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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:35 PM
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Why are women never attracted to nice guys?
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:36 PM
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1. I adore me some nice guys.
But when they see me and realize I'm not a supermodel, they run away.
or, it's the clergy thing. :(
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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:38 PM
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4. C'mon here.
This is a flamebait thread. Can I get some fire and brimstone?!?
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:38 PM
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5. I'd rather have a hug.
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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:40 PM
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6. OK. Can do.
:hug:
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:43 PM
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10. Now that's really nice!
:hug:
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:37 PM
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2. Because commuting to France is really expensive?
Nice... France... oh, nevermind :)
:hi:
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:53 PM
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17. *lol* cute, very cute!
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:55 PM
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18. whew :) thanks heheh n/t
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:37 PM
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3. some are
but women, like men need to hash out what they want in a SO...and bad choices happen on both sides. The important thing to do, is heal, and learn from the mistakes.
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:41 PM
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7. We are...
I am, anyway.

Just generally not when we're young and stupid. It takes a few years for us to grow up and realize that the nice guys are the ones that really Are attractive.

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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:42 PM
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8. Yeah why is that ?
I am currently friends with a guy who will give me the entire world but something is holding me back. Its just too easy. He listens to me but I don't know ... I am just not feeling anything after two months of talking to him. And he is so nice. I just don't feel anything outside of friends . BUT everytime I see him talking to another girl I get jealous. The stupid things I do sometimes.
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:44 PM
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11. It happens
I have had similiar feelings towards good women in my past, but I never went for it, because of the gut feeling I had, that it wasn't much more than a friendship thing. And, it worked out, it only took me 26yrs to find my SO, and marry her... ;)
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:43 PM
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9. This woman likes nice guys. I just want some passion thrown into
Edited on Wed Aug-09-06 11:44 PM by SeattleGirl
the mix too. And I mean passion for life, as well as passion for me. I don't want someone who is mean and/or unkind. Had enough of that crap to last me the rest of my natural-born life.

Whenever I see this question, I always wonder what's behind it.
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Zomby Woof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:47 PM
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12. You want someone passionate for the weather!
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:50 PM
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16. Brat!!!!
:rofl:
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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:48 PM
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13. For fuck's sake people!
It's a joke. Haven't we flogged this dead horse enough already?

If I don't see some references to the Olive Garden or public breastfeeding when I come back, it's 20 push-ups for everybody!

I'm going to bed. Nighty-night.
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Sugar Smack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:48 PM
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14. They all get TOMBSTONED.
:cry:
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:49 PM
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15. Oh, boy, here we go.
:eyes:

It's not a nice guy vs. asshole thing, on the guy's part, it's an attitude thing. Confidence is key. If you act meek and reserved, you will come off as such. Not all outwardly confident guys are assholes, thoygh some do carry the assertiveness too far into asshattery.

(Note: I know this is intentional flamebait, I just wanted to get in early. :D)
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mduffy31 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-09-06 11:59 PM
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19. Because women are evil
for examples I would present my current situation.
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-10-06 12:26 AM
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20. Locking
'X' on the Center Square please, Mr. Marshall

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