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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 08:15 AM
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Poll question: Do Women Ever Crave A "Quickie"
I find it hard to believe that women would find the idea of "intentionally" having a quick, short burst of sex attractive.

But I could be wrong.

Ladies, is it true that women, rarely, actually like the idea of a little "quickie" in the morning, or afternoon, or evening?
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 08:18 AM
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1. Speaking as a former...
Rock 'n Roll Road Dog, I can say with assuredness that all evidence points to the fact that many woman do enjoy a quickie.

He said with a whistful smile on his face...;-)
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WoodrowFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 08:58 AM
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2. can men vote??
LOL.
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 09:01 AM
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3. Quickies rock
Nothing like a burst of intense and pasionate sex to take the edge off.

Now, if every time with a guy is a "quickie" that would be a bad thing. And part of the fun of quickies is location and timing. Up against the wall in an elevator. In the bathroom at work during lunch. In a closet at a party. ;-) Fun fun fun.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 09:23 AM
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4. question
I'm trying to figure out the logistics of elevator sex. From my memories of shower sex, it seems somewhat difficult to bang someone whilst standing up.

Any tips or techniques for those who might be vertically challenged when it comes to lovemaking?

:)
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 09:25 AM
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5. yeah
work those arm muscles
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 09:30 AM
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6. arm muscles
What, I've gotta bang you AND lift you up also?

Geez, this seems like quite a process.
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WoodrowFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:05 AM
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11. Not Fair
We do all the work and they get multiple O's every time while we get one!
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:35 AM
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20. while youre at it
work all those muscles. Wont hurt to have something nice to look at :D
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 09:41 AM
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7. Well...
it all depends on the height difference between you and your partner. You just gotta keep working at it til you find an angle that works. Shoes with heels may be required. :-)
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WoodrowFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:02 AM
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8. I am NOT
I am not having sex with heels on! I'll twist an ankle.

oh, wait, you mean my WIFE wears the heels, never mind.
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:04 AM
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10. I never said...
who had to wear the heels. :evilgrin: Depends on who's taller.

And you should never expect your partner to do something you aren't willing to do yourself. So cowboy up and strap on those stilettos. ;-)
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WoodrowFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:06 AM
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12. ok
I won't expect her to wear heels!! LOL
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VRSCAman Donating Member (27 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:03 AM
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9. I'm 6'7 and she is 5'2"...
It is difficult but not impossible :)
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goldilox369 Donating Member (73 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:18 AM
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18. standing up...
doggie style works. and have her lift one leg up and either hold it, or prop it on something. (that's mostly for the shower) Couldn't tell you about elevator. and if you want to look at her face, that's gonna be a toughy. front to front isn't really easy. doable, but not easily.
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arcane1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:37 PM
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39. that's why elevators have those handrails
:D
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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:15 AM
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13. Reminds me of a punch line....
"Uh, Mr. President... I believe it's pronounced 'quiche'...."

:)
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soupkitchen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:21 AM
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14. And real men don't eat quickies
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:34 AM
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15. If I want it to be quick...
... I take care of it myself.
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dolo amber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:47 AM
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16. Gimme some parameters here...
Due to a catastrophically small attention span, I'm lucky if I can muster 20-30 minutes without being distracted. This is no reflection on my partner, it's a tragic side effect of being an attention deficit spaz. So if we're calling a *quickie* 10-15 min tops, then HELL yeah, sign me up! :P :D
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:13 AM
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17. You left off one important choice...
Edited on Fri Oct-24-03 11:15 AM by YellowRubberDuckie
What if you only like quickies? Without sharing too much, it's against my religion to sweat...especially if there's someone on top of me and there's a hot bed underneath me. So quickies rock.
On edit: I have also been blessed with a guy who has the stamina most women would die for...But I hate it. I'm crazy, I know.
Duckie
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goldilox369 Donating Member (73 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:24 AM
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19. you too?
Wow, i thought i was the only one. haha. i am ADD too. 5-10 minutes, one O for each, 1-3 times a day. That's my style. Unfortunately, the boyfriend requires at least 20 some minutes for intercourse, and that is just ungodly for me. I joke with him that he is the girl in our relationship. I like to roll over and sleep afterward, and he wants to cuddle. Anyone want to trade boyfriends?
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Beer Snob-50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:39 AM
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22. Oh my Gawd!!!
I am available. How abut 10 minutes before sportscenter. You can snooze and I can catch the scores.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 01:15 PM
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25. LMAO!!!!
:thumbsup:
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:04 PM
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30. Well not only quickies but...
Yeah, my man has good stamina too. When we have sex often, I usually prefer quickies that are 10-15 minutes in duration. I just don't have the time and energy to have marathon sex every night. Sometimes, I start to get bored after having orgasms too. If he's been away all week though, then I'll enjoy marathon sex. I suppose if his quickies were under 5 minutes and I didn't orgasm, I'd be frustrated.
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tnlefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:36 AM
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21. they work for trying to dodge the offspring, too n/t
n/t
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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 12:06 PM
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23. "...with me...never a quickie..always a LONGIE!" Love At First Bite......
Edited on Fri Oct-24-03 12:14 PM by jus_the_facts
.....LOL.....that wacky George Hamilton as Dracula...this poll reminded me of that line!!:crazy: Voted for the first option meself!! :evilgrin:

...MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA! :D


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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 01:14 PM
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24. I like a good mix--some quickies, some all night long....
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geniph Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 03:32 PM
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26. Who the hell has time for anything more?
I mean, I can remember days I spent the entire day in bed playing, but those days are long gone. I have too much shit to do! These days, I use a chess clock. Get it on and get movin'!
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 03:35 PM
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27. My second ex-wife wanted a quickie once.
It sticks in my mind simply because it was the only time that ever happened with either of my ex-wives.
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 04:08 PM
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28. *smirks*
With one of my ex-boyfriends, it was "quickies" all the time with him since he didn't have the stamina to last more than five to six minutes.

With my most recent ex-boyfriend, the quickie for him lasted twelve to fifteen minutes, so I was pretty much in heaven. We used to do a quickie in the morning right before he'd catch the bus back to Boston.
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 06:53 PM
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29. My boyfriend built up his stamina with years and years of masturbation.
Edited on Fri Oct-24-03 07:17 PM by YellowRubberDuckie
Man...that guy has the strongest right arm...but of course, we all know why. lol
Duckie
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Kathy in Cambridge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:11 PM
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32. And your respect is SOOOO Important to all us DU Gals
:eyes:

Thanks for bringing DU back to the 19th Century!
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VermontDem2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:18 PM
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34. He does want to bring DU back to the 19th century
Edited on Fri Oct-24-03 07:19 PM by VermontDem2004
He talks about beating his kids :wtf: and he is all over the message boards demanding apologies and complaining about Heavy Metal.
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Kathy in Cambridge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:20 PM
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35. If he can't take the heat, he shoul get out of the kitchen
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:38 PM
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40. He has been forced to leave the kitchen, RR.
Check his profile.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:29 PM
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36. Well, maybe I shouldn't have
I think that I've been revealing too much private information lately. Perhaps it's because my husband is still working this evening and I'm high. Yep, worthless stoner. Unless someone is making it a point to stalk me, though, they'll never know who I truly am. Maybe, I'm not even a married college educated woman in her twenties who lives in Wisconsin. That is the beauty of an anonymous board. It allows us to talk to other strangers as we would talk to close friends. Now if I'd actually meet some other real DUers, I hope that they won't remember this particuliar post and ask me or my husband about it.
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VermontDem2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:33 PM
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37. Nooo! You lost his respect!!!!
:)
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:16 PM
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33. Sex is good for you.
:)
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LadeJarl Donating Member (197 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 07:36 PM
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38. Sure.... But I have a problem
coming quickly. So a quicky for me is a quick pleasure for the woman and nothing more than the pure pleasure of having had sex for me. I need a lot more time than is available for a quickie in order to get an O!

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populistmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:40 PM
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41. The quickie is in the eye of the beholder
I tend to think of a quickie as anything under a 1/2 hour, but some people might say 5 or 10 minutes is a quickie and think a 1/2 hour (especially if both parties climaxed) is perfectly fine. Personally, quickies can be fine at times as long as I'm not left hanging or if not left hanging completely, wanting a little more and the male in the situation is already eating a sandwich and watching baseball.
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Lady Freedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 10:58 PM
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42. Yes! OH YES!
yes! yes! YYYYEEEESSSS!
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:20 PM
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43. Quickies, Nooners, Long time, Short time...I crave
I've been without since April 4th...

Boy, do I crave...
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Lady Freedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-03 11:33 PM
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44. I've been without since Aug.
guess I'm lucky!
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