Can I get a hug?

[u4ic]

My 81 year old father ended up in emergency (he had insomnia last night and went downstairs to watch tv; he must have tripped, as he woke up a couple of hours later on the floor) Blood everywhere - on the walls, and the carpet; he had a large gash on his head (now a huge goose egg) and most likely felt it, then, disoriented, held onto the walls for support.

The verdict? 3 cracked ribs, and some slight bruising on the brain. The neurosurgeon thought that the bruising isn't that much of a concern, and he would recuperate better at home. He does have to be monitored by his doctor for the next week or so.

We have a tense relationship at best, but I certainly don't want to see anyone in pain or suffering.

I also had to say goodbye to an amazing mentor and friend...she is moving out of province, and as she is in her 70's...though so full of life, love and energy...I may never see her again. She has been such a blessing, and an inspiration. It's hard to let go.

I'm glad this day is almost over.

[LadyoftheRabbits]

1. Awww....

Here's one I'm sorry about all that.

[u4ic]

7. Thanks, sweetie

[mad-mommy]

2. yes, a great big hug like my son just gave me n/t

[u4ic]

8. Thanks, mom

[qnr]

3. hmmm I would, but I might get the poision ivy that lelapin just gave you

oh, what the heck...

[LadyoftheRabbits]

6. Oops...

[qnr]

10. Well, it is sure to be a memorable one

[u4ic]

11. Thanks, qnr

<scratch, scratch>

[IChing]

4. yes, sounds like a long day

[u4ic]

12. Many thanks

for the many hugs, IChing

[buddhamama]

5. well wishes

for your Dad, may he recover quickly.

And some and good thoughts for you too. Take care!

[u4ic]

14. Thank you

so very much, buddhamama.

Your hugs are helping.

[Haole Girl]

9. Hope your father feels better soon...

and I'm sorry you and your friend must part...hopefully, circumstances might bring you together sometime in the future again.

[u4ic]

17. I hope so, too

she's had such a profound influence on me. A truly amazing lady. Thanks, KC2.

[ForrestGump]

13. Yes

And I'm sure your father's recuperation will be swift...you please make sure to take good care of yourself, too, okay?

Hopefully you can somehow retain contact with your friend...but, if not, she'll always be there in a sense that geographical distance can never diminish.

[u4ic]

20. What a wonderful hug, Gumpers

Thank you. It must be all the meditating I've been doing - with all the chaos of today, I'm still quite centred. Feeling down and exhausted, but centred.

My friend and I will definitely keep in touch - she radiates so much joy and love, it's something I will miss - her presence...she's like the grandmother I never had as a child.

[ForrestGump]

34. Hold to the center and,

if not always immediately apparent, everything will be okay (or better).

You're lucky to have ever known such a person as your friend -- and so is she lucky to have known you.

[u4ic]

37. Absolutely

I'm surprised I'm holding my own...meditation is quite the discipline, but it's definitely having the desired effects.

I am the honoured one - I can only hope I'm half the woman that she is. I also hope that I'm as fun, loving, wise and curious at her age. She is one of, if not the most, enlightened person I've ever met.

[ForrestGump]

71. Let's hear it for great role models

I have a feeling that, at her age and earlier, you're going to bring the same kind of joy and positivity into the lives of many. I'd say that she will be proud, but I know she already must be.

I'm glad to hear that meditation is helping in such concrete ways, too!

[u4ic]

73. I'm sorry

wasn't there a Queen round here somewhere...





Well thank you my good man, though I guess you'll have to prove that last part...

I also hope you're right!

[ForrestGump]

79. Your GOOD man?

Oh, I don't know about good, baby.



Did I say 'baby'? I meant Queen, of course.



There: Queen u4ic. That better?

And long may she rule!

[u4ic]

112. Well, I'm hoping GREAT

but if wishes were horses...



You forgot the 'bowing down' smiley.

[ForrestGump]

126. I'll be great

for you.

Behind every great man is a great woman, as they say, but it does make me a little nervous when you get behind me like that...






And, yes, I was indeed remiss:

[u4ic]

136. But my sweet

it is only for an impromptu goose, or a kiss on the back of the neck when the mood takes me...





I appreciate a man who can correct his mistakes.

Ah. Now all is well with the world.

[ForrestGump]

153. Oh...okay, then

Goose...gander...whatever farmyard animal you want to simulate, I guess, is okay with me.

