My mother has cancer

[MissMillie]

Wow..... I can't believe these words are coming out of my mouth.

The prognosis is excellent. They removed the lump when the did the biopsy. They'll have to check surrounding lymph nodes for cancer to make sure it hasn't already spread. They will also do a course of radiation to make sure that there isn't any cancer in her system to spread or grow.

My mom is in excellent spirits. To her there is no other option but "I'm going to be fine."

I know she will be fine too.

I guess it's just so hard to swallow. My mom has cancer.

[Dookus]

1. hang in there...

there's a helluva lot of good news in there. She'll get through it - don't let the word scare you so much. Best of luck to you both.

[fdr_hst_fan]

6. Yes, don't give up hope-

it's sounds like she'll be just fine! A toast to her health!

:toast:

[LuLu550]

2. It sounds like she will beat it, too!

Know a lot of people will be thinking of her and you! :grouphug:

[MuseRider]

3. I remember those words.

My mother was given no positive outcomes but you have them so keep her spirits up and that will help a lot. It is a shocker. I hope you are OK. Sending good vibes to you and to your mother. I am sorry.

[GOPisEvil]

4. Tell her to keep that positive attitude.

It really does help.

[democratreformed]

5. (((((((MissMillie))))))))

My mom had uterine cancer. She had a hysterectomy and the prognosis was good - no treatments or anything. Ironically, she died nine years later from some sort of heart problem or bloot clot.

[Jo March]

8. Sending good wishes to your mom

My best friend is battling liver cancer. It's hard for us to watch and not be able to do much. Of course, we love all over her so she does have that!

Hang in there and let us know if you need anything. The battle is hard but it's even harder if fought alone.

[GainesT1958]

7. I'm relieved for her...and for you...

That it sounds as though they caught it in an early stage...and can treat it to bring it into remission fairly soon. It's always pretty shocking news; I remember when I found out that my mother had advanced breast cancer--that was a hard one to take!

But I bet she's going to pull through in good shape--and in 100% remission! I'll say one for her--and for you!

B-)

[Gothic Sponge]

9. I'm sorry to hear!

At least she in good spirits. Hang in there.

[johnnie]

10. Keep up a positive spirit

As you say, the prognosis is excellent and that is a great sign. They can do so much these days. Take care.

[xultar]

11. BE POSITIVE!!! Early Detection !! Great News on the prognosis!!!

Though cancer is a terrible terrible thing.

Early dection is the key to a good prognosis.

I'm glad to hear your mom has excellent spirits.
You'll have to be strong for her in the spirit area if hers start to dip.
We'll be strong for you here @ DU!

My Prayers and good thoughts are on their way to you and your family!

[soleft]

12. It's not the same as it was years ago

Today it seems people are recovering from cancer all the time. By boss had thyroid cancer 8 years ago and has been fine since his initial treatment. I hope the news is good for all her tests.

[SoCalDem]

13. Those are the hardest words to say..But she will be fine

Her attitude is good, and the doctors will see to it that she does fine.. It's scary, but she and you will get through it.. Thank goodness they discovered it early ...:hug:

[Mikimouse]

14. Lots of hope for her to be just fine...

There have been so many advances since I got out of health care that it boggles the mind. In addition, early detection is the key and it sounds like you got it! My very best wishes to you both.

[commander bunnypants]

15. so sorry

I know how you feel. My mom is going through it her second time around.

DDQM

[Nikia]

16. Good luck

Cancer isn't always a death sentence though. Many people have suxxessfully had their cancer removed. I hope this is the case with your mother.

[UrbScotty]

17. John Kerry had cancer.

My high school principal had cancer.

The mayor of Grand Rapids had cancer.

They all survived, and so will your mom.

[JVS]

18. Hope things go well for your mother and you

[Rowdyboy]

19. I know it must be very hard to accept....

I wish her the best of luck!

My partner's ex-wife stopped by yesterday and told me she has a breast biopsy scheduled for later in the day. She was scared but calm. I envy women for their emotional strength.

[matcom]

20. she is gonna do just fine

Mrs Matcom had cervical cancer 4 years back. PM me if you need to know what to expect

hell, i'll CALL you and we can talk if you like

{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

[RUSTY SHACKLEFORD]

21. My mom went through it too.

A hellish year but she's fine now.

My next door neighbor, however, got a death sentence this week. His prognosis is he's got two weeks to live. They've brought in Hospice and it's so sad; it's a grim reminder of my own mortality.

Instead of a war on terror, we should be having a war on cancer.

