I have a wish for all DUers.

[Bouncy Ball]

I hope that everyone here has at least one friend or person in their life who is the kind of person you could call up at 4 am and say "help" and they'd ask where you are and come running, no matter how tired they are.

Does everyone here have someone like that? I hope so.

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

1. I had a friend like that ...

but they left me 2 weeks ago ...

[Bouncy Ball]

2. What?

Tell me you were kidding.

If you weren't, DAMN I'm sorry. THAT SUCKS.

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

3. I am serious ...

but I finally have closure now ...

[Bouncy Ball]

4. Oh God, hon, I'm so sorry.

Big hugs,

Wow. Again, that just sucks. Glad to hear you have closure. Now, is there anyone else you could call at anytime and they wouldn't question it and would come running to help?

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

12. At the moment I have friends but this person was just so special to me ...

it hurts but I finally got closure .

[LastKnight]

5. my life runs parallel to CP's it seems.

my SO (and best friend) left me last month as well.

ive been intensley lonley- it took me 2 weeks to leave my house after that. even then i was forced.

[Bouncy Ball]

6. Dear God, this thread is making me cry.

Man, I'm so sorry. I'm so so sorry. I really hope things get better for you, hon. I truly do.

[LastKnight]

8. im sorry?

dont mean to bring you down... i know this isnt the norm for the lounge, theres alot of happy people out there with great friends and SOs... im just not one of them lol, not right now anyway. dont worry, it will take me time to find my feet again, but i will find them.

[Bouncy Ball]

9. Yeah, I'm sorry that happened to you!

It's ok, the lounge doesn't have to be all silly all the time.

And this is MY thread anyway, LOL! If anyone comes in here saying anything I'll say "hey go choose from all the other silly threads, we're talking in here!"

[Wetzelbill]

10. gosh, that is tough

I heard CP's story last night (lastknight, no pun intended) Life can just be a bitch sometime. It isn't easy. I hope you're feeling better now and all.

[LastKnight]

17. somewhat.

at some point something will remind me and it will get tough... but these things take time... but for now... i still cant listen to half my music for risk of remembering her singing to it (she loved to do that) or remembering something we did at one point when that song was playing, or whatnot and breaking down in the middle of a seemingly mundane event.

but, still finding my feet again, it will take time, but ill stand again, and hopefully be happy again.

[Wetzelbill]

7. not really anymore

I kind of do, but he works so much that sometimes he's gone at 4 am.

I do have my family, no matter how far away they are.

[Bouncy Ball]

13. That's very good.

At least you have your family, that must be a nice feeling. Well, I say must be because my people I could call on aren't family, but they are dear friends.

[Tom Kitten]

11. I have family and friends...

few of which understand me for posting online...So please do not worry about me!

[Bouncy Ball]

14. Good!!!

[Tom Kitten]

18. thank you

sometimes just such an acknowledgement is all that is needed!

[NMMNG]

15. I've got two people like that

That's a nice feeling.

[praxiz]

16. I dont even have a friend I can call at 4 PM :-)

nt

[In_The_Wind]

19. That's a wonderful wish Bouncy!

Yes I do have friends that would help me if I called them, I wish everyone had friends like mine.