And I've always had a thing for the Canada goose, you know...





Oh. Almost forgot:

[wildhorses]

15. damn, I see so much of that in the ER...elderly people falling

sorry it happened to your Dad. And good byes are always hard.

[u4ic]

22. Thank you, wildhorses

It's odd, because he's not fragile at all. Well, not by most 81 year old standards, anyway...he still has his own house, a big garden...though it's obvious age is catching up to him.

This goodbye is particularly tough...

[reyd reid reed]

16. Oh, sweetie...

I'm so sorry. It'll get better, it really will. And in the meantime, all the positive energy and good vibes and love that I have is yours.

[u4ic]

23. Thank you so much, rrr

You're such a doll.

[ZombieNixon]

18. Aww....

(And I've already virtually gotten lelapin's posion ivy enough, so I don't care ).

[u4ic]

24. How can I resist

your hugs, Zombie? (despite your affliction)

[CaliforniaPeggy]

19. My dear u4ic!

Oh sweetie......what an awful day.......for you, and your dad.........

I hope he will soon heal from his injuries!

And I hope that you and your mentor will find a way to stay in touch.....

Perhaps it isn't letting go......but changing the nature of your relationship?

[u4ic]

26. Peggy,

thank you so much, sweetie. Your kind words mean so much to me.

You are absolutely right...it is just changing, not necessarily letting go.

[Aristus]

21. You betcha, sweetie.

My wife and I will pray for your dad. I don't like for anyone to suffer either. Hope he recovers soon.

[u4ic]

27. Thank you so much, Aristus

I don't usually post too many personal goings on in my life, but the support has been amazing. Thank you for being a part of it.

[Nicole]

25. Of course

Have several.



I'm sorry you are having such a bad day. Here's a big hug for you.

[u4ic]

28. I LOVE that last smilie!

Nicole, thanks for making me laugh. And for all the hugs.

[Dangerously Amused]

29. Aw baby girl, all my love and hugs to you tonight.

It's so scary when they get older.


Is your friend moving far away? Does she have email?


I just did a short meditation for you, your Dad and your friend. I'll do some more a bit later.

[u4ic]

31. You're wonderful, D_A

Thank you so very much.

Yes, my friend has email; I have her new addy and phone number. I've gotten used to goodbyes over my life; but this one is very, very hard.

[Dangerously Amused]

35. You are so very welcome.

I'm really happy to hear she has email, hopefully that will help to ease the transition. Make it seem less like "goodbye" and more like "goodbye for now."



More hugs. Just 'cuz you're my girl.

[u4ic]

39. You're...

GRRRRRRRRRREAT!

[Starbucks Anarchist]

30. Of course.

[u4ic]

32. Thanks, Starbucks Anarchist

How's your new life?

[Starbucks Anarchist]

33. Doing good.

Moving to NYC this Friday.

[u4ic]

40. This Friday?

Ah, my mistake; I thought you were already there.

I hope you have a 'smooth move'. Best of luck with it.

[speedoo]

36. My mom had a scary health episode a couple of weeks ago...

she's fine now and it sounds like your dad will be fine soon as well. And I hope you'll find that your mentor is still someone you can count on.

Some hugs to help you...

And some prayers as well.

[u4ic]

41. Thanks so much, speedoo

Those hugs and prayers are so very appreciated...

I'm glad to hear you're mum's doing well. I think the main thing is to let him have his independence as much as possible. You know those older folk...lived through the Depression and mile high snowdrifts...cracked ribs be damned!

[Floogeldy]

38. Do you have any friends or family nearby?

?

[u4ic]

43. Yes

My two sisters and I, along with my father, are in the same city. In the same area of the city, as well.

He has plenty of help if he needs it.

I also have some great friends nearby.

[Floogeldy]

45. I'm glad.

u4ic

[u4ic]

46. Thank you for caring

[auntAgonist]

42. u4ic!

my dear friend. I'm SO sorry to hear about your father's accident. My dad is the same age and did the same darned thing a few years ago. I hope your Dad recovers as well as mine did. I will keep him in my thoughts and will send good vibes and best wishes his way for sure.
And for you my friend, many hugs and a shoulder. It must be very difficult to have someone move so far away, someone who has meant so much to you. You might see her again, who knows? You know she will always be with you in spirit and in the knowledge and love she imparted on you. This day may be over but a new one has begun for you, hopefully a better day. A day full of promise and good fortune. You will remain in my heart and thoughts. You have been such a good friend to me, and I want you to know that I hope to be there for you, when you need me too.



aA
kesha.

