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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 01:56 AM
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I remember Easter as a child. Mom would always take us to Charleston,
West Virginia, to visit my grandfather for the Spring.

He lived in a huge two story house off of Main Street, and there he rented out the upstairs to a few folks that I never really saw much, and a room off of his kitchen where a dapper garbage man slept. Granddad was a short, strong man, dark as night, with a hearing aid for his deafness that happened when he worked in the glass factory after WWI. He'd turn it down when my mom would lecture him about something or another, and when he fell asleep in his red reclining chair with the red duct tape covering the cracks, while he watched the baseball game turned up way loud. He'd wake up every now and then to spit his tobacco in his brown ceramic spittoon and record the score on his TV guide. Bobo, his faithful mixed border collie who would bark whenever the phone rang or the door chimed, laid and slept by his side. Bobo would never fail to bite me almost every visit, sending me three times to the doctor for stitches, the last time after taking the other half of a cookie I gave him from my hand. Nothing at all happened in that town. The biggest thing was when the huge car carrier pulled up on the other side of the street. My sister and I would run outside on the porch and sit on that rough painted metal rocking chair and bench and watch as the man unloaded the new cars one by one.

Charleston was like a large retirement community to me, with a Dairy Queen where I sometimes got to go to by myself to get mom her butter almond, and an all night laundromat where we sometimes went after dark to wash our clothes. There were a bevy of old relatives who we would visit with Mom, walking for endless miles in the heat in our new spring wear. There was a lady with who had been stuck in bed for years (I never saw her get up) who was always in her nightgown and robe. Mom said she tried to get up one morning and found she couldn't walk. She was a kind woman with several pictures of Jesus on the wall. There was a lady who took care of her who had a huge goiter on her neck. The bedridden lady always gave my sister and I some change before we left. Then, there was the lady who lived in a huge brownstone with a funeral parlor in the basement that her husband had left her. Everyone in town brought her their business when someone passed away. She had a wide painted smile with her hair pulled back so tight that it seemed stuck on. She had long fingers with the longest nails I had ever seen. Years later she was committed to a mental asylum and Dad found a jar of gold fillings in her house that someone had pulled from the clients mouths. There was Annie Joe, my mom's best friend, and her mom, Cousin Gussy and Uncle Moore who lived across the Kanawha bridge in one of a suite of plaster houses with sunken floors. They had two trees with white washed trunks and red mites that crawled up and down. The railroad tracks were just a few feet from the house and the train would barrel by occasionally. Gussy would cook up a Sunday meal that I'll never forget with fried chicken, mashed potatoes, and greens that would melt in your mouth.

Easter Sunday was a great pain for a small kid like me. Mom was a terror as she got us ready for church. She'd scrub me, brush my hair raw, and dress me in this powder blue, Lord Fauntleroy suit with shorts and a beanie cap. She'd hustle us outside as Granddad carefully backed his gold Oldsmobile out of the garage with the shed on the side which had a ton of pipe parts, motor parts, nuts and bolts and everything wonderful. I smoked my first cigarette there one Sunday before church, a Pall Mall without a filter. Granddad would stop at the wide gate he had built at the end of the long driveway which had a pulley and a rope with a brick tied on that slowly shut the gate by itself until it clicked surely into its handmade latch.

We'd arrive early at the First Baptist Church and sit in the pew as the parishioners would stream in. First Baptist was a huge church with a wall of stained glass windows on both sides and a pulpit that towered above us all with room for its large choir. The church on Easter Sunday was always packed full and humming from the rich, sickly perfume of the women there. The smell was unbelievable. And the hats . . . wide brimmed monstrosities with feathers and such, atop processes and wigs. There was this one large lady who owned and lived in a dubious consignment shop along Main Street with a few ceramic figurines and plastic flowers on the window shelf who would always arrive at the last minute. She'd saunter down the aisle with her silver tipped cane, and her hat was always the largest, most outlandish one there, with fake birds, fruits or something amazing on top. She'd make her way down to her reserved seat in the front row. She was the only holy roller I think that was allowed in First Baptist. I understood that she had been informed that she'd have to tone down her shouts of praise to the Lord which, nonetheless, still echoed through the hall at several key points in the service.

Granddad always left us to take his place up front. He was a longtime deacon who would fully memorize the passage he would get to read before the congregation. I'd be stuck on that hard bench for the full 3 hours that the service ran on Easter Sunday. Mom would do her best to keep me still and quiet throughout the service with gum, or some starlight mints and butterscotch candies. A few of the stained glass windows swung open to let in whatever breeze could be had, but it was always sweltering hot. Almost everyone (but me) had a hand fan with a wooden handle and a picture of Jesus and a lamb on the front and a picture of the church on back. You could hear the fwap, fwap of the parishioners waving them back and forth in vain attempts to ward off the heat. I always fell asleep several times throughout, taking advantage of Mom's arm, probably the only time that she didn't terrify me.

