Two Assholes made fun of me in class today

[corarose]

Well anyways I came in and I have another guy who pulled out my seat for me at my table and he's an older guy.
I heard one of the two say to the other one that she has no teeth and he started to laugh.
He interrupted the whole class by laughing real loud and the teacher was starting to talk and they were both busting a gut.

I have been through too much to cry so I didn't say anything. The whole time these two shits were talking over the teacher about what they were going to do after class.
I couldn't hear anything and either could the other 20 people in class so I shot the bastards a look like I wanted to kill them and they shut up at that moment.
A young girl came in and sat next to them and they started saying something about me to her and she said you better watch what you say she's a teachers aid and the teachers like her.

The whole time I wanted to say something to them but I kept my mouth shut.

One of the guys looked like the Fat Albert cartoon and I am not kidding you. He had a large polka dot shirt on and I don't know If anyone remembers the cartoon but he had the hairstyle and I could have easily made a comment to him like I would have in the past but the girl took care of it by telling them to watch their mouths.

My little guy friend that I taught me how to sharpen a knife when I started school took care of it. He made a comment to them about me being able to get me teeth but they can't get a new face or personality. He's a beautiful young man who's going to break allot of guys hearts.

They said Shittttttttttt we better shut up.

God I really dislike people at times like this!

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

1. I would have simply looked back at him and said

"and you have no class. I can get false teeth."

[corarose]

4. You don't know how bad I wanted to comment to them

I couldn't get the courage up and I didn't know what to do.

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

18. YOu should have given them a GREAT BIG TOOTHLESS SMILE

and made the idiots as uncomfortable as possible. Wanna take "how to be an asshole in person" lessons from me?

[DK666]

2. You

Really need to say something next time.

[corarose]

3. I could not concentrate during the class at all

For 3 hours I couldn't think about anything but loosing my teeth.

[Fixated]

7. .....

I take a lot of punishment in school because I tend to shoot off my mouth at people who could crush me. In classes with five huge football players who hate me, it tends to get awkward. But brush it off. They won't get anywhere in life.

[madmax]

12. corarose - remember this, it's only temporary.

You'll get teeth. This too shall pass, kiddo.

Don't pay any attention - some people are just natural born assholes.

[Maddy McCall]

28. You need to discuss this with your professor...I teach and I demand that..

students in my classes respect not only me but also each other. I demand courtesy in class discussions and would never tolerate the behavior you experienced today.

IF these students had been in my class and I had been made aware of their comments and them making fun of you, OH BELIEVE ME they would have never wanted to set foot in my class again, because I would have not only sent them out of my class for the day with an unexcused absence, I would have also given a "big grade" pop test the moment they stepped out, which would have hurt them academically (a test like "write down the subject we are studying and your take on it"). Then I would have called them in for conference, at which I would have laid down the law that if such behavior ever occurred in my class again, they would be permanently barred. And finally I would have reported them to the Dean of Students, which is the proper thing to do in this situation.

YOU DO HAVE THE RIGHT to report these students' behavior to the Dean of Students. I think you should. Abusive behavior in the university setting is NOT TO BE TOLERATED and should be punished by the proper authority, the Dean of Students.

[Trajan]

38. Hear Hear

Doesnt this qualify as simple Assault ? ....

I wouldnt call the Dean: .. I would call the Sheriff .....

[Don_G]

5. There's A Lot Of Sad People Out There

That have to make themselves feel better by cutting someone else down.

[corarose]

9. They made other comments about my little guy friend

He's is 19 years old and he introduced me to his parents one time. They know he is gay and they love him and they don't hassle him. He is so well rounded that you wouldn't believe.
He's a very good looking boy and they have made comments about him being gay.