[u4ic]

44. Ah, the lovely

auntieA makes an appearance!

Thank you, hunny bunny. You're a wonderful friend for me, too. I did go to Harvey's today for comfort. (well, also being exhausted, I didn't feel like making supper)

Yes, she will always be with me in spirit. The past few years have been very tough for me, and she has been so supportive and understanding...and given so much unconditional love...(I mentioned above like the grandmother I never had). I feel like I still have so much to learn from her. I think people come into our lives for a reason...and I have learned some things from her that perhaps I wouldn't have from anyone else.

Much more than just a friend, a spiritual mentor.

[enigmatic]

47. you know it

[u4ic]

50. enigmatic!!

How are you, m'friend?? I'm so glad when I run into you here! Thanks for the hug.

He got taken to Grey Nuns, and treated promptly. He's actually closer to the University hospital, but good grief, I'd hate to have seen the wait there! (mind you, staggering and bleeding and elderly, you'd hope would move up the queue...)

[enigmatic]

55. Oh boy

I've only dealt w/ Royal Alex since I've been here so I guess I've been lucky; I'll be sending all the good vibes I can to both of you!

[u4ic]

57. Thank you,

you are truly a wonderful man. I appreciate your support so much.

I only dealt with the Royal Alec once; that was enough (emergency, I should clarify; outpatient was fine). I hope your experiences have been better.

I feel like I need a virtual drink...so...whaddaya got?

[lavenderdiva]

48. aw. c'mere.

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's fall. I will pray that he has a speedy recovery.

Losing your friend's nearness is never easy. Sometimes, when a friend moves, we make an even truer effort to stay in touch and share with one another. Its not as easy, but I hope you won't lose touch with one another. Your friend sounds very special.

here's a great big hug for you to heal your heavy heart-

[u4ic]

51. Awww, lavenderdiva

You're so kind...thank you, sweetheart.

I don't run into you that much anymore, I hope you're doing well.

[lavenderdiva]

56. I know, I haven't seen you either-

I've missed you! I'm hanging in there- thanks for those hearts!

[u4ic]

58. I need to get back into our group again

Hope to see you there!

and just for you...

[Broken_Hero]

49. Sorry...:(

Hope things get better...

[u4ic]

52. Thank you kindly, petersond

Your hugs are much appreciated...

[RFKHumphreyObama]

53. My thoughts, prayers, best wishes and hugs

You've obviously going through a tough time. May tomorrow be a better day

[u4ic]

59. Thank you, socialdemocrat

Your hugs and kind wishes, and everyones, have made me feel so much better. I did come with a heavy heart, it is lightened so much by the wonderful support here, like yours, in the Lounge.

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

54. Awww...

[u4ic]

60. Awww...

Thank you haruka!

(one day we'll have a virtual swordfight...I learned it in my BFA. I'm partial to sabre)

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

61. I was a varsity sabre fencer in HS.

Was it a BFA in acting?

[u4ic]

62. w00t!

I would love to learn fencing.

Yes, the BFA was in acting (I left after the 3rd year).

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

64. I started a BFA in scenic design but I left after the 1st year.

I was getting really stressed out and I realized I liked stage management better. Next show gets me my Equity Card (which I really should have already though)! W00t!

[u4ic]

65. double w00t!!!

Way to go!!

[SeattleGirl]

63. Hey, sweetie

Hope your dad gets better, and I'm sorry that your friend is moving away.

[u4ic]

66. Hi SeattleGirl!

Thank you for all your kind wishes. You are one of the truly beautiful souls here.

[billyskank]

67. I have unlimited hugs for you, my friend

[u4ic]

68. Thank you

my dear, sweet billy!

The Lounge support has been overwhelming, and am very grateful for such wonderful friends!

[Random_Australian]

69. Here, have mine:

                                                  
                              
           YOU ARE HERE
                             
                                                  

[u4ic]

70. They say you Aussies love to party

I'd say you also love to hug, too!

Thank you, m'friend! Thank you for all those wonderful hugs!

[ForrestGump]

72. Hey, you

Keep your hands offa my fiancée.






At least, she was my fiancée...I'd better check that other thread when I wake up, to see if she still is.





