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trumad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:21 PM
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Does seeing a man without a shirt, offend you?
Edited on Fri Aug-04-06 02:23 PM by trumad
Just askin....

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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:22 PM
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1. The human body doesn't offend me.
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Semi_subversive Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:24 PM
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6. Seeing myself without a shirt on offends me!
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:25 PM
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8. awww.. I have to admit it I offend myself on a regular basis.
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Intransigent Atheist Donating Member (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:29 PM
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15. I hear ya,
nobody would want to see me with my shirt off. YEESH!
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:36 PM
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24. What about ugly ones?
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:23 PM
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2. Depends on context
Hot summer day at the beach or the park,no.
At a dinner table, yes.
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porphyrian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:23 PM
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3. Only if he's nursing a baby. - n/t
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Ex Lion Tamer Donating Member (445 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:41 PM
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28. Good one!
I got it. Nice subtle cross reference!
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 08:09 PM
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58. Your username is my favorite Wire song.
Not a big Wire guy, me, but I do love that song.
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Ex Lion Tamer Donating Member (445 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-06-06 08:08 AM
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61. Stay glued to your TV set . . .
Pink Flag, Chairs Missing, and 154 are brilliant!!!!!

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tridim Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:24 PM
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4. America needs more nudity all around
It would help everyone relax just a bit.

No, I'm not a nudist. :)
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:29 PM
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14. it would help if we didn't have to look at "perfection"
or the media's idea of perfection anyway.

man, even when i was a 19-year-old beach bunny with everything perky and hard, i was self-conscious because i felt i didn't measure up to the media 'standard'. but when i was older and looked back on pictures, damn... i was freaking hotter than hell! (WAS being the operative word here.) too bad i didn't know that at the time.

it's criminal what society does to it's people.
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Xenotime Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:24 PM
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5. That does....
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:24 PM
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7. ummm... sometimes, actually, yes
some people should never be seen without full cover. sorry. i know that is wrong, but between the fundy upbringing and the stupid media pointing to perfection... some men being seen without a shirt is just plain gross.

i love seeing my boyfriend without a shirt though:)
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:25 PM
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9. If he has a picture of Ronald Reagan tattoed on his nipples, yes
otherwise, not really.
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WildEyedLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:08 PM
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37. Specifically the nipples?
Like, there's a mini-Reagan on each nipple? Or maybe a giant mural of Reagan across the entire chest, with nipples for eyes?

:rofl:
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knowbody0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:25 PM
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10. hubba hubba!
there's something fundamentally wrong with those who see a baby nursing that are sexually arroused or offended.

men without shirts! they're everywhere! and i love it.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:32 PM
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19. It's old school thought... and I hate to say it, it's their right
Sorry... it really is their right to cling to the old. Just as much as it's your right to want society to change.
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Phredicles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:25 PM
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11. "Offends" is too strong a word, but
I do think going shirtless in public is tantamount to saying, Hi world, I'm a slob!
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B2G Donating Member (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:28 PM
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12. Hmmm...
Nice 6 pack, tanned, very little body hair, a snug pair of jeans, barefoot...

I'm sorry, what was the question?
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:30 PM
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17. LMAO!
AMEN! :)
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:34 PM
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22. Don't know if he is barefoot, but...
...ya like? :)

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B2G Donating Member (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:39 PM
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27. That's what I'm talkin about
Edited on Fri Aug-04-06 02:40 PM by B2G
Although he could have a little more meat on his bones...and lose the belt.

;-)
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:42 PM
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29. I'll work on it!
;)
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B2G Donating Member (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:57 PM
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34. Here ya go...
If only I could find one with jeans...sigh.

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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:16 PM
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38. Yummy...with a spoon!
That man is BEYOND fine! I have always like Antonio! :loveya:
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B2G Donating Member (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:31 PM
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40. God, I've got to get some work done
;-)



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Duncan Grant Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:06 PM
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36. gulp...
Jesus. Mary. And Joseph.
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Der Blaue Engel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:22 PM
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39. Hey, 94114, that's just about what I said aloud just now:
"Holy Mother of God!" It's enough to make an atheist believe in the divine. ;)