The first time I came back to class he stood up and gave me a hug in front of the whole class. They made a comment that I must be a fag-hag or some rude comment like that. I don't pick my friends by the way they look or what they do behind closed doors.
One of my friends in Baking Class looks like a boy but she's a she and no one will talk to her. She has been in the Army and I started talking to her last semester and she couldn't believe that I was speaking to her one day. I was a teachers aid in that class and she was one of the students and I showed her how to make Pita Bread and she couldn't believe that I spoke to her. I couldn't believe that no one else has talked to this women she is a nice person. I don't care about her lifestyle she is a human being.

Some of the students make fun of the others and I am now going to be in that group that they make fun of.
Do I care.......HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!

[Maddy McCall]

41. I repeat...take it to the Dean.

These students are bullies, as their aggression towards not only you but also others demonstrates.

A brush with the Dean and a threat of suspension of expulsion will pour cold water on them, I promise.

The best way to handle this is through a letter to the Dean, with a carbon copy notation listing your department head and the instructor of the class in which you have the problems.

Sign it and send it. Your other bullied classmates will THANK you!

[AlienGirl]

48. You are going to be in the group they make fun of

...where ALL the truly interesting people in life are!

Tucker

[corarose]

51. I was joking on that part

I should have typed just joking next to that part but there is a group of kids who think that they can make fun of the "weird" ones as they call them. I walked past the "bitches" that were making fun of a couple of students one day and I asked them how the weather was out and they looked startled and I said to them that it would be a much better topic then the one that they had going.
I got fed up with them tearing these young students down so I had to but in one day. They wou.d be standing outside the class making fun of some of the kids in the class and you would pass them and they would say Hi and keep talking.

[displacedtexan]

6. i said this once...

i'm really sorry that no one ever cared enough about you to teach you any manners.

yikes! it really worked! i felt bad after i said it, but DAMN! sometimes, people need a wake up call.

x off today on your calendar and focus on life after you finish school. it's all going to be better. i promise! and find out where and when your county democratic party meets. go to the next meeting and volunteer. you'll be glad you did.

[ikojo]

8. Reading this kind of stuff really, really straightens my hair

and I have some very curly hair. When will these jerks grow up? You are not in grammar school anymore but you would not know it by the actions of these classmates.

I don't know what I would have done. I was so ridiculed when I was growing up that I am afraid that I would have become that scared little kid again and retreated.

Corarose I am SO sorry you are being forced to face jerks like this. I'd love to meet you because you sound like you are full of compassion. I don't know what you are studying but I hope you succeed.

They do not pay your bills nor do they give you your grade so they are NOTHING to you.

Here's a cyberhug for Corarose...

[corarose]

13. Le Cordon Bleu

Culinary Art's.

Thanks so much!

[ikojo]

19. Someone who knows her way around a kitchen!!

Wow! My uncle Mike's partner is a former pastry chef. He now manages a university cafeteria.


Do you hope to open your own restaurant? When or if you open your own place you should have a DU night before it's open to the public. DUers could meet and celebrate your success!

[corarose]

22. I want to be a tour chef and a Teacher.

I would love to have a DU night and cook comfort foods. I bet your uncle makes good sweets during the holidays.

[displacedtexan]

21. cripes!

you're going to have a great career and a happy life! those bozo heads probably won't even finish the program! i taught school for a zillion years before going to work for the democrats... and i'm jealous of what you're doing! what a cool career choice!

[Cheswick2.0]

10. Corarose

the teacher has a responsibility to maintain order in the class. I would complain if I were you. Actually I would tell them off in a very kindly and Mother Superior fasion. But that is me and If you knew me you would know why I can get away with it.

What you might want to do is talk to the teacher and see if he/she can stop that kind of nonsense from going on. The least that teacher can do is make sure the class is quiet enough to allow people to hear the lecture.

[Maddy McCall]

29. YES, I AGREE... PLEASE SEE MY RESPONSE (#28) ABOVE!

I teach college classes. I would not tolerate this! Take this to the teacher and the Dean of Students!

This semester is not even half over. You should NOT be expected to tolerate this kind of abuse. The Dean of Student's job is to handle these kinds of situations--and he cannot know about them if you do not report them.

