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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:04 PM Original message |
How do you tell your mate you know they arent in love w/you?? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. By becoming an extremely selfish lover |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:08 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I want her to love me |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:11 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Forget about that. Just try to get as much as you can before the ship... |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:12 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. been on this ship for 17 years |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
2. Be honest |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:09 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Yup. n/t |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:23 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. honest hugh |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:25 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Even after you're honest about how you know? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:27 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. at that point trurh takes a back stage to anger |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:30 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Your anger or hers? |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
7. Leave a note in her journal. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
12. You've been together for 17 years? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:45 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. you hit the nail on the head |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 07:48 PM Response to Reply #13 |
24. Because she is thinking about one guy? |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:12 PM Response to Reply #13 |
27. If she's .. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:38 PM Response to Reply #13 |
43. oh for the love of--! |
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satireV (497 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
14. How would you want HER to respond if the situation was reversed? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:50 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. I would like her to be honest and be in love again |
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satireV (497 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:59 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. I understand.. how about this... |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
16. Why is she seeking love elsewhere? Where is your romance? |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 06:59 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. I have done all that |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 07:01 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. perhaps it is time you confront her... |
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satireV (497 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 07:01 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. The other person can't compete with trust and experience.. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:15 PM Response to Reply #16 |
28. You know... |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:39 PM Response to Reply #28 |
44. I didn't mean to imply it was all his fault.... |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 07:07 AM Response to Reply #44 |
55. "implied a lot".. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:53 PM Response to Reply #28 |
47. I agree with you -- and I'm a woman |
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Gold Metal Flake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
21. Respectfully... |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
22. I've been in "love" while married.. |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
23. She'll get over it and see how great you are? I don't know that you should |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 07:55 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. My theory: |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 11:16 PM Response to Reply #25 |
52. Very well put and exactly right. |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
26. thank you fort all whom have given thier 2 cents |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
29. You're making a huge fucking mistake! |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:40 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Mother of God. I hope to hell you are about 19, and not planning |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:56 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. I was married |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:01 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. You know what? I shouldn't have answered your post |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:15 PM Response to Reply #34 |
38. We do disagree on values |
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Mobius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:28 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Us evil pagans |
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mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 12:37 PM Response to Reply #38 |
59. Go get 'em Khash |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #32 |
45. khash's advice is actually correct |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 11:43 PM Response to Reply #45 |
54. Thanks pitohui |
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Mobius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:22 PM Response to Reply #30 |
39. What? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:58 PM Response to Reply #39 |
49. Yes, but not if one partner believes in monogamy and thinks the other one |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:43 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Totally agree! |
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Mobius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:31 PM Response to Reply #31 |
41. well, |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
33. If you can afford it, make her want YOU.. |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:03 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. Shit. You play hardball! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:09 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Not hardball, just 36 years of being married |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
35. Just wait till she reads your DU posts. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
42. no good could possibly come of such a conversation |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:56 PM Response to Reply #42 |
48. actually to her it feels like a highschool locker crush |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
46. Has anyone been in the same situation here and got over it?? |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 11:12 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Get over having snooped and learned that you're not a God? or... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 11:12 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. has anyone else's spouse had fantasies abt someone else? |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-06-06 11:41 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. There's a difference between being in love and love and infatuation.... |
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Onlooker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 08:10 AM Response to Original message |
56. Whoa! You are way off base |
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Frank Cannon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:43 AM Response to Original message |
57. "Put the gun down" is a good way. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
58. Be real and get in counseling. |
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