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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:26 AM
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Just found out my 9 year old cousin has an inoperable brain tumor
My family is freaking devastated :( If you're the praying type, please pray. If you aren't, please send happy thoughts and vibes his way. This sucks so much :( He's such a sweet, sweet kid.

Why? WHY?!?!?!?!?!

:( :( :(
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bif Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:27 AM
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1. Positive vibes comiing your way!
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:51 PM
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16. thank-you very much
:)
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stepnw1f Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:28 AM
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2. I'm Sorry wicket
My thoughts are with you.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:52 PM
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17. Thank-you
:) It is greatly appreciated.
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demnan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:28 AM
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3. I am so sorry
Is it possible to get another opinion or any treatment? God, I'm so sorry I hate when a child is mortally ill.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:53 PM
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18. treatment
His being treated at Dartmouth Hitchcock in NH which has a great cancer facility, and will be going through 7 weeks of radiation and chemo. I hope it works, he's got such a fight ahead of him :(
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eternalburn Donating Member (400 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:30 AM
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4. Sending only the best vibes your way....
...don't give up hope.

I'm so sorry for your heartache. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:55 PM
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19. Thank-you eternalburn
You are incredibly kind :) Definitely not giving up hope, they are going to try radiation and chemo in hopes of shrinking it. It's on a really bad place- the brain stem.
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meti57b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:30 AM
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5. may G-d bless and heal him. I will be thinking of him and your family.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:55 PM
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20. Thank-you very much
:) I appreciate it greatly.
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:32 AM
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6. So sorry.
:grouphug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:56 PM
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21. Thank-you
:) Hugs right back at ya :grouphug:
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LiberalEsto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:36 AM
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7. Goddess bless this child
and give him and his family healing.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:57 PM
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22. Thank-you so much
You are very kind. :)
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MostlyLurks Donating Member (738 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:46 AM
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8. ~~~~VIBES~~~~~VIBES~~~~~
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:58 PM
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23. Much appreciated
:)
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montana_hazeleyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 10:47 AM
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9. Oh wicket,
I'm so sorry. I'll be sending my hopes and caring thoughts towards your family.:hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:58 PM
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24. Thank-you very much
That is very comforting :) :hug:
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porkrind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 11:00 AM
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10. So Sorry. Good Vibes and Karma headed your way!
Kids are too sweet and innocent for bad things to happen to them. :(

:grouphug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:00 PM
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25. Thank-you porkrind
It's just not fair, but he's got a lot of fight left in him yet. :hug:
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Obamarama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 11:10 AM
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11. Get in touch with this organization immediately:
American Brain Tumor Association
http://hope.abta.org/site/PageServer

They are a source of A LOT of very good information. If your family has any resources to do so, try to get your cousin to Dr. Ben Carson at Johns Hopkins University, or Dr. Canaday at University of Michigan's Mott's Children's Hospital for a second opinion.

My niece had both of them as doctors and they are experts in pediatric brain tumors. In the face of "no hope" and "three to six months" offered by other doctors, they gave us four additional, quality years with her.

I have been down this road. Please feel free to contact me via private message if you would like more background/information.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:01 PM
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26. Wow, great info, thanks!!!
I will definitely pass this all along to my aunt, she's starved for info right now. So sorry to hear you had to go through this too :(
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One_Life_To_Give Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 11:11 AM
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12. Prayers, thoughts and vibes
Wow that just knocks the wind out of my sails.
So young
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:03 PM
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28. Thank-you very much
I hear ya about it knocking the wind out of the sails, it's absolutely devastating :( But we're keeping positive for him, even though he doesn't really understand much right now.
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 11:12 AM
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13. Wow. That is sad news. So unfair.
I'll say a prayer for your cousin. :hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:03 PM
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29. Thank-you bunnyj!
:hug: :hug: :)
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amandae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 11:18 AM
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14. I'm sending all of my thoughts, vibes and well-wishes his way
and also for your family! How horrible for him and your family! I am so sorry! :(

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:17 PM
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31. thank-you SO much
:) :hug: :hug: and more :hug: right back at you.
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Lady Freedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 11:20 AM
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15. Hang in there!
:hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:17 PM
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33. thanks for your support
:hug:
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LeftPeopleFinishFirst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:02 PM
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27. Very sorry to hear this
It puts things in perspective. I'm praying for your family and the little guy. :hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:18 PM
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35. Thank-you very much
:hug:
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Dyedinthewoolliberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:04 PM
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30. Something like this
puts everything else in perspective, doesn't it?
I am a praying type and will thinnk of your cousin when I do.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:21 PM
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37. it is greatly appreciated
Thank-you so much. :hug:
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:17 PM
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32. Oh my God.
My prayers and best wishes are with your family. Dear God, protect him and all the children and keep them safe.
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:25 PM
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39. thank-you so much
My family and Marshall greatly. :hug:
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:27 PM
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40. Love you Marshall, love you, love you.
I want to say I am sorry to him and all the children in this country. I am sorry we failed you. Please get better and be better at this when you grow up than we were. We love you. :hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 03:52 PM
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48. You are so kind
Thank-you from the bottom of my heart :hug:
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:18 PM
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34. I'm so sorry.
It puts the election results into perspective for me to hear such horrible news. I'm sending happy thoughts and vibes your family's way. :hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:27 PM
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41. thank-you pithlet
:hug: Mighty appreciated :)
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ps1074 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:20 PM
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36. Prayers, Vibes and Hugs
:grouphug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:28 PM
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43. thank-you
:) :hug: :hug:
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:24 PM
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38. (((((((((( wicket ))))))))))
Oh my gosh.

How much bad news do we need?
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:30 PM
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44. thank-you
It has been quite a bad day, but there's always hope. :hug:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:27 PM
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42. I'm so sorry.
Sending prayers for your cousin, you and your family. There is no why. I have a friend with that condition and I hope his goes the same way or better... it has shrunk and grown over time but so far so good.

:hug:
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:34 PM
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46. thank-you redqueen
I am so sorry you have had to go through this too with a loved one. I hope your friend will be ok! :hug:
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flygal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:33 PM
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45. OMG - I'm so sorry for your family!
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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:35 PM
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47. thanks flygal
We still have a lot of hope. :hug:
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