OH WHAT I WOULD GIVE TO BE YOUR INSTRUCTOR! I WOULD LOVE TO HANDLE THIS SITUATION FOR YOU.

[soleft]

30. if it's affecting your concentration and enjoyment of the class

I agree, talk to the teacher and get him/her for an ally. Let the two assholes know the teacher is aware of inappropriate, immature behavior. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.

[DogKing]

11. Why don't you have any teeth CR?

I mean, dentures are pretty cheap.

[madmax]

14. She just had the surgery done...she's healing

and Welcome to DU

[DogKing]

15. ahhhh

Well, being a newbie, forgive me. Thanks!

[Don_G]

16. The Swelling Has To Go Down First

Before one can be fitted for dentures and THAT can take up to 6 weeks.

[Demobrat]

17. People who take pleasure in other people's misfortunes

are the most pathetic losers on earth. How low would your self esteem have to be? Think about it. How would it feel to think so little of yourself that you have to build yourself up that way? I can't even imagine, thanks goodness. Cora, I don't know if you remember, but you and I went to the same grammar and high school. I'm glad you came back. I wondered where you went.

[ikojo]

23. I'll bet if Corarose asked these jerks what political party

they identify with it would be the pukes....

I don't think even the most conservative Dem would treat people as these jerks do, at least I hope that would be the case.

From what Corarose says these guys must feel very low about themselves so they have to beat up on those they PERCEIVE as weak to make themselves appear big....Kind of like the chimp in the white house

[corarose]

24. Yes, I do remember you!

Thanks for reminding me about you and I both going to the same schools.
Do you know what Bateman & Roosevelt look like nowadays?

[Demobrat]

26. The last time I was in Chicago

was about three years ago. My mom still lives in the same house I grew up in. Bateman looked all built up, like they had added onto it, and the schoolyard was gone. Roosevelt looked the same, but somebody told me they had metal detectors now.

[corarose]

27. An old friend of mine that I grew up with still lives in the same house

Her house is now connected to Batemans School yard. They ripped the apt. buildings down next door to her because they were crack houses and the story was on the news one day about the drug dealers.
Do you remember Horner Park, Lutz Bakery, Iallios(?) Golden Crust Pizza, Harris Restaurant, The Theater On Irving Park, White Castle, and Superdawg?

[Demobrat]

33. The theatre on Irving was the Commodore.

I saw Hush, Hush Sweet Charlotte there as an impressionable child. I'm scarred forever. Crack houses, huh? My mom's street seems okay still, thank goodness. The neighborhood's changed, but most of those little frame houses still seem to be owned by hardworking people who keep them up. White Castle and Harris are still there.

[Gato Moteado]

49. superdawg.....

....is on da nort'west side over dere by milwaukee and devon. all dat udder stuff yer talkin' about is over dere near irving and california.

needless to say, superdawg does have da greatest hotdogs in da world. dey use da sinai brand dogs on dem maryann poppy seed buns. and dere french fries are da best...dose crinkle cut ones.

ah, now i'm hungry again. i sure could go for an italian beef (sweet, hot and wet) right about now. you guys wanna meet me over at connies on harlem and nort'?

[Gato Moteado]

50. oh yeah.....

....and da white castle's is on addison and elston. i ate 12 sliders one day after school at dat very place.

[Ohio Dem]

20. Were they the freepers from your English class?

That were making fun of Clinton until you made fun of Bush and the entire class laughed?

[corarose]

25. No, this is Math Class

50% of the students at my Culinary College are at least 250 pounds. The other guys in English Class they are your typical freeper type white guys.

These were two young black guys and they don't fit the freeper mold.

Rude is rude no matter where you are from or what race you are.

I can expect it from Freepers the only thing that they have in life is to make fun of other peoples weaknesses to boost their self esteem.

[JVS]

31. Don't let the bastards grind you down

[NJCher]

32. school's obligation

I agree that the instructor should have been all over them. If anyone in my class has the nerve to behave like that, I just stop everything and stare at them. Pretty soon the entire class is staring at them. I make sure the silence and the stares get damn uncomfortable before I resume.

