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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:15 AM
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Is it even creepier to date someone with the same last name?
That would be especially freaky in my case.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:16 AM
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1. Oh Kleeby.
Weren't FDR and Eleanor 2nd cousins?
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:17 AM
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3. 5th not second
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:22 AM
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31. Isn't that Poppy and Barb?
:shrug:
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kittenpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:23 AM
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32. and look how well Jr. turned out.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:24 AM
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34. Yup.
:evilgrin:

I don't really think they're 2nd cousins though. They are cousins of some sort though. :shrug:
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:24 AM
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33. No the Bushes and Pierces aren't related
to the best of my knowledge.
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elshiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:17 AM
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2. How many Kleebs are there who aren't
related to you? It isn't like "Smith" or "Butler."
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:19 AM
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7. I dont know
My family isn't originally Virginian so I dont know, but I think its safe to say if they're west of the mississphi for the most part, they aint related to me. Then again my grandfather's sister did live in LA for many years until she died.
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elshiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:23 AM
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12. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
I have never heard of the name Kleeb until I met you. What is the derivation of "Kleeb?"
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:27 AM
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15. German
Yeah its rare.
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elshiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:34 AM
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22. My name is German, but it is fairly common.
Edited on Mon Mar-28-05 12:35 AM by elshiva
on edit: Actually it's Germanized from the Latvian so my grandparents could fit in with the Germans.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:37 AM
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26. Well this is pure German or at least Swiss-German
Ha if we had an Irish name, my one brother would sound so irish, in fact both would but especially my middle bro.
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PartyPooper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:17 AM
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4. Once, I knew a Penelope Pooper
But, we never dated.

:D

:hi:
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Goathead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:17 AM
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5. Dated a girl with the same birthday as me. Same year even.
I don't know why but it was a little strange. Like we were twins or something. Paging Dr. Freud... paging Dr. Freud...
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:19 AM
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8. If she had the same exact birthday as your mother...
Only then would Dr. Freud answer your page. (He'd probably come real quick, too).
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AntiCoup2K4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:25 AM
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35. I broke up with the same woman twice on my mom's birthday, 5 years apart.
What would Freud say about that?
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:26 AM
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36. What happened when you were 5 years old?
Something profound?
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:19 AM
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9. That is freaky
same exact age around too.
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:28 AM
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17. Had you been in the same nursery?
Edited on Mon Mar-28-05 12:29 AM by nuxvomica
I work with a woman who, we've figured out, was probably in the same hospital nursery at the same time I was. We've never gotten along well.

edit: sp
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:31 AM
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20. ha
My best friend growing up was only two weeks to the day older than me but we got along great, now as I grow older, we're growing more different, doesnt help that he moved to Texas when I was 10.
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Goathead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:41 AM
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27. No, but that would be interesting
To get a list of all the people that were in the nursery at the same time you were born. Look them up, go visit them, say "Hey, you probably don't remember me but we used to hang out together when we were kids." Watch them pull the chain across the door as they grab a baseball bat and dial 911...
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:50 AM
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49. But at least you guys would always remember each other's birthdays!!!
That's a plus.
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:18 AM
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6. I would be shocked to meet someone with the same last name as mine
It's a bit odd.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:19 AM
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10. Yeah me too.
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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:20 AM
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11. I once dated someone with my exact birthday.
To the year. I didn't like him.

(PS -- check your inbox.)
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:27 AM
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16. I did and thanks for seeking my advice
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:24 AM
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13. yes... way more creepier
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kittenpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:25 AM
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14. I was set up on a date w/ a guy that had my last name.
of course, that discovery ended any possibilities of chemistry
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Tweed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:29 AM
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18. Not if its common, I know two Patels that are getting married
It doesn't seem weird at all.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:32 AM
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21. Patel? Ive never met anyone by that name
Well you know the good thing about meeting someone with the same last name is that they dont have to get new id documenation :).
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Tweed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:34 AM
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23. I'm guessing you've never been around any Indians then
Basically it's the Indian venison of Smith. It means farmer in Indian so you can see how everyone got that name.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:36 AM
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25. Actually I do know some Indians
but Gupta is what I see a lot of. Is that common too?
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:31 AM
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19. Had a friend in highschool whose Mom was named Pearl Pearl.
Edited on Mon Mar-28-05 12:33 AM by BrklynLiberal
So obviously she had dated a guy whose last name was the same as her first name.
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SamanthaJones Donating Member (229 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:34 AM
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24. I went to school with a Robert Roberts
and he ended up marrying a girl named Roberta. No joke!
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warrens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:48 AM
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28. why would you care, as long as she is not your sister?
I actually dated someone with my first name, although a female spelling of it.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 12:49 AM
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29. I didnt say I would care
I just said I'd be freaked.
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regnaD kciN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:21 AM
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30. It wouldn't be weird if you weren't closely related...
However, if such a couple were seriously considering marriage, I would recommend that one party legally change their name to something else a bit before the wedding, so that it can be listed on the marriage license. Why? Because, if they have kids, odds are that, at one point they will get a school assignment to do a "family tree." If they come up with one where both parents have the same last name, the first assumption will be that they didn't do the homework correctly, because they were supposed to list their mother's maiden name. If they then go on to tell the class that this was her maiden name, they're going to get teased about it for the rest of their time at school.

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jdots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:30 AM
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37. what would suck ..............
you married someone with your last name and she referred to herself as Dorris Kleeb Kleeb.....
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:35 AM
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38. What would suck even more is being named Doris
:).
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jdots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 01:43 AM
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39.  right you are
Carlotta Kleeb Kleeb Betty Joe Kleeb Kleeb Yolanda Kleeb Kleeb and Hooters Kleeb Kleeb the search is on .......
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TheModernTerrorist Donating Member (645 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:04 AM
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40. maybe, but
dating someone whose last first name is an anagram of your last name and RHYMES with it is creepy. For example, my last name is "Hester", a girl I once dated was named "Esther".... when she told me her name, I thought to myself "oh no!!"
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:09 AM
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41. Creepier than what?
B-)
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:12 AM
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44. dating someone with the same name or variation there of
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:10 AM
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42. Not if you're married to them
:silly:
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:11 AM
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43. Smartass
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:21 AM
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45. Yes, and your point is?
Edited on Mon Mar-28-05 02:21 AM by Revolutionary_Acts04
:P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:22 AM
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46. Got a light?
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:23 AM
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47. Right here. *click*
I can see now! :7
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:23 AM
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48. *lights* Thanks
Been a rough night.
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