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bif Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 09:54 PM
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Total bitch daughter. Anyone else have them?
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napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 09:56 PM
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1. NO! God knew what he was doing when he sent me 2 boys!
I've worked with quite a few people who had daughters, and they can be a real PIA!!!
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Wickerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 09:57 PM
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2. lol, stepdaughters = angels one moment, hell on wheels the next
I LOVE 14. :scared:
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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 09:58 PM
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3. Is there a story behind this?
...sounds a bit extreme
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Jean Louise Finch Donating Member (651 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 09:59 PM
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4. I don't have one, but I definitely was one
and i turned out ok. I still wonder how my parents put up with me at all, but they still love me and we now get along fine. I suspect it's just some super-human parental strength that you'll have to rely on to get you through the screaming tears and slamming doors and incredibly obnoxious self-righteous anger.

I don't envy anyone raising a kid like I was.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 10:44 PM
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10. ..
"the screaming tears and slamming doors and incredibly obnoxious self-righteous anger."

It wasn't just you - I think that kind of behavior is incredibly common among teenage girls. You can almost predict what they will say:

Things are different now than when you were my age!
Why don't you trust me? (It's not YOU I don't trust, honey.)
Everybody else is going!
It's MY room!
You wouldn't understand!
You don't know me!
You don't give me any respect!
Why should I?
Why shouldn't I?
You NEVER let me do ANYTHING!
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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:16 AM
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14. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm still trying to deal with the 3 year old who's answer to everything is "no". You mean to tell me it gets worse? Nnnnooooooo!
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Mrs_Beastman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 10:11 PM
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5. no, but I understand
I have three sisters...and my mom is not on speaking terms with my oldest sister. My oldest sister is basically selfish and shallow.And they both just sort of gave up on speaking. It made my wedding very odd.

I have another sister who is crazy in the special FReeper way. She is out in Iowa waiting for the rapture. :eyes: My mom screens her calls from her just so she doesn't have to hear the crap.
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Dukkha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 10:13 PM
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6. No, I've only dated them
So stop peddling them off on me!
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sam sarrha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 10:16 PM
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7. i used to b a Juvenile Parole Officer, statistically 1 girl ='s 14 boys
in the amunt of effort to deal with them.. usually only 4% are girls, we had 22% girls.. :banghead:
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senseandsensibility Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 10:29 PM
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8. Girls are under a lot of pressure
and always have been. They are expected to be sexually attractive, yet sexually chaste, sweet, kind, and helpful, and morally "better" than boys. If girls don't measure up to Britney's looks, they are worthless by society's standards, even if they do have the other qualities. Is it a mystery why adolescent girls seem so moody? By the way, I feel that, if anything, the pressures on girls have gotten more intense in the past few years. The pressure to be thin and attractive is evem worse, but now girls must also be potential breadwinners.
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FreedomAngel82 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:02 AM
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12. I agree
Now days in the pop-cultured world it's tough. I remember being in high school (2001 was when I graduated) and it was tough. All the really popular and thin/pretty/stylish girls had boyfriends and I never had one. I had guy friends but that was really it. I wasn't thin but I wasn't overweight or anything either. I did gain some but I still was okay. I never wore makeup until after I graduated and started becoming more "femine" I guess. There is some pressure there and I remember how it felt not to be popular and on special holiday's not get any attention while other girls did from their boyfriends or friends. It's hard now. Too much concentrated on popularity and looks.
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candy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 10:42 PM
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9. Not anymore,but I did.
They are all grown up and middle aged and dealing with their own daughters.

This too shall pass!
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bif Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-15-05 11:36 PM
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11. This to shall pass
Thank you!
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Blue_In_AK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:09 AM
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13. All three were at one time or another...
The youngest one (19) is just now finally coming out of it. Absolutely - this too shall pass.
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:19 AM
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15. A word of advice.
Don't ever call your daughter a bitch in public.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:21 AM
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16. normally i dont judge people's parenting skills
but calling your daughter a bitch in public is in terrible taste
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:35 AM
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19. Thank you.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:22 AM
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17. I was not allowed to be a bitch when I was a teenager
my dad would have certified killed me
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 12:33 AM
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18. I am one.
But so's my mom, so we understand each other. And my older sis is a goddamn psychopath, so I look alright in comparison.
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