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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 07:29 PM
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Poll question: What do women really think about men who carry condoms with them
I'm not talking about the outdated condom in the wallet, but a few fresh ones in the pocket.

Say you go out to a club or a party and meet someone, then start kissing and one thing leads to another, then you are in a very aroused situation. And as the man naturally tries to proceed, you tell him that you don't want to because he has no protection, but then he does, so you guys have safe sex and everybody is happy.

Or he says, no, I don't have any, so you don't have intercourse and maybe or maybe not either one of you ends up having an orgasm.

After all is said and done, does the man look like a cheap player if he carries condoms? Does it look as if he was expecting to get some?

What do women really think?

Sorry, polls are turned off at Level 3.

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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 07:35 PM
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1. Always be prepared.
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djeseru Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 07:38 PM
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2. Not a situation I've ever been in...
...but I tend to think very highly of any gentleman who is prepared.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 07:40 PM
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3. I'm not really one to go clubbing or anything and I'd discuss the issue
of protection before there was any real possibility of sex, so to be honest I can't really say.

I do think it's important for men to take an active role in pregnancy and disease prevention, though so I don't think I'd be bothered.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 07:42 PM
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4. I would think that he's a gentleman who thinks of everything.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 07:57 PM
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5. I think it's good!
Edited on Sat Mar-04-06 07:57 PM by Withywindle
And when I was "single" I carried them too. :hi:

(is female. doesn't care if some troglodyte thinks it's "slutty." Hey, you don't approve of sex, fine, you don't get any!)


I think they do tend to get outdated, though! I'm sure some of mine were. I'd still be wary of how long they'd been in there.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 08:50 PM
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6. #1 thought in my head: Oh, good, not the kind of asshole who expects
Edited on Sat Mar-04-06 08:51 PM by BlueIris
his partners to do all of the work. #2 thought? Is probably healthy and/or cares about the partners he may have remaining healthy. #3 Thank fucking gods, not the kind of asshole who expects his partners to do all of the work. Has the basics covered, LIKE A NORMAL, HEALTHY, NON-ASSHOLE.

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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 09:07 PM
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7. I think it's great. I'm a woman who used to carry them myself.
I was getting sick of not getting to have sex when it was headed that way because there was no condom available.
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 10:34 PM
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8. It tells me...
you're not an idiot. I like intelligent men. :-)
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 10:44 PM
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9. I think it's a great idea.
As a single woman I always carried my own when I went out, just in case.

When I thought that my children were old enough that they might be sexually active, we had that talk and I moved the supply into the medicine cabinet so everyone had access.
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Katherine Brengle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 11:15 PM
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10. It's smart, but it is also smart to figure out a person's character before
engaging in sexual activity. Better safe, but better yet not to get involved in a casual sexual encounter--just too dangerous these days.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 11:18 PM
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11. I'm old.. Kamikaze sex never interested me...n/t
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