a tad worried about odd feelings I began to develop after watching the dude's bottom undulate about the screen for a few minutes -- any chance you might don the leisure suit and big medallion tonight? :o

I'm staying alive because you're more than a woman to me...and I know how deep is your love. And, no, I'm not jive talking...
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #154
159. Well, dumpling
such is the telepathic response between us - I had those very same amatory feelings from the chap's bottom, too...

Anything for you...I'm in Funkytown right now, at the YMCA - let me Hustle back to my Brick House and I'll follow Doctor's Orders... :*
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 08:11 PM
Response to Reply #159
164. I'm in the navy,
but I'll change back into the denim, if you prefer...




Or maybe we'll just go with flesh-tone....
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 05:40 AM
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83. You can have two...
:hug: :hug:

I'm so sorry u4ic. :(
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:16 PM
Response to Reply #83
95. Thanks, MrsG!
I'm sure this is a subject that hits home with you, too. :hug: :loveya:

How is your dad doing?
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 05:50 AM
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84. HUGS.
Ouchie.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:17 PM
Response to Reply #84
96. Thanks so much, BlueIris
:hug:

You need a few yourself: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 06:00 AM
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85. Lots and lots of hugs to you, my dear friend. It's tough to have...
to be dealing with both of these things at the same time; you're being stressed both physically and emotionally.

I will send you as much positive energy as I can, u4ic. Please do whatever you have to do to take care of yourself.

:hug: :hug: :hug:
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 08:53 AM
Response to Reply #85
86. Kick.
:kick:

:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:18 PM
Response to Reply #85
98. Dream,
I wish everyone had a friend as wonderful as you.

Thank you so much for the energy and the hugs. Being here, amongst friends, has really helped me relax, and cheer me up. :hug:

:loveya: :loveya: :loveya:
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 08:55 AM
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87. Of course
:hug:

How is he today?
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:26 PM
Response to Reply #87
99. Thank you, miss_american_pie
:hug:

He's in a lot of pain, but sleeping and eating well. Healing will take a lot longer given his age, but those last two signs are positive. :hi:
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 08:57 AM
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88. Oh, u4ic! Here's a big hug:
:hug: :grouphug: I hope your dad's OK and that you can get some rest now. I'm sorry your mentor's moving---that's gotta be crappy. :( :pals: I hope you feel better soon.

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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:27 PM
Response to Reply #88
100. Thank you, NWC
Those hugs are much needed, and much appreciated! :hug: :loveya:
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SKKY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 09:46 AM
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89. Hope everything works out for you sunshine...
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:27 PM
Response to Reply #89
101. Thanks, hon
:hug:
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Sugar Smack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 10:46 AM
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90. Yes.
:hug: :hug: :hug: :pals: Mon petit chou, I am so sorry. Please let us know how you're doing.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:32 PM
Response to Reply #90
103. Merci beaucoup, mon cher
:hug: :loveya:

I am feeling better today, thanks, hon. I came here last night feeling stressed as anything, and left feeling so much better. I got the support and the laughs that I really needed. The Lounge Lizards are just amazing, aren't they? :-)
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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 11:43 AM
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91. I am so sorry about your dad
my daddy passed away a couple of years ago at 95 .We finally had to put him in a nursing home because of his falling so much

I will never forget the time I knocked on his door and could hear him weakly calling for "help" he had fallen , and the door was locked. I do not know to this day how long he had laid there on the floor

all I can say is , cherish every moment you have with him
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:47 PM
Response to Reply #91
105. I'm sorry, Jitterbug
how heartwrenching to hear about your father... :cry:

He is falling more and more these days...only a couple of months ago, he had a nasty one. My sister was with him at the time, luckily.

Sage advice. :hug:
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 01:49 PM
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92. Oh, u4ic
My new friend. I hope you are feeling a little better today. Here's a hug :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:47 PM
Response to Reply #92
106. Thank you, dancingAlone
Your friendship is very valued. :hug: :loveya:
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 10:43 PM
Response to Reply #106
116. As is yours
You feeling any better tonight? I hope so.

A couple of extra hugs can't hurt. :hug: :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 10:54 PM
Response to Reply #116
118. Thanks, hon
yes I am. Things are settling down now, we know what we're dealing with and he's being very cooperative.

You give amazing hugs. Thanks. :hug:

How are you?
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:07 PM
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93. You need lots of hugs!
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:51 PM
Response to Reply #93
107. Thank you very much, Joani
I can feel the lurv! :hug: :loveya:

So what plans do you have for Thursday? :hi:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 07:22 AM
Response to Reply #107
125. Have another HUG!


I've decided this Thursday is the perfect date to trade-in my pickup truck on a slightly used P T Cruiser.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 02:39 PM
Response to Reply #125
135. Thanks, sweetie
:hug: :loveya:

Woo Hoo!! That's a great start to your birthday!! :bounce: :toast: :bounce:

(I hope the saleperson is very co-operative and helpful on your special day)
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:12 PM
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94. Of course.
:hug:

I hope you stay in touch with your mentor, and I hope your father is okay.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:52 PM
Response to Reply #94
108. Thank you,
dear sweet ThomCat. :hug:
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Rising Phoenix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:18 PM
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97. for you....
:hug:
ask and you shall recieve
hope your dad heal well and peace and long life to your mentor....
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:53 PM
Response to Reply #97
109. Thank you, Mrs Sniffa
Your hugs and kind words are much appreciated. :hug:
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:31 PM
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102. Oh dear
Lots of these: :hug: -- as many as you need :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

So sorry you had to go through such a rough day. Tomorrow will be better! Promise.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:57 PM
Response to Reply #102
110. Thank you
for your bevy of hugs, MorningGlow. :hug:

You did keep your promise! Today is better, though things are still spinning; lots of to and take care of.

Hopefully things will quieten down soon.
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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-22-06 10:45 AM
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124. Glad to hear it!
Hope your days keep getting better and better!
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 02:45 PM
Response to Reply #124
137. .
:hug:
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:33 PM
Response to Original message
104. Oh geez, honey!
Big ones on the way....
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 04:57 PM
Response to Reply #104
111. Thanks, Lara
Those hugs hit the spot. :hug:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 10:45 PM
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117. Yoiks! Of course you can have a hug!
:hug:

Best wishes to your dad and to you and your friend. Sounds like you can all use one.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 11:00 PM
Response to Reply #117
119. Thanks, Dave
Things are a bit better today. Your hugs are very welcomed. :hug:
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 11:32 PM
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120. Oh sweetie!!
:hug: :loveya: :hug: :loveya:

I just now saw this thread...hope all's well with your dad. Hang in there, sister!
:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 11:45 PM
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121. Thank you, Shine
:hug: :loveya:

How are you doing?
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-21-06 11:59 PM
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122. Shitty, right at the moment. I've got the Headache from Hell....
and I'm trying to distract myself from how crappy I feel by posting on DU. I'm waiting for the meds to kick in, but nothing seems to be working....Ugh. This'll pass, but I'm not exactly a Happy Camper right now, truthfully.

Sigh. :hug: Send good thoughts... :loveya: Thanks.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-22-06 12:02 AM
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123. I'm sorry, hon!
:-(

Sending some good energy your way... :grouphug:

My headaches are always helped by my chiropractor.

Maybe hubby could give you a nice neck/shoulder massage? :hi: :loveya:
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AirmensMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 08:35 AM
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127. Oh my, u4ic.
I'm so sorry. You can have as many hugs as it takes. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 02:48 PM
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138. Thank you, AirmensMom
:hug: :hug: :hug: :loveya: :loveya:

My doctor thinks he may have had a slight stroke, and that's why he fell in the first place.

He seems to be doing okay, and against doctors orders, drove to Tim Horton's today for his coffee. I guess he was just getting bored being inside for a few days. He was fairly active before this.
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:12 PM
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142. Tim Hortons?
I'll be down in a sec to buy you both a double-double :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:20 PM
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144. LOL
after this, I might take up drinking coffee...

Luckily, it was only about 10 very short blocks away, though he got reemed out by a few of us...

How are you doing, m'friend? :hug:
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:41 PM
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149. Ready to go to (ugh) work...
Edited on Wed Aug-23-06 03:42 PM by enigmatic
And I'm trying to find my freakin' keys! :rofl:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 10:06 PM
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165. Hope you found them by now!
:rofl:
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Anarcho-Socialist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 08:36 AM
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128. I only just saw this thread. I'm very sorry for what you're going through
:hug: :pals: :* :grouphug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 02:49 PM
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139. You're such a sweetie, A-S
(which are my RL initials, btw!)

:hug: :loveya: :hug:
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 01:07 PM
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134. Have you gotten her contact info?
I hope you can stay in touch.

Here's a hug for you regarding your father.

:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 02:50 PM
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140. Thank you very much, ih8thegop
I do have contact info. It just felt like so much happening at once. :(

:hug:
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:14 PM
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143. sure thing
:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:21 PM
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145. Thanks, Wetzelbill
The hugs are doing wonders... :hug:
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 03:25 PM
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146. yer welcome
I have no words of wisdom right now, just lots of hugs and support. :) :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 04:00 PM
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151. I've already got one
"take every day as it comes".

And I give you a...

(sorry, seen the insecurity thread, and couldn't resist) :hug: I'm burning off stress in an odd way...
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Metta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 04:01 PM
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152. Whew, panic and loss.
Hi, U4ic. Your father seems to be out of the woods barring anything unforseen. For everyone's best interest, he should take the time he needs to recover. As you probably realize, this is an auspicious time to bridge the gap between the two of you. I suspect he'll be receptive to whoever cares for him. :hug: :hug: :hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 07:51 PM
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160. Hi Metta,
Thanks for your words of wisdom. And the hugs. :hug:


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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 06:46 PM
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155. U-bet
Anybody who wishes me happy birthday gets at least a hug in return.
:hug:
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-23-06 07:53 PM
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161. Thank you, trof
Hope you had a great birthday. :hug:
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-26-06 01:16 AM
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166. Any time, my friend!
:hug:I'm sorry you had such a tough day... :hug:
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