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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:49 AM
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Sigh......
Have you ever been in love so much that you can't think of anything but your lover's face.... Your lover's scent.... YOur lover's laugh....

And have you ever been loved to feel the power that love can give you when you know it is meant to be.......


Sigh.......
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:50 AM
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1. Yes I have and I am
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:52 AM
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4. Isn't it wonderful......
Thinking about the same things....

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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:55 AM
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7. Yes it is.
:hi:
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:51 AM
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2. .
:puke:
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Random_Australian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:51 AM
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3. dear WCGreen:
No.


Working on it though... been isolated, just moved to a place w/ LOTS of people...
Still never had a girlfriend, never been kissed.

Sigh....
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:54 AM
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5. sometimes it never happens when you want it......
But if you catch that eye.... And if you hold it and make her smile or blush with just a plaufull look, by jove.... That is the first sign.....
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Random_Australian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 04:07 AM
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18. playful look? Blush? That has never happened to me
Or if it has I didn't see it. (Very bad at recognising and interpreting faces you see)

Sigh.....
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:54 AM
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6. I don't disrespect your feelings, my friend,
but that sounds a lot more like infatuation than any sort of enduring love. I very much love Call Me Wesley's face, the scent of him, and the way he laughs, but now that we've been together a while, it's a rational love that doesn't hold me captive to longing. This is a love that allows me to think of other things, like making a living, being a good friend to other people, and taking care of my own needs. :)

:hug:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:56 AM
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8. But the first part, if it leads to the second part, keeps the
passion alive....

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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 02:00 AM
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9. Actually, I think the first part is the spark . . .
spark is nice and it still exists in my relationship with CMW, but spark alone wouldn't be enough for us. (I like spark as well as the next person, but if I'd attempted relationships with every man with whom I'd shared that spark, I would have wasted a _lot_ of time and resources. :) )

I do know what you mean, though. :hug:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 02:02 AM
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10. A spark is just a spark.... If you let it catch hold... Then life is
sweeter that way,,,,,,,
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 02:37 AM
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11. Sometimes, though,
the disadvantages of letting it catch hold outweigh the advantages. For example, I think most of us meet people outside of our primary intimate relationship with whom we share a "spark." It's good to know how to channel that spark. For me, that spark can become a lifelong friendship that doesn't subject anyone to protracted (and futile) longing or a divorce. :hug:

Geez, it sounds like I'm arguing _against_ "spark," but really, I'm not. Spark rocks, truly. :loveya:
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 04:32 AM
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20. How wonderful of you
to admit your feelings for me in a public forum. :loveya:









:rofl:
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 04:52 AM
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21. I just couldn't suppress my feelings
for you any longer, OR. Longing makes me tired. And cranky. x(
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 03:28 AM
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15. That's because...
You're a smart old lady, Heidi (can't get over the fact you're older than me!). That sort of immediate can't-stop-myself passion ends fairly quickly. Real love mellows and grows. It becomes a part of your whole life. Not the sum of your life, but a part of it that adds meaning to what you do. And gives you the space to do it - it's just there, an endless well that you can draw on but doesn't consume you. In fact, it makes you stronger.

On the other hand.... you have Wesley and who wouldn't fall in love with him?


Khash.
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 04:55 AM
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22. Yeah, we old women
know a thang or two about a thang or two. :rofl: :spray:

I adore you, my friend, but my adoration doesn't, you know, like consume my life. Mostly, it just makes me tingly. :evilgrin:
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Nicholas D Wolfwood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:04 PM
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26. I'm telling CMW you don't think about him!!!
:evilgrin:
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 11:12 PM
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27. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
Edited on Thu Mar-09-06 11:21 PM by Heidi
I do _think_ about him, but I don't _obsess_ about him. :shrug:

:hi: Vash!
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obxhead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 02:55 AM
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12. To have loved and lost....
understood, yet it has such sorrow attached.
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 03:19 AM
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13. Yup!
All the time. Actually, I'm very lucky. I like to keep my ex-lovers close to me and they also feel the same way. So it just goes on and on...


So who is she, Chris?


Khash.
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 04:27 AM
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19. Just a whisp of a thing....
I see her with the old folk.... Making their last days brighter... That's the kind of gal she is....
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joshcryer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 03:25 AM
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14. Yes.
And I think I wish I didn't read this post, haha. Something about a "sigh..." that is so inviting.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 03:38 AM
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16. .









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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 03:38 AM
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17. Yeah, only a film quote can adequately express my feelings
"When I met Mary, I got that old fashioned romantic feeling, where I'd do anything to bone her."

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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 05:03 AM
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23. So much so that sometimes I swear I could swallow him up or
climb inside of him. He's my everything.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 08:50 AM
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24. Yes, I have......
And it is all you say.....
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-09-06 01:00 PM
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25. ..
:cry:
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