The First Baptist Church was led by the Reverend Moses Newsome, a towering, light-skinned black man with a deep baritone and kind eyes. He would lead the congregation through prayers, through acknowledgments and death and sick mentions. He would stop in between and sit as the choir belted out some rollicking gospel tune, rocking, bobbing, and clapping their hands in unison as they rocked the house. They had an unbelievable sound. And folks would rock along with them. There was nothing subtle about the choir. They were loud and righteous. Whew! The one holy-roller up front would be on her feet, shouting out, " Praise glory!" she would cry. "Thank you Jesus!"

Then came the sermon. One hour long. An eternity. I'd have a sore butt by then and the candy just wouldn't cut it anymore. Reverend Newsome would speak in a low, measured tone as he counseled the congregation on the vestiges of evil and the virtues of good. His long arms reached out from under his flowing robe and he firmly grasped the lectern on both ends as he glared down on the flock. Sweat poured off of his freckled brow while he cautioned us about the Devil and warned us to look everywhere for Christ's coming.

Somewhere near the end, you would get a whiff of the food cooking in the church kitchen for after the service. The smell of fried chicken and gravy, beans, cornbread, and greens wafted uncontrolled into the great hall. Folks got restless, but they were mostly patient and still until, at once, the Reverend's voice would rise to a fevered timbre as he brought on the end of his sermon. Folks would shift in their seats and sit upright again as the Reverend boomed out his ending.

Then came the eulogy, that wonderful eulogy that signaled the end of the service. And then it was over. There were Easter baskets full of jellybeans and chocolate waiting at home, and the sun was shining full outside as we filed past Reverend Newsome and he grasped my small hand with his giant soft ones. "You be good now, you hear?" the Reverend would say. "I'll be good sir." I'd answer, as I pushed out into the hot air to soak up another Easter in Charleston.




painting, 'Charleston' by wife Karen
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:09 AM
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1. Very nice story ! Thank you for sharing that .
Butterscotch candies were the only thing that kept me settled in church too . And oh yes , the ladies in hats ! It was always a fashion show . This story brings back memories to my childhood in church . Thank you again for sharing it :)
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:14 AM
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2. I spent long summers there. All the memories blend into Easter Sunday
thanks for reading :hi:
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AirmensMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:17 AM
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3. Good story -- thanks!
I can relate to the long sermon and sore butt. Honestly, it would go numb! :rofl:
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:23 AM
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4.  I couldn't slouch!
or fiddle. The only cure was to black-out. :D
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:27 AM
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5. Yes ! That was the only cure indeed !
I can relate ! My Sundays at church - I had a short attention span depending on what choir was singing that particular Sunday . And if they were good at least there was a chance they would sing my favorite songs . If not oh dear . Someone always had an ink pen because I would play tic-tac-toe with the other kids by using a church program . But whatever you did , do not write on the fans ! ROFL ! Once the offerings were taken up , I had to find something on the ceiling to focus on LOL . Then ask for candy , ask for more candy , ask to go to the bathroom , kick off my shoes , ask for more candy . Oh dear 1:30 minutes to go - here comes the black out . I would go to sleep and never remember how I got to the car . But as soon as church service was over , I would be wide awake .

What I would give to have my childhood back - but I am thankful to have had that . Just this morning I was watching a local church on cable tv and watching their children's choir bought back so many memories because that was me in the choir 20 years ago . Time goes by so fast .
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:36 AM
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8. it all looks bright in the rear view
If we think more about it, we may realize how precious today really is.
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AirmensMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:28 AM
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6. That's right!
Then Dad would say in his loud, booming voice, "That means YOU!" and point straight at me. :scared: End of the glorious black-out. :x(
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:34 AM
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7. lol
:rofl:

Dear folks. I wonder if they were just acting mean, like I did with my own years ago?
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:37 AM
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9. the smell of food...
is worth waking up....
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:39 AM
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10. it was delicious
and no seconds! :7
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:43 AM
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11. means ya gotta pile it on the first time...
;)
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 02:44 AM
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12. love it!
:+
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 05:05 AM
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13. I was "there" while reading that.
Thanks for sharing it with me. Your wife is a talented artist and you are a talented writer. I almost feel I need a shower to wash the dusty sweat of Charleston off my skin. :)
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 07:27 AM
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14. and the perfume!
:hi:
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 11:16 AM
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15. one more bip
for effort
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 01:59 PM
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16. I am going to "bip" it once too... If people spent more time reading
these stories, and less time kicking and copycatting threads...the world would be in harmony. ;) That, and I really enjoyed it.
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bigtree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-17-06 03:43 PM
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17. well . . . thanks dear
:hi:
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