Take your time and be honest - tell a truth about me.

[Deja Q]

[Midlodemocrat]

1. You are very, very sweet and very endearing.

[WritingIsMyReligion]

2. You rule.

:hi:

[Sugar Smack]

3. HypnoToad is charming, endearing, beautiful,

and extremely articulate. HypnoToad is a good writer, and a lot of fun to talk with in person.

Was that too many truths? I can't decide which one to take back! :o

[khashka]

4. Oh Lord, here we go....

You are very sexy and very interesting and you are one of the DUers I'd most like to meet.

Now it is necessary for me to say something sarcastic and cruel, to take take the edge off, but so help me I can't think of anything.

Khash.

[Sugar Smack]

5. THERE ya go!

:D

Isn't he lovely?

[khashka]

7. He's a really sweety, isn't he?

I've been a total bastard to him at times and he's never taken offence. In fact he's always been a friend.

I find that admirable.

Khash.

[Ptah]

6. Your focus and passion

show through your eloquent posts.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

8. You are getting sleeeepy...verrry sleeeeeepy...

[BuelahWitch]

9. You don't give yourself enough credit

For being a truly unique individual. It's a good thing, really! :hi:

[xmas74]

10. You can be quite witty and engaging.

I've had some fun times posting w/ you.

[William Bloode]

11. I've read a lot of your posts.

You seem pretty alright to me. A bit unique perhaps, but thats a good thing really, it just means you stand out a bit from the crowd(and not in a bad way).

I think your biggest problem is lack of self esteem. But then again you have Aspegers right?

At any rate you come off as a caring, compassionate, and intelligent individual.

Here to you HT. :toast:

[bridgit]

12. you're waaaaayyyyyy too fucking angsty, dude...

no one here may be a certified to the extent you require.

[Sugar Smack]

15. YUP!

HT is... wait, I've PMMED you countless secret emails about my love for him.

Shit on a stick.

[bridgit]

16. Mine Czarina, sweetness & light you are here!!!

:spank: O8) :loveya: :hippie:

[Rowdyboy]

13. I hope you take this in the spirit that it is given....

I think that many times you are your own worst enemy. Self doubt and self deprecation can be carried too far. You're making your loneliness self-perpetuating.

[MiniMandaRuth]

14. If you were into girls, and I was a few years older, I would so date you.

I find you very funny and endearing, and your jokes, while crass and rather dirty at times, are pretty funny.

[HEyHEY]

17. I think you're a good hearted guy and nice to talk to

With some problems RE: life and mental. Now, I don't mean that in a negative way, it's just what's become obvious through your posts here.
Obviously mental issues are not your fault, and obviously they play a role in your life. But that doesn't mean you can let these things take control of you.. and I understand that isn't easy to do, however, you have to fight.
And, as much as I like you, telling us about them here is not a good way to go about it. When you do that you're letting it all control you. Someone who is obviously smart and interesting should not have any problem getting out of their ruts if they really try hard.

Good luck

[Deja Q]

26. Thank you for the honesty.

I must find new ways to control them... the future is worth fighting for. I've bookmarked this thread too; for reminding myself...

[RevCheesehead]

18. You make me want to have a sex change,

then come out of the closet. (How's that?) :loveya:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

19. you seemed nice...but your thread in response to mine sparked

a lot of bad vibes (mostly in others)

and you would find love more easily if you loved yourself.

[Deja Q]

25. Thank you for the honesty.

I'll track back the thread...

[Montauk6]

20. Your irises look like eyebrows.

[Syncronaut Seven]

21. You need to get laid Dude.

Straight up.

[Deja Q]

28. Not until I learn how to love myself...

And to reverse 33 years of un-love bestowed upon me from others in ways most won't want to hear about is in of itself a challenge... Cause and effect is the way of the universe. On isn't both with the ability to hate one's self. For the same reason people aren't born with the desire to commit suicide (and why the body makes trying to commit suicide so difficult...) The experiences are bestowed unto people and people learn from them.

I have managed to get so far as basic survival. But the challenge is just as malleable and able to mutate itself. Nothing is static.

Do not take my message incorrectly; I am mocking nobody, nor would I intend to. The fact is, I need to learn to cope reality rather than to dream fantasy (read that any way you wish, it still applies).

[graywarrior]

22. You have a hypnotic avatar

I will do whatever you ask.

[Telly Savalas]

23. I miss the Charles Nelson Reilly sig pic.

[peekaloo]

24. Your fucking toad got into my stash AGAIN!

:-)

[swag]

27. My big American dollars are betting on a synergistic merger between

you and the Lioness.

[tigereye]

29. I like your Blake's 7 pix

and you need to think positive. Good luck, HT.

[MsAnthropy]

30. You're adorable and a Minnesotan

two characteristics I like!