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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 06:55 PM
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I am prejudiced against white males.
Edited on Fri Dec-30-05 07:05 PM by bertha katzenengel
Every time I see a car behaving in a way that clearly shows it's being driven by an asshole, I automatically assume the driver is a white male. I'm frequently surprised, of course, if I get close enough to see the driver. Anyone can be an asshole behind the wheel, regardless of gender or skin tone.

I grew up being driven around by a white male, and he was an asshole behind the wheel (and otherwise). Now, whether this is why I hold this prejudice or not, I don't know. But there it is.

Do you have any like prejudices?
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 07:56 PM
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1. I'm Prejudiced against White Mail. Especially if it's named Bill.
Yuk..Yuk..
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 07:59 PM
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2. I admit having the same prejudice.
However, the white male who drove me around as a child is nowhere near being an asshole (and he's a decent driver), so I don't know where it came from.
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:02 PM
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3. So am I and I'm one of them.
I've seen my share of assholes in my day and 98% of them have been white males. And I've lived in very diverse areas my whole life.
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:03 PM
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4. I'm saddened to hear that.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:09 PM
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7. I don't understand your post.
Are you insinuating that someone should feel bad assuming that aggressive drivers are white males because Richard Calderon, a white male, died in vietnam? Color me confused.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:21 PM
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10. Mis...
Edited on Fri Dec-30-05 08:22 PM by bertha katzenengel
On Memorial Day I made photos of names on the Wall for a DUer (although it was a different username; was there recently a name change amnesty?). I wonder if perhaps he's saying he's surprised to hear someone who would do that can also be a prejudiced asshole.

I hope Ptah will come back & clear it up for us.

And as I said, no offense is intended - we're all of us made up of good and bad. If we want to be friends, we take the good with the bad.

edit: :loveya:

and . . . think this'll become a flame war? Oops. :yoiks:
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:24 PM
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12. You're a sweetheart, bertha...
Edited on Fri Dec-30-05 08:28 PM by Misunderestimator
And you are the farthest I can imagine from being a prejudiced asshole. It's not your fault that most of the asshole drivers on the road are white males. :evilgrin:

:loveya:

Seriously though... It just proves how good a person you are that you can admit to any amount of prejudice... even if it's only against white males :D
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:23 PM
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33. i'm not a good person, dammit
i'm just a person :blush: do not insist, please.

:loveya:
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:59 PM
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20. Bertha, I love you
Your cat tales are uplifting.
I'm sorry if I seemed rude.

You are the bomb.

Thank you for remembering my mates.

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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:10 PM
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29. not only do i remember your mates - not only will i seek out their
names from now on, each time i go to the wall - but i love you and will never forget you.

kindness between relative strangers is the sweetest. :hug:
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:19 PM
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9. I don't know what to tell you, Ptah
(didn't know you'd changed your name)

I'm a complex person, my friend, made up of good and bad parts. I mean no offense. It's something I try to change, but . . . what can I say?
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 09:02 PM
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21. Yes, I changed my name
And I will never forget you kindness,

Photographing my mates names on the wall

You are the bomb.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:05 PM
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5. The only times I've witnessed road rage from within the vehicle
its been a white male driver.

However, I've seen all kinds of bad drivers.
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stanwyck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:05 PM
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6. Try this.
If you see a vehicle with conservative bumper stickers or a "W" sticker, check out the driver. I'm betting what you'll see is an older, white, male who is alone. And he's hunched over the wheel, unsmiling, while he listens to hate-radio tell him it's not his fault he doesn't make the money he thinks he deserves. It's not his fault his children are estranged. It's not his fault his wife left him. And it's not his fault he has few friends.
That said. I love white males. As long as they're liberal. You can have the rest.
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BlueJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:09 PM
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8. Yep..I'll be willing to bet you that the Males on this Forum (DU)....
..are some of the finest Males in the Country. :)
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:22 PM
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11. Only against people who don't like white males.
Redstone
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fishnfla Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:27 PM
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13. I am prejudice against ignorance and stupidity
I hate people who talk more than they think
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:27 PM
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14. When I hear tales of asshattery
I assume the asshattery was perpetrated by white males, and that's typically the case. So is this prejudice or deductive reasoning?
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:29 PM
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15. LOL "asshattery" -- I still think it's prejudice, and i'm not happy about
it. :blush: it shames me.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:38 PM
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16. Here, I'll make you feel better...
Edited on Fri Dec-30-05 08:40 PM by Misunderestimator
I always assume that overly cautious (and ANNOYING, therefore) drivers, are white women. :wow:

BUT... I'm usually wrong :D Now that's a weird prejudice.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:54 PM
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19. Maybe I'm missing a gene or a brain cell or something
But when assumption is based on facts or repeated experience, I don't think it's prejudice.

Given: The majority of members of Congress, the Senate and the Cabinet are white males. Ergo, when gummint fucks up, I assume white males are behind it.

Now, if I assumed it was white males from Texas or Florida, that'd be prejudice — though the odds would be in my favor. :7
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LSK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:40 PM
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17. women drivers using a cell phone
Every time I see a car behaving in a way that clearly shows it's being driven by an asshole, I automatically assume the driver is a woman on the cell phone.

:hi:
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 08:41 PM
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18. In my area of the country, the women are just as likely to be "asshole"...
drivers as the men.

Someone also mentioned that white men are more likely to have "W" stickers. In my area, white women are just as likely.

Bottom line: In my area, the women are just as likely as men to be "assholes" all around. (At least, that's my experience.)
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EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 09:06 PM
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22. At least you're admitting to it
That's the first step towards changing
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 09:12 PM
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23. I am prejudice against large groups of young men
Of any race. I am sorry about being sexist in this way, but it really makes me feel scared when I am alone and in that situation.
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meow2u3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:09 PM
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28. You and me both
Unless I know the guys, young men in large groups scare the crap out of me. But that's because I suffered the horrific experience of having been repeatedly ganged up on when I was a teen.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:12 PM
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31. I can relate.
I was ganged up on by boys and by girls, but the boys were far more physically hurtful. I have no qualms about avoiding large groups of men. It's not prejudice, it's learning from experience.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 09:18 PM
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24. I am prejudiced against the majority of 14-21 year olds I see these days.
Edited on Fri Dec-30-05 09:18 PM by MrsGrumpy
Well, I don't know if it's prejudice (probably is), but they crack me up when they dress "goth" or "punk" or "gansta" and say they are expressing their own "individuality" when I've seen at least 10 other kids in a span of a half hour that look, act and dress just like them. :hi:
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 09:37 PM
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25. That is so totally not true!
I'm male, white, middle class and you like me.


Although, I must admit, I'm a terrible driver.



Khash.
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:09 PM
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27. khashka...
you see? i disprove my own prejudice. :hug:
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:03 PM
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26. DON'T TRUST WHITEY
And no, I'm not prejudiced. I hate everyone equally.
:hide:
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baldguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:12 PM
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30. Not all white males are assholes.
But most assholes are white males.
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-30-05 10:12 PM
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32. proclaiming your prejudice against white males is probably
the only bigotry one could proclaim so bluntly here at DU and not get your thread locked or much grief from anybody. just saying...:shrug:

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