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jane_pippin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:06 PM Original message |
How do you let someone down easy? |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:26 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think you're on the right track. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:28 PM Response to Original message |
2. just put it on the work thing |
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Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:29 PM Response to Original message |
3. HONESTY |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 04:10 PM Response to Reply #3 |
39. I agree. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
4. Say this, |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
5. Don't be too honest. |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Good point... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:51 PM Response to Reply #5 |
14. Dear Christ I agree with Floogeldy |
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jane_pippin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 10:48 AM Response to Reply #5 |
28. Well I never thought I'd say it but |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
6. Do you find him attractive? |
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jane_pippin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 10:54 AM Response to Reply #6 |
29. No, not really. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
7. Tell him there's this guy Redstone, nobody knows much about him, but |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:54 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. Funny, I've been saying that for months now. |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:17 PM Response to Original message |
8. I'd go with something like... |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:30 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. I like that. |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:48 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Thanks. |
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never cry wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 01:55 AM Response to Reply #8 |
17. To a guy, who is interested, that is the kiss of death |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 02:19 AM Response to Reply #8 |
19. NO! NO! NO! NO! |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 01:16 PM Response to Reply #19 |
33. WTF? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
10. I don't |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
13. "You're adorable but I have a boyfriend" |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-15-06 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
15. Nip it in the bud. Don't say anything that will give him a future hope for |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 02:17 AM Response to Original message |
18. My advice |
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jane_pippin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 10:58 AM Response to Reply #18 |
30. Oh, good point! |
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Gidney N Cloyd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 03:17 AM Response to Original message |
20. Someone in the office has already filled him in on your situation so |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 03:19 AM Response to Original message |
21. You can't. There are bad ways of doing it and worse ones |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 03:28 PM Response to Reply #21 |
38. So true, so true. |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 04:01 AM Response to Original message |
22. you don't. you let them down honestly. |
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qwertyMike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 04:12 AM Response to Original message |
23. You already answered your question |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 07:00 AM Response to Original message |
24. Anything but "maybe" |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 07:55 AM Response to Original message |
25. I think you've been answered numerous times in this thread. |
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jane_pippin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 11:12 AM Response to Reply #25 |
31. Well, that "I like it when he comes in" is a little misleading |
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CAcyclist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 05:27 PM Response to Reply #31 |
42. Exactly, he's older - he's not going to be that surprised if you turn him |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
26. as others said, be honest |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
27. Be honest, but... |
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jane_pippin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
32. Thanks for the advice, everyone. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
34. tell him you're involved with somebody else |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 03:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. And telling a white lie can be hurtful and insulting |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 03:28 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Lying usually ends up to be more hurtful. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 04:20 PM Response to Reply #34 |
40. I think lying is the cowardly way to handle the situation |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
36. Just be honest |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-16-06 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
41. after reading all these answers |
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