:hi:
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B2G Donating Member (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:59 PM
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44. I'm so offended
I think I need to go lie down.
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Duncan Grant Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 06:13 PM
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50. You too?!
I'd be embarassed to tell you of the places my mind went... :evilgrin: :hi:
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 07:52 PM
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53. Goodness, the temp in my air conditioned apartment just went up.
Golly!
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hyphenate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 08:08 PM
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56. Oh, I don't know
I grew up in the era where male torso hair was a definite sign of virility. I kind of like a nice male chest where you can run your fingers through the hair, and occasionally pluck one if he says something wrong. :hi:
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Iniquitous Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 08:15 PM
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60. I think hairy chests are hot.
Not hairy backs, but chests. :9

Otherwise, it's good (bare can be OK, but he gets a bonus for fuzzies). :D
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Freedom_Aflaim Donating Member (745 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:28 PM
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13. At a 5 star restaurant - yes
Edited on Fri Aug-04-06 02:29 PM by Freedom_Aflaim
At the beach. no

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RaleighNCDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:30 PM
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16. What offends me is people taking pictures of me and posting
them on the internet.

Where'd you git that picture?!
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karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:32 PM
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20. The wall have eyes!
doo doo doo doo
;-)
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karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:30 PM
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18. Not really, however the pic you posted is kinda icky
:D
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Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:32 PM
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21. It is slightly sexual - intended or not n/t
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 04:39 PM
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Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 04:59 PM
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49. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Edited on Fri Aug-04-06 05:03 PM by annces8
NOOOOOO please nnooooooooo

here is a better one.


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Monk06 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 07:13 PM
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51. Jim Robinson's image is copyright protected......you know that right?
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:34 PM
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23. Couldn't you have posted a better picture of some guy
who actually works out?

Would a naked woman offend you if she had "let herself go", like does all that cellulite appeal to you?
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:45 PM
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41. Let's face it. The majority of the men that I see with no shirt on
don't look any better, and sometimes look worse, than the picture in the OP. It would be nice if they all looked like they'd been to the gym, but such is life.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 04:32 PM
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46. LOL! You need a change of scenery!
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RedStateShame Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:37 PM
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25. No, but unnecessary commas really chafe my chaps!
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Fridays Child Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:39 PM
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26. On principle, yes.
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:43 PM
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30. No.
:hi:
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bluedeminredstate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:48 PM
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31. Depends...
If he's leaning over the salad bar or walking around a courthouse, museum or post office, etc. - places that I just think require nipples to be covered (unless nursing, and even then you can't see them)- men should wear a shirt. If they want to wash their cars, parade up the street in their neighborhoods or paint their houses with a thong and a bare chest I don't care.
I do have a neighbor who goes shirtless no matter what he's doing and regardless of the temperature, and I must say he looks
silly - like he's showing off his once firm tummy, but whatever - his choice. My husband always makes some disgusted crack about him when he sees the guy, for instance, getting the mail in a pair of 70's tight shorty shorts and his wispy chest hair standing in for his shirt.

I think it's a matter of what's appropriate and there are places where it is totally inappropriate to wear half an outfit.

:shrug:
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:50 PM
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32. I've got a few of me from last september shirtless
that would make you hurl. :puke:
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 02:53 PM
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33. Never trust a guy with no shirt on...
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ContraBass Black Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:02 PM
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35. Is he serving me food?
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:49 PM
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43. The last to my knowledge,
only birds regurgitate their food...



:yoiks:




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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 03:48 PM
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42. Yes & no: it depends upon the circumstances.
In a store, for example: hell, yes. I just think it's rude. :shrug:

In a park, on a beach, other such outdoor settings: no.
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smtpgirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 04:14 PM
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45. If the man needs a "man-bra"
MOST DEFINITELY
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 07:48 PM
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52. A "bro" or a "mansierre"?
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 04:42 PM
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48. In a grocery store, or restaurant yes
Don't want pubes in my corn flakes.
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hyphenate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 08:04 PM
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54. Most of the time, no
but if he were running around with that tubby and didn't have enough sense to cover it up, yes.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 08:06 PM
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55. only at the dinner table (n/t)
.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 08:08 PM
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57. Only if it's a picture of me without a shirt.
Yikes! Nobody needs that.
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Iniquitous Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-04-06 08:13 PM
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59. If he attractive, it's a turn on.
If he's a patient, I think about listening to his lungs, apical pulse and bowel sounds when he's shirtless. Otherwise, I really don't care one way or another. :shrug:
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Aug-06-06 08:24 AM
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62. it does unless he has a majestic gut and man boobs
then it's okay
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