DISCLAIMER: dude, I have a rich fantasy life...



...hug away!

[Guava Jelly]

74. Sorry sweetie

I Hope tomorrow is a better day !

[u4ic]

75. Thanks, GoPsUx

You're a great friend.

Whaddaya doing up? Insomnia?

[Guava Jelly]

76. Yeah I was gonna get up in an hour anyways .

I think you are a great friend also.
And you will always have one here in me.
When are you going to sleep you must be getting tired?

[u4ic]

77. Geez, mom!!

Very soon. I'm pooped.

Just wondering if my little Gumpy has decided to rescue me from the snakes. Snakes off a damn plane...

[Guava Jelly]

78. I am a nag ain't I

Just wanna make sure u4ic takes care of her self like a good mot_ wait scratch that... friend
You probably are having a hard time turning your mind off anyways.
Here is another one and a

[u4ic]

113. You're right

on both counts - plus I was having some much needed fun...

[ForrestGump]

80. Of course I'm here to rescue you from snakes, my darling

Hey, GoPsUx....go away.


See, sugarlumps?







Really, Mr sUx...I am sorry to be so curt, and you know I didn't mean it, but -- you know -- the chicks dig it when you flex the old testosterone a little bit...you know what I mean, amigo...

[Guava Jelly]

81. But i am a cute snake

And even cuter ON A MUTHA FUCHENPLANE!!

I just wanna bite u4ic is that so wrong?

[ForrestGump]

82. Well, that IS true

An acute snake, as oposed to an obtuse one.

And, no, I certainly can't fault your motives...

[u4ic]

114. A simple "go away" isn't enough

I like my "testosteronees" to get down and dirty for me...

[Guava Jelly]

115. you heard the lady Forrest ..I challenge you to a duel!!

But just don't hit me hard..or in the face..Can we do rock ,scissors ,paper??
Shit!! It sucks to be a liberal sometimes!!

[ForrestGump]

130. Sorry -- I can't hear you. What was that?

Let's hear it for the sucker punch!










Nothing personal, dude. Same old story. Boy meets girl. Other boy meets girl. Girl tells first boy to beat the everloving sh** out of second boy to prove his love.

[Guava Jelly]

131. Damn Why ya gotta cheat

guess it wasnt meant to be u4ic

[ForrestGump]

132. Because all's fair in love and

...well...you know..they say love hurts. Or, to elaborate, love can give you multiple contusions, a concussion, and broken bones (at minimum).

Sorry about the chair. Now that I've come down, I admit that was a little excessive.







Okay. Now. If I'm right, and I am afraid that I very well may be, she'll be running along any minute now to console you and tend to your wounds while scolding me for being a vicious brute...either that or she's going to pick up this chair and wallop you some more while you're still down. It's a tough call...

[Guava Jelly]

133. So if i play the sympathy card

Oh Ok i gotcha.

[ForrestGump]

The only trouble with those sympathy cards is that you've got to

know when to hold them, know when to fold them...know when to walk away, and know when to run...

[u4ic]

147. Boys! BOYS!

Just HOLD IT RIGHT THERE!!!

[ForrestGump]

156. I'm holding it

Right there or, really, anywhere you want....

[u4ic]

162. I've got

a few places in mind...

The view sure is wonderful today...

[ForrestGump]

163. It's a good day. In fact, I'm

feeling euphoric....

[u4ic]

148. ...because I couldn't...

Ok. Bathroom break is now over.


You may resume...

[Guava Jelly]

150. I am on the ground badly beaten by a chair wait whats this

(Gopsux grabs a pile of dirt Slings it Towards ForrestGumps eyes)
Keeeeeeeeyah A right Capt.Kirkesq Karate Chop to ForrestGump's Shoulders. And A Kick to the groin.
You'll never have any kids..
Gopsux turns Towards u4ic .Hey honey Bam!! another chair to the back of the head!!
curse you Forrest!!
We trade blows until we both drop to the ground Exhausted.Peering up out of our sweat and blood soaked Brows we see u4ic leave with Johnny Depp!!
Damn man ..Wanna get a beer?

[ForrestGump]

158. A beer? But I don't drink.

On second thought...I think I'll start.




Women.

[ForrestGump]

157. Thank you, my lady

We who are about to get the hell kicked out of us salute you!

Hail!








Tell me, GoPsUx....do you ever watch those gladiator movies?