Good luck.

[Bunny]

22. I felt that way when my dad was diagnosed.

It was a stunning thing to hear myself say. Happily, it turned out okay - he had surgery, radiation, and follow-ups and remained cancer free. It's good that your mom is so positive - that makes a huge difference in her treatment and recovery. Good wishes to both of you!

[Cybergata]

23. I truly believe...

the most positive thing is that your mom is in excellent spirits. This will help her heal quicker.

My father was an eternal optimist. Whether it was a by-pass or cancer treatment, his point of view was this is the price of admission to life. Optimism is a very powerful medicine.

My thoughts are with your mother, Nancy

:hippie:

[bearfan454]

24. Positive vibes to her.

She will be fine.

[Taverner]

25. Sending love and support your way

Since your mom is in such good spirits means a lot - she'll beat this.

[flamingyouth]

26. Oh, honey, come over here and let me give you a big hug

I'm so sorry for you and for your family. Please know that I am thinking of you and if there is anything at all I can do to help, or if you just want to talk, PM me anytime. Your family is in my prayers. Bless your mother for her excellent attitude - it will get her far. Sending lots of love.
:loveya: Lisa

[bigwillq]

27. My thoughts are with you

It seems like mother is handling this well, so if she can, you can.
Positive vibes!!

I would think it would be hard to accept this about your mother but if the outlook is strong for her than your thinking should go from
"My mom has cancer" to "My mom survived cancer and is doing so well"

My mom had a cancer scare earlier this year so in some regards I know how you feel.

You all will get through this together and in the meantime

you have all of us here at DU for love and support.

[RFKHumphreyObama]

28. My thoughts, prayers and best wishes are extended to your mom

and your family. All the very, very best MissMillie

[MissMillie]

29. Thank you all for your support

I just got back in from my commute and dinner w/ my son and a few errands I had to run. What a blessing to have so much support from you all. I've been sitting here with a drink reading all your messages and PMs and I'm overwhelmed.

The news I got today was surreal, but the warmth I got here is just plain amazing.

Thank you all so much.

I'm gonna have a few drinks, hit the sack, and then start tomorrow knowing that everything will be ok.

[senseandsensibility]

30. These days

cancer and other serious diseases can be survived, thank God. My own mother survived a very serious heart aneurism just a couple of months ago, and her recovery is on track. It wasn't looking good there for a while. You sound positive, although I know these things are frightening and mind boggling. My thoughts are with you and your Mom.:pals:

[ChavezSpeakstheTruth]

31. Hand in there!

We're here for any support you may need!

:hug:

[MissMillie]

32. hand in where? LOL

Sorry CSTT..... I guess I just couldn't help myself. Must be the alcohol.

[mdmc]

33. tell your Mom to hand in there!

Were with you, Mille! Peace and low stress!

[ChavezSpeakstheTruth]

39. I do my best cheering up despite myself!!!!

LOL - keep you're hand in there - you'll be fine - :)

[2bfree]

34. Been there, done that...........

Wishing you and your Mom the best. Check out Susan Love's breast cancer book, it is the best one out there with the newest info.

[Bertha Venation]

35. Hope is powerful -- and required!

:hug: You're both in my prayers, Millie.

Is this breast cancer? I know at least seven survivors at work -- all are fine. :)

[MissMillie]

37. yes... breast cancer (n/t)

.

[Bertha Venation]

38. Tell your mom these names:

Carol
Renee
Frankie
Judy
Pam
Cathy
Petra

These are the survivors I know. You and she and I probably know a lot more without being aware of it.

[GreenPartyVoter]

36. *hugs* You just stay strong and positive, just like your mom!

[jukes]

40. MissMillie

most sorry, i know you're frightened.

they've come so far w/treatment. i hope for the best.

[Mara Steele]

41. Sounds like she is doing really well, MissMillie...

Hang in there with her, things will be fine!

The prognosis sounds excellent,

And I'm sending good vibes to you both...

:hug: :hug: :hug:

[SarahB]

42. Sending positive thoughts your way.

My mother had endometrial cancer a few years ago and because it was caught early, after surgery and radiation (didn't even need chemo), she's done well- almost 5 years in remission. I wish your mom all my best. :hug:

[Maestro]

43. I just recovered from a bout of cancer

and I can tell you that cancer is very treatable when caught early enough and it sounds like your mother is well cared for. Positive thoughts sent your way.

[rocktop15]

44. Good luck.

My thoughts and prayers are with ya. I'll be thinking about this.