You definitely should say something to the instructor. You're paying a lot of money to be in these classes and it's the school's obligation to make sure you're in an environment that makes it conducive to learning. Hold them to it.


Cher

[mvd]

34. Next time, tell them they..

act like kindergarteners. That worked for a class in my high school.

Very sorry you had to go through that.

[Demobrat]

35. Three words.

Some people's children.

[scucci]

36. Dittos to what the others have said

You don't have to put up with that crap. If anyone is interfering with your education you need to report it. I know it's hard to do now but you will thank your younger self in later years. Please talk to your counselors and professor about this harrassment. You deserve as much of an education as the rest of the students.
Go get 'em! I'm right behind you!

[WilliamPitt]

37. GOD DAMN IT

Where do you go to school? PM me if you don't want to publicize it.

Enough is enough.

[corarose]

42. Culinary College

It's the Le Cordon Bleu College in Chicago.

The Dean "The Head Chef" is a nice person and he told me to come back.
I am going to miss class today until I pick my teeth up in the morning and I hope they fit this time.
I have a bone on top sticking out where my tooth broke off as they were pulling it.

The little freeper in English Class has flags all over his books, jackets, etc.
If he says anything to me I am going to rip into him about Jr. because I can't stand his constant comments about the Democratic Party.
The little jerk weighs about 400 pounds and since I have been fat before I know how to hurt him but I don't want to. I don't want to lower myself at all.

I sit next to the baby maker and I am pretty sure he is a liberal because of his comments that he makes.

[WilliamPitt]

43. Keep your dignity, kid

You've got it pouring out of you. Don't let some...well...just read the thread.

[corarose]

45. I am not into making fun of people at all

If he starts on the Democratic Party again I will defend us but I won't bring the way he looks into any of it.
I am too old for that kind of stuff and It would make me look even worse.
He is definitely a freeper because he keeps making fun of the democrats and he is hung up on Clinton. He also hates Hillary and he was going on and on about the recall in CA.

[REP]

39. Fucking Asswipes

Please take the advice of the teachers here and let your instructor know. Instructors really do hate that kind of shit in their classrooms, and can and will make it stop!

I hope your healing is going well!

[Name removed]

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[DK666]

44. Next time

Leap up and scream you f*cking pervert dont you ever touch my boob again !!!!!

That should take care of them.

[Colin Ex]

46. It's not much consolation, but

someday your tax dollars will be paying for their prison cells.

(Apologies to Calvin and Hobbes.)

[LuLu550]

47. just read this whole thread

there is good advice here and lots of support. There are so many losers out there trying to make themselves feel better by putting others down. They win if you let it upset you. I know it is hard, but you have to rise above their pettiness. Report it to the dean of students and find peace and support here and with your friends.

[DK666]

52. I could

talk to my ice hockey team and we could make a road trip. To have a "DISCUSSION" with these gents....

[corarose]

53. Gee Thanks!

I guess they could use a good old ass whipping.

[Don_G]

54. DK666 Has A Good Idea

Open up a six-pack of "Whoop-Ass."

We're here for you if you need support.

[DK666]

55. We have ?

There are 15 players on our team. Im the "smaller" defense man at 6'2 225lbs.

Where ya located at ?

[corarose]

58. Chicago

Our College has a restaurant in it why don't you come by and have dinner some time.

[DK666]

59. Oh man

Were in So Cal...

[YellowRubberDuckie]

56. Cora, Humans suck...

And until they get some kind of warning from your dean, it's going to continue. My freshman year, three guys got kicked out of school because they were making this girl's life hell...She was bald from cancer treatments and puffy. They apologized, and she ended up passing away from her illness, but those boys were screwed for their entire achedemic careers. Just goes to show...don't mess with the people who are different...
Duckie

[classics]

57. If thats the worst you ever get in school...

be thankful.

There are people who have it so bad you cant even imagine it. Be thankful you cant.