[ForrestGump]

129. Well, I'm already fairly

dirty, so let's see if I can get down...

[u4ic]

141. Any way I can help...

oh true love of mine
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7TsRdkrxl4g

[ForrestGump]

154. How did you get video of me dancing the other night?

Oh, baby.

They don't make dances like that any more. Now I'm going to have to watch Saturday Night Fever again.

I shall treasure this and learn. Though I am a tad worried about odd feelings I began to develop after watching the dude's bottom undulate about the screen for a few minutes -- any chance you might don the leisure suit and big medallion tonight?

I'm staying alive because you're more than a woman to me...and I know how deep is your love. And, no, I'm not jive talking...

[u4ic]

159. Well, dumpling

such is the telepathic response between us - I had those very same amatory feelings from the chap's bottom, too...

Anything for you...I'm in Funkytown right now, at the YMCA - let me Hustle back to my Brick House and I'll follow Doctor's Orders...

[ForrestGump]

164. I'm in the navy,

but I'll change back into the denim, if you prefer...




Or maybe we'll just go with flesh-tone....

[ScreamingMeemie]

83. You can have two...

I'm so sorry u4ic.

[u4ic]

95. Thanks, MrsG!

I'm sure this is a subject that hits home with you, too.

How is your dad doing?

[BlueIris]

84. HUGS.

Ouchie.

[u4ic]

96. Thanks so much, BlueIris

You need a few yourself:

[I Have A Dream]

85. Lots and lots of hugs to you, my dear friend. It's tough to have...

to be dealing with both of these things at the same time; you're being stressed both physically and emotionally.

I will send you as much positive energy as I can, u4ic. Please do whatever you have to do to take care of yourself.

[I Have A Dream]

86. Kick.

[u4ic]

98. Dream,

I wish everyone had a friend as wonderful as you.

Thank you so much for the energy and the hugs. Being here, amongst friends, has really helped me relax, and cheer me up.

[miss_american_pie]

87. Of course

How is he today?

[u4ic]

99. Thank you, miss_american_pie

He's in a lot of pain, but sleeping and eating well. Healing will take a lot longer given his age, but those last two signs are positive.

[NewWaveChick1981]

88. Oh, u4ic! Here's a big hug:

I hope your dad's OK and that you can get some rest now. I'm sorry your mentor's moving---that's gotta be crappy. I hope you feel better soon.

[u4ic]

100. Thank you, NWC

Those hugs are much needed, and much appreciated!

[SKKY]

89. Hope everything works out for you sunshine...

[u4ic]

101. Thanks, hon

[Sugar Smack]

90. Yes.

Mon petit chou, I am so sorry. Please let us know how you're doing.

[u4ic]

103. Merci beaucoup, mon cher

I am feeling better today, thanks, hon. I came here last night feeling stressed as anything, and left feeling so much better. I got the support and the laughs that I really needed. The Lounge Lizards are just amazing, aren't they?

[JitterbugPerfume]

91. I am so sorry about your dad

my daddy passed away a couple of years ago at 95 .We finally had to put him in a nursing home because of his falling so much

I will never forget the time I knocked on his door and could hear him weakly calling for "help" he had fallen , and the door was locked. I do not know to this day how long he had laid there on the floor

all I can say is , cherish every moment you have with him

[u4ic]

105. I'm sorry, Jitterbug

how heartwrenching to hear about your father...

He is falling more and more these days...only a couple of months ago, he had a nasty one. My sister was with him at the time, luckily.

Sage advice.

[Control-Z]

92. Oh, u4ic

My new friend. I hope you are feeling a little better today. Here's a hug

[u4ic]

106. Thank you, dancingAlone

Your friendship is very valued.

[Control-Z]

116. As is yours

You feeling any better tonight? I hope so.

A couple of extra hugs can't hurt.

[u4ic]

118. Thanks, hon

yes I am. Things are settling down now, we know what we're dealing with and he's being very cooperative.

You give amazing hugs. Thanks.

How are you?

[In_The_Wind]

93. You need lots of hugs!

[u4ic]

107. Thank you very much, Joani

I can feel the lurv!

So what plans do you have for Thursday?

[In_The_Wind]

125. Have another HUG!

I've decided this Thursday is the perfect date to trade-in my pickup truck on a slightly used P T Cruiser.

[u4ic]

135. Thanks, sweetie

Woo Hoo!! That's a great start to your birthday!!

