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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:05 AM
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I have a wish for all DUers.
I hope that everyone here has at least one friend or person in their life who is the kind of person you could call up at 4 am and say "help" and they'd ask where you are and come running, no matter how tired they are.

Does everyone here have someone like that? I hope so.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:08 AM
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1. I had a friend like that ...
but they left me 2 weeks ago ...
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:08 AM
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2. What?
Tell me you were kidding.

If you weren't, DAMN I'm sorry. THAT SUCKS.

:-(
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:09 AM
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3. I am serious ...
but I finally have closure now ...
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:10 AM
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4. Oh God, hon, I'm so sorry.
Big hugs, :hug:

Wow. Again, that just sucks. Glad to hear you have closure. Now, is there anyone else you could call at anytime and they wouldn't question it and would come running to help?

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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:17 AM
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12. At the moment I have friends but this person was just so special to me ...
it hurts but I finally got closure .
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:11 AM
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5. my life runs parallel to CP's it seems.
Edited on Thu Jul-07-05 02:12 AM by LastKnight
my SO (and best friend) left me last month as well.

ive been intensley lonley- it took me 2 weeks to leave my house after that. even then i was forced.
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:13 AM
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6. Dear God, this thread is making me cry.
Man, I'm so sorry. I'm so so sorry. I really hope things get better for you, hon. I truly do.

:hug:
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:14 AM
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8. im sorry?
Edited on Thu Jul-07-05 02:16 AM by LastKnight
dont mean to bring you down... i know this isnt the norm for the lounge, theres alot of happy people out there with great friends and SOs... im just not one of them lol, not right now anyway. dont worry, it will take me time to find my feet again, but i will find them.
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:16 AM
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9. Yeah, I'm sorry that happened to you!
It's ok, the lounge doesn't have to be all silly all the time.

And this is MY thread anyway, LOL! If anyone comes in here saying anything I'll say "hey go choose from all the other silly threads, we're talking in here!"

:hug:

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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:16 AM
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10. gosh, that is tough
I heard CP's story last night (lastknight, no pun intended) Life can just be a bitch sometime. It isn't easy. I hope you're feeling better now and all.
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:21 AM
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17. somewhat.
at some point something will remind me and it will get tough... but these things take time... but for now... i still cant listen to half my music for risk of remembering her singing to it (she loved to do that) or remembering something we did at one point when that song was playing, or whatnot and breaking down in the middle of a seemingly mundane event.

but, still finding my feet again, it will take time, but ill stand again, and hopefully be happy again.
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:14 AM
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7. not really anymore
I kind of do, but he works so much that sometimes he's gone at 4 am.

I do have my family, no matter how far away they are.
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:17 AM
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13. That's very good.
At least you have your family, that must be a nice feeling. Well, I say must be because my people I could call on aren't family, but they are dear friends.
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Tom Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:17 AM
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11. I have family and friends...
few of which understand me for posting online...So please do not worry about me!
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:18 AM
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14. Good!!!
:hi:

:hug:
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Tom Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:26 AM
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18. thank you
sometimes just such an acknowledgement is all that is needed!
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:18 AM
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15. I've got two people like that
That's a nice feeling. :hug:
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praxiz Donating Member (570 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:18 AM
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16. I dont even have a friend I can call at 4 PM :-)
nt
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-07-05 02:30 AM
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19. That's a wonderful wish Bouncy!
Yes I do have friends that would help me if I called them, I wish everyone had friends like mine.
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