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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-15-05 07:15 PM
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Never stop looking.
When you're an emotional cripple and you fall in love and scare them off, keep looking.

When you're an emotional cripple and you are too scared to respond to people, keep looking. With time brings acclimation.

When you and someone else lock eyes and make double-entendre jokes to each other, but not forget she is married with children, keep looking.

When you're played for like a chump to be used and discarded because they wanted to go back to their old commitment now that they ruined it because they shouldn't have, keep looking.

When you're played for like a chump to be used and discarded because they didn't know who they were but never quite told you they weren't sure of themselves, keep looking.

If you have somebody, don't be feeble, petty, shallow, or stupid. Cut your losses of what may have been, think of pathetic losers who are misunderstood at best and ripe for exploitation at worst, find your S.O. and tell them you love them and will make things work.

When the crash occurs, you'll thank those of us for reminding you not ditching your S.O.

9/11 was hell for everyone. But you had somebody to console and to remind you of how good life still was. Us single pathetic folk had to live life as usual, or lop ourselves off out of abject angst.

I will never understand humanity. But you will still have each other. (until something better comes along or if one of you loses your job or other trifling piffling piddle like that...)
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-15-05 07:17 PM
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1. This is a great post
:hug:
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-15-05 07:28 PM
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2. Spoken from the heart of an Aspie... but thanks for the compliment!
Most ironic of all; it's not about me, my post. It's about people who actually have someone. They truly don't know what they have until they lose it. They take the relationship for granted and ditch at the first moment's opportunity. Slime like Britt-brat end up being prime examples; used by the people-unfriendly media as a circus no less.

And nothing is more important than people.
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-15-05 07:33 PM
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3. You know I've said that too
Nothing is more important that people. You have your stuff together. What a perfectly gentle soul you are.O8)
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-15-05 09:33 PM
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4. Quite the contrary.
Let's just say I'm wise enough to know I'm a fool.
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-15-05 09:41 PM
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5. Believe me.
.... I know. On the other hand, if you are in a relationship that is perfunctory and dead, it's only marginally better :)
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