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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:33 PM Original message |
What would you do in this situation? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
1. Adopt a kid |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
2. He's been lying for six years? |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:48 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. I agree! |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 08:56 PM Response to Reply #2 |
32. Mental cruelty |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
3. That's grounds for divorce |
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ContraBass Black (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:38 PM Original message |
The chances aren't good at 36? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
5. Well it's not real easy to have a baby after 40 a lot of women |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
33. Do, if you want a child. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:07 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. I'll quibble on one point |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 09:28 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. True |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
4. Something that serious is a *huge* breach of trust. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
7. What a terrible thing to do. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:54 PM Response to Original message |
8. Why didn't he want kids? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 07:58 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. He didn't have to agree. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:13 PM Response to Reply #8 |
16. yeah it isn't really an area where compromise is possible |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 09:36 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. If he is ethically opposed to bringing more children into the world |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 09:06 PM Response to Reply #20 |
38. i suppose so |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
10. Shows the importance of having compatible goals |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
11. When a woman is trying for a couple years to get pregnant |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
13. Were they married before or after he got the vasectomy |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
14. Are you thinkin of putting the moves on her? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:10 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. She shouldn't let her hubby know she knows |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:38 PM Response to Reply #15 |
23. ha ha |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
17. Sounds bad. Wonder if he has a different perspective, or |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
18. wow. that's a betrayal, I wonder if she thinks she can |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 10:53 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. Usually pressure from her community to have them. |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-11-06 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
21. It's his body. He gets to have the choice, too. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:49 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. yup |
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huskerlaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 05:26 PM Response to Reply #21 |
28. I agree...to a point. |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 08:49 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. I agree, the breach of trust is the problem. |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #28 |
37. I agree. It's about the trust. n/t |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
24. And, if he deceived her about the vasectomy, what else...??? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
25. If she can have abortions without telling him, why shouldn't he be able... |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 08:52 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. False comparison |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 08:58 PM Response to Reply #25 |
34. You've got to be kidding. |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
27. Divorce the rat and hook up with a younger man |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
31. Divorce. |
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Strawman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
35. That's too messed up. Divorce. |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
36. Horrible betrayal. How could she ever trust him again? |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-12-06 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
39. I think it's inappropriate for him to have done that at the very least |
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