(I hope the saleperson is very co-operative and helpful on your special day)

[ThomCat]

94. Of course.

I hope you stay in touch with your mentor, and I hope your father is okay.

[u4ic]

108. Thank you,

dear sweet ThomCat.

[Rising Phoenix]

97. for you....

ask and you shall recieve
hope your dad heal well and peace and long life to your mentor....

[u4ic]

109. Thank you, Mrs Sniffa

Your hugs and kind words are much appreciated.

[MorningGlow]

102. Oh dear

Lots of these: -- as many as you need

So sorry you had to go through such a rough day. Tomorrow will be better! Promise.

[u4ic]

110. Thank you

for your bevy of hugs, MorningGlow.

You did keep your promise! Today is better, though things are still spinning; lots of to and take care of.

Hopefully things will quieten down soon.

[MorningGlow]

124. Glad to hear it!

Hope your days keep getting better and better!

[u4ic]

137. .

[LaraMN]

104. Oh geez, honey!

Big ones on the way....

[u4ic]

111. Thanks, Lara

Those hugs hit the spot.

[GOPisEvil]

117. Yoiks! Of course you can have a hug!

Best wishes to your dad and to you and your friend. Sounds like you can all use one.

[u4ic]

119. Thanks, Dave

Things are a bit better today. Your hugs are very welcomed.

[Shine]

120. Oh sweetie!!

I just now saw this thread...hope all's well with your dad. Hang in there, sister!

[u4ic]

121. Thank you, Shine

How are you doing?

[Shine]

122. Shitty, right at the moment. I've got the Headache from Hell....

and I'm trying to distract myself from how crappy I feel by posting on DU. I'm waiting for the meds to kick in, but nothing seems to be working....Ugh. This'll pass, but I'm not exactly a Happy Camper right now, truthfully.

Sigh. Send good thoughts... Thanks.

[u4ic]

123. I'm sorry, hon!

Sending some good energy your way...

My headaches are always helped by my chiropractor.

Maybe hubby could give you a nice neck/shoulder massage?

[AirmensMom]

127. Oh my, u4ic.

I'm so sorry. You can have as many hugs as it takes.

[u4ic]

138. Thank you, AirmensMom

My doctor thinks he may have had a slight stroke, and that's why he fell in the first place.

He seems to be doing okay, and against doctors orders, drove to Tim Horton's today for his coffee. I guess he was just getting bored being inside for a few days. He was fairly active before this.

[enigmatic]

142. Tim Hortons?

I'll be down in a sec to buy you both a double-double

[u4ic]

144. LOL

after this, I might take up drinking coffee...

Luckily, it was only about 10 very short blocks away, though he got reemed out by a few of us...

How are you doing, m'friend?

[enigmatic]

149. Ready to go to (ugh) work...

And I'm trying to find my freakin' keys!

[u4ic]

165. Hope you found them by now!

[Anarcho-Socialist]

128. I only just saw this thread. I'm very sorry for what you're going through

[u4ic]

139. You're such a sweetie, A-S

(which are my RL initials, btw!)

[UrbScotty]

134. Have you gotten her contact info?

I hope you can stay in touch.

Here's a hug for you regarding your father.

[u4ic]

140. Thank you very much, ih8thegop

I do have contact info. It just felt like so much happening at once.

[Wetzelbill]

143. sure thing

[u4ic]

145. Thanks, Wetzelbill

The hugs are doing wonders...

[Wetzelbill]

146. yer welcome

I have no words of wisdom right now, just lots of hugs and support.

[u4ic]

151. I've already got one

"take every day as it comes".

And I give you a...

(sorry, seen the insecurity thread, and couldn't resist) I'm burning off stress in an odd way...

[Metta]

152. Whew, panic and loss.

Hi, U4ic. Your father seems to be out of the woods barring anything unforseen. For everyone's best interest, he should take the time he needs to recover. As you probably realize, this is an auspicious time to bridge the gap between the two of you. I suspect he'll be receptive to whoever cares for him.

[u4ic]

160. Hi Metta,

Thanks for your words of wisdom. And the hugs.

[trof]

155. U-bet

Anybody who wishes me happy birthday gets at least a hug in return.

[u4ic]

161. Thank you, trof

Hope you had a great birthday.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

166. Any time, my friend!

I'm sorry you had such a tough day...