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All right, here's the story (it's long-ish, sorry)
I'm in college, and live in the dorms with one roommate. She's a nice girl, didn't know her before coming to college, we get along and hang out on a semi-regular basis, but aren't the best of friends either. Tonight was going (seemingly) well, we were both at our computers, Law and Order was on, the room was quiet. She gets up and leaves for a couple minutes. I was working on a paper and IMing people, and not paying much attention. I didn't bother to glance at her when she came back to sit at her desk, I figured that she went to the bathroom or something. When, a few minutes after *that,* another girl from our floor comes in (a better friend of my roomie's than I am) all in a panic, saying "What's wrong!?" Apparently, my roomie left a message on the dry erase board of this girl's room that something was the matter.
It turns out that her longtime boyfriend (she's got a promise ring), on his MySpace account, was talking about asking another girl out on a date. Once the other girl was in the room with us, my roommate started sniffling and crying a little (or at least, she started audibly crying...I didn't hear anything out of the ordinary while we were alone...our desks are on opposite ends of the room and don't face each other).
Anyway, the three of us were up there, me kind of uncomfortable because I think I look completely cold and heartless for not realizing my roommate was freaking out. The other girl keeps telling my roommate to call her BF, that she deserves an explanation, etc., which is completely fine. My roommate does so, and immediately starts screaming at her BF, cursing, and the like. I didn't have a problem with it at all, but I also knew that if I were screaming at *my* BF, I'd want as small an audience as possible, so I signed off my computer, etc., and headed down to the computer lab (from where I'm speaking right now), to give them a bit of privacy.
Now that I'm down here, I'm worried that it looked like I left because they were disrupting me, which definitely wasn't the case. I was planning on making sure she was okay when I went back up, giving her a hug, and explaining myself once the immediate storm has passed--maybe writing her a little note. Still--I'm feeling really bad. Any thoughts?
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