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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:14 AM
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Tell me your deep dark secret...
Me? I watch my neighbor walk across the parking lot with lust in my eyes. This is my only character flaw, I swear!

(Sorry, every time I tried to write "I swear" above, it came out as "I sweat" lol)
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:16 AM
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1. I love
autoeroticsm
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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:22 AM
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2. I bet you're quite good at it too! n/t
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 10:22 AM
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12. Well I just
have to keep practicing so much it seems.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:25 AM
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3. A couple of things
That I won't share here even though as far as I know, no one here knows the true identity of Nikia.
I have just started counseling and had planned to tell the counselor everything, but she just seems too nice. The first session just touched on things that I'd tell any aquaintance anyway. I am more comfortable telling friends deep dark secrets once they have told me something equivalent or worse. I know that this isn't going to happen with the counselor so I need to get over this.
Maybe the stuff isn't any worse than stuff than other Duers have shared in the past. I am just extremely judgemental of myself and think other people are that judgemental of me as well.
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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:28 AM
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6. I agree, it's hard to tell counsellors stuff...
Because it's an unequal relationship. They hear your "bad" but you don't hear theirs.

THink of it this way. All people go into being therapists because they are trying to figure out something about themselves, and often it is something weird. So if you can think of your consellor as having some deep dark secret they are not sharing, maybe it will make it easier.

:hi:
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LDS Jock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:27 AM
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4. I have a bigtime crush on a straight DUer
who barely knows I'm alive. :cry:
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:28 AM
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5. I already know.
It's okay. :D KIDDING!
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LDS Jock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:33 AM
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9. lol.. smarty pants
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aQuArius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 11:45 AM
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16. Wonderful things can happen with a DU crush!
Ask me, I know! *sigh* :)
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 01:46 PM
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24. dude, that's not a secret.
Everybody knows. You make it so obvious.
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LDS Jock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 01:51 PM
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25. who is it then?
tell me and I'll know its obvious
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:31 AM
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7. I already have my walls plastered with pics of Will Pitt in a bunny outfit
And I didn't even know about the bet he made with LynneSin! I've had them up for almost two years.
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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:32 AM
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8. Shrines are good!
I never knew Will Pitt looked so good in a bunny suit until I saw the thread today!

:hi:
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:40 AM
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10. I really want to see LynneSin in a bunny suit
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 09:45 AM
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11. My entire life I've struggled with the idea that I'm just not good enough.
There's no reason -- my parents have always been enouraging my whole life; my friends, my lovers.... Nobody's ever said anything to me to make me feel this way, I just do.

I simply don't trust myself not to fuck things up.
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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 11:33 AM
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13. Do most people feel that way?
Are there certain areas where you feel good enough, and other areas not?
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tjdee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 11:41 AM
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14. I want to be famous and rich.
Oh wait, I think everyone knows that. That's not deep or dark.

Unless you knew my reasons for wanting to be rich and famous, muahahahaha.
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More Than A Feeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 11:44 AM
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15. When no one is around, I play the air drums while listening to music
I am so ashamed :silly:
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 12:13 PM
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18. Oh, my Dog! Have you considered therapy, perhaps electro shock?
:(
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More Than A Feeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 01:00 PM
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20. *rolls his eyes* or I could just get a drum set, and play for real n/t
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 03:38 PM
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26. Uh, that might work.
;)
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 11:46 AM
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17. Assuming I *did* have a deep, dark secret,
it would no longer be a secret if I shared it on a public messageboard, so, no.

I'm not even going to say whether I HAVE a deep, dark secret!

:)
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Lavender Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 12:16 PM
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19. I have a crush
on a guy who works at the grocery store in my neighborhood. *blush*
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 01:26 PM
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21. My deep, dark secret....
Is that I'm an immensely boring person without anything that could probably qualify as a deep, dark secret. I have had such a dull, boring life is probably the only way to put it. I'm not trying to be down on myself. It's just pretty much the truth. Anytime, I try to insert an interesting experience into it, it doesn't work out for whatever reason, so I should just learn to accept things for what they are. :shrug:
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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 01:39 PM
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22. You can feel lucky having a boring life...
Sometimes excitement brings troubles

:shrug:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-29-05 01:43 PM
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23. My only excitement are troubles.
I just have nothing pleasurable or interesting. Not whining, it's just the way things were meant to be for whatever reason I guess. Acceptance is the first step in facing what someone has to